All tied up...

ClubIrish

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My girlfriend and I are experimenting with handcuffs and other restraints. What are some fun activities besides the obvious that we can try that will enhance our experience? Any and all suggestions would be appreciated, thanks.
 
I would suggest maybe doing another thread worded exactly like this one on the BDSM board...I am sure that they could help you out and would enjoy the company....
 
I don't know, he might get better answers over there, but then he might get more interesting ones over here. :)

It's true isn't it, that any question of a sexual nature (and some which are not sexual at all) can be asked in this forum?

Anyway, here are a couple of suggestions on what to do with a pair of cuffs that I probably wouldn't have thought of inside the bdsm forum because there I tend to think somebody wants bdsm suggestions and not general suggestions.

1. Lots of non-bdsm people have a thing for uniforms. Maybe the person wearing the cuffs could wear as authentic a uniform as he or she could get of someone who might carry the cuffs. I like police uniforms the best, but some women prefer firmen and some men prefer harsh scholmistress or head of a detention school. All these types might have a pair of cuffs handy on them.

2. If you or your partner are into exhibitionistic/vouyeristic activities, use the cuffs to make a public exposure more daring. Like dare your partner to cuff herself nude to some street fixture while you hold the key.

3. Take creative and sexy or even funny photographs of your partner with the shiny steel lying across his or her body in various interesting ways. Then have them do the same for you. Pose in ways with the cuffs that are sexy to you. Make this the start of your own private hot sexual photoalbum...that is if you can trust your partner not to publish you on the Internet someday!

As for various bondage positions to use with this sort of thing, it's hard to know what to suggest until you tell us what you've already done! What is the "usual old stuff?"

Unda

Unrelated smut photo:
 
Not the usual bedroom games...

1. Paddles, whips, candle wax, nipple clippy things like those mini chip clip do-dads, ice and feathers come to mind. These are fairly obvious though, and may have been tried already.

2. Guess the vegetable. Blindfold her and insert various vegetables. Have her guess what it is. Have a reward for a correct guess and a punishment for a wrong one.

3. Fun with restraints. Tie her up spread-eagle and take her just to the edge of climax. Leave the room for a couple minutes. Lather, rinse, repeat. She'll be begging release in no time.

4. Intense stimulation. When she's all hot and bothered, put a vibrator in her ass. Wrap a string of beads around your cock and gently work in and out of her pussy. Wow.

5. Tingly sensations. Chew up an Altoid and when it's finely ground up, lick it on her clit. This one works both ways.

Outside the bedroom...

6. Vibrations. Invest in one of those remote controlled eggs and go out in public. Intermittently turn it on and off.

7. Titty torture. Tape quarters to the inside of her bra where her nipple is. Or if you're a bit sadistic, sand paper. She'll be thinking about you the whole time.
 
I did this the other night and we both loved it!

-Tie her down spreadeagle to the bed stretching her kind of tight. Then eat ice cream (or any other kind of food you wish that's messy) off of her body making sure some of it gets into her bellybutton or other "crevasses" and dig it out with a spoon.
 
handcuffs

a variation that my ex used to like to do with a pair of cuffs was to put them on me when I was naked and hard. she would put one cuff on my wrist and the other around my cock and balls. this would lock me my hand to my genitals. she would then make me jerk off for her entertainment.
 
Thanks...

Thanks guys, this was exactly what I was looking for, I am sure all of this advice will provide lots of fun! More would be appreciated.;)
 
Re: Not the usual bedroom games...

Red Menace said:

2. Guess the vegetable. Blindfold her and insert various vegetables. Have her guess what it is. Have a reward for a correct guess and a punishment for a wrong one.


6. Vibrations. Invest in one of those remote controlled eggs and go out in public. Intermittently turn it on and off.

wow, those are the best suggestions I've seen so far. Its turning me on. :kiss:
 
I tied up my girl with bandanas to the bed posts and used all sorts of stuff all over her body before I started giving it to her. I was erotic when we were having sex because she was left motionless.
 
one thing my squirrel and i tried recently was cuffing (with leather wrist and ankle cuffs...i'm sure you can improvise) my wrists to my ankles...right wrist to right ankle, left to left. It was really fun = )

Chicklet
 
Thank you Red Menace!

Whew! Wee! Thank you, baby! I got enough ideas from your post alone to last for a month. Thanks, darlin', I'm glad I came in to read THIS one!

S.
 
BUMPITY BUMP BUMP

This is so damn full of fun info it just HAS to bumped.

Yeah, I'm in a nostalgic kinda mode tonight.

Ang
 
I prefer to tease when the wife's ummm all tied up. :)

Put a blindfold on her and tell her she's not allowed to speak. Then use a feather, or a bit of fur. At the same time, I place Mr. Purple, our vibrating jelly dong right up against her pussy. Not on her clit, not inside her. Just on the outside and vibrating at full speed to let her know its there.

Sometimes when she's bound like this, I like to straddle and and tease her by rubbing my dick against her face, but not quite close enough for her to give me head. You'd be amazed how far her neck will stretch trying to catch me in her mouth.

If you're really feeling nasty, tie her up, blindfold her, insert the toy of your choice into her, then dial up her mom and put her on the phone with mom while you nibble on her. Trying to hold a conversation when you're in that situation is next to impossible.

:D
 
These are all very hot and fun suggestions. Will have to try some...

One of my favorite memories using handcuffs was being cuffed while face down in my college dorm while my bf gave it to me from behind... mmm..
 
I'd say bind her then tease her relentlessly till she's about to explode then...............




go make a sammich. That'll get 'er back for all the times she had a headache lol!!!













Ok I'm kidding, don't do that. That'll make some women get a gun!!!!
 
hmmm.... tie her up, tease her, make her beg - over and over again. Some of the best orgasms I've had have been when I've been teased so much that I've been crying for it.

And I love the guessing which vegetable game! I had a girl do that to me once, when I was blindfolded and handcuffed. She teased me, I begged, she spanked me, I begged, she went in the kitchen and got a bunch of stuff, and came back and made me guess what each was as she teased my pussy. I failed every time.... failure has never been so well rewarded though.
 
I enjoy simply tying her hands behind her back and then take her to the mall. Hey, she can't buy anything.
 
lilnymph28 said:
hmmm.... tie her up, tease her, make her beg - over and over again. Some of the best orgasms I've had have been when I've been teased so much that I've been crying for it.

And I love the guessing which vegetable game! I had a girl do that to me once, when I was blindfolded and handcuffed. She teased me, I begged, she spanked me, I begged, she went in the kitchen and got a bunch of stuff, and came back and made me guess what each was as she teased my pussy. I failed every time.... failure has never been so well rewarded though.

Hell yeah I've done that exact same thing before after watching 9 1/2 weeks and wanting to do it for so long. I can't wait to get the chance again that is fantastic!:D:p
 
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