ALERT! To all the young ladies!

[Suzi]

Good evening I am the anti-Christ....

Ha! Made ya look!

 

[ChefChip]

I'll bump this thread up because it seems important and should be at the top of the list

 

[ChefChip]

keep this up at the top, you guys should make sure that this thread stays at the top of the list. It is important to warn people and Suzi has a reason to let you all know so read this thing

 

[Shaq]

keep this up at the top, you guys should make sure that this thread stays at the top of the list. It is important to warn people and Suzi has a reason to let you all know so read this thing

Actually pal, I think you may be doing a diservice in this case. I like Suzi but her post is by no means ALERT! material. It seems she has a problem with the guy's personality and about the nature of his email exchange or intentions.


She hasn't said he hurt her or anything and it seems like she's more pissed than injured.

I just hope she didn't make this post out of anger of some slight made by the man because I have to admit that's what it seems like.

 

[ChefChip]

i just think that if it was important enough for her to put out there then people should give it some attention. even if it was a personal grudge, he did something to deserve it and there may be others who are about to commit the same wrong and should know ahead of time that it doesn't go over well here

 

[Shaq]

i just think that if it was important enough for her to put out there then people should give it some attention. even if it was a personal grudge, he did something to deserve it and there may be others who are about to commit the same wrong and should know ahead of time that it doesn't go over well here

But we don't know that he did something wrong. It's not fair to make a spectacle of a person as an "example" when all we have so far is a one paragraph post that looks like it was made in anger.

If Suzi comes back into this thread and clearly lists and comments on every reason why she feels that young ladies need to beware of him then by all means make a thread.

But if she's upset because of some kind of misunderstanding of the long term potential of the relationship, which is what her post reads like, then it's not fair for her or us to treat him badly because of a misunderstanding on her part.

Live and learn, but what she said about him to me, doesn't seem like he's dangrous and not enough to warrant an action.

 

[Suzi]

*yawn*

someone wake me when this is over, ok?

 

[Shaq]

Re: Excuse Me Shaq...but!

It was the funniest thing...Mbb started out with flirting with this woman and myself...I PMd him. We wrote back and forth. Then he led me to believe he was the intelligent sort. Then I saw his post in Older Man wanted....which made him sound like he was on the prowl...there were just too many contradictions. He got all offended when I called him on the carpet for it..insinuating he was looking for a woman just to get laid....He took such offense that he told me not to write to him. I think he saw my thread where I talked about my new boyfriend...lol

I understand what you're saying Suzi but I really don't think from what you've said that you're justified to make this thread and the reason why is some people are going to think MBB really hurt you and that hasn't happened.

Think of this in your everyday life. If you know someone whom you think is distrustful then you don't have to hang out with them. But to go to a party and say "Everyone look out for him because...." is just wrong.

Another point is your complaint is way too personal. We all contradict ourselves one point or another, maybe he just did it on the board. Maybe his views changed, but it seems you called him out on it and then there was some animosity between the two of you after your conversation.

I'm not disregarding your feelings toward him or saying your intentions were wrong, but I think when you make a thread like that warning other people about someone you need to be trying to look out for others and keep them safe.

It seems like you don't like a guy and you don't want anyone else to like him either...

 

[mbb308]

Okay

I looked....

 

[Shaq]

*pulls up lawn chair*

*takes out microwave kennel corn*

*opens cooler*

*waits for sparks to fly*

 

[mbb308]

BEER????

Tell me its PBR!!!! Please????

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

Hmmmm

Sorry but i have to agree with Shaq on this one. Seems like a lot made out of little, but always a spectator for a good fight.

Ding, Ding, round one!

 

[Shaq]

Re: BEER????

Tell me its PBR!!!! Please????

Yeah it's beer....ROOT BEER! Mr. Pibb...

 

[zetacon4]

Suzi, dear, I am as interested in what is NOT being said, as what IS being said here. You can see there is such a brief amount of info on this. If there is more to it than just a spat about how you view his intentions, could you be kind enough to tell us about that?

Generally, we are mostly kind and forgiving here. I am open-minded about things. Nice of mbb to take this as graciously as he is. The subject matter is of some interest too.

 

[Shaq]

Suzi, dear, I am as interested in what is NOT being said, as what IS being said here. You can see there is such a brief amount of info on this. If there is more to it than just a spat about how you view his intentions, could you be kind enough to tell us about that?

Generally, we are mostly kind and forgiving here. I am open-minded about things. Nice of mbb to take this as graciously as he is. The subject matter is of some interest too.

In other words...continue to debate this subject...we await eagerly..

In other news....Damn good av Zeta!

 

[bubman]

hey Shaq........ can i sit here ??? (pulling up a seat)i was looking around and the sounds comeing out of here............. well i just had to come see whats going on............
for me, i found out a long time ago to keep my mouth shut...... what i think doesn't matter....... it has nothing to do with me...... but i do like to see a good exchange of words...... so by all means have at it

 

[Shaq]

hey Shaq........ can i sit here ??? (pulling up a seat)i was looking around and the sounds comeing out of here............. well i just had to come see whats going on............
for me, i found out a long time ago to keep my mouth shut...... what i think doesn't matter....... it has nothing to do with me...... but i do like to see a good exchange of words...... so by all means have at it

*Hands Bubman a Mr. Pibb*

 

[wildrose70]

Re: Tempest in a teapot

Gee! Such a to-do, and all about....

I'm not sure whether to:
1. Laugh
2. Cry
3. Go put my head in the oven
Maybe we could start a poll....

"Pompous asshole"? No cherry there, Suzi. Shall I add other adjectives? I asked you not to write to me, so you posted me like Jesse James. I guess you won't be ignored, will you???

you know it always kills me ..when people start making accusations... I'm sure there are many on here that we could or should be warned about...but lets give everyone a fair chance...I really dont know either that well...but I have learned over the years...many of them..not to be too fast to codemn or critize....

 

[bi-kelly-NJ]

Hey Shaq!

You got enough popcorn to share? I'll share my Lambic....peach
Let's enjoy the debate...)

--
Kelly

 

[shysub]

Warning to all

Instead of sharing about all the personal predators out there, women (and men) should in general, be careful. On-line is so much different then real life because you can't see the people in action. You can only assume you understand the tone in which things are written, and that also gets miscommunicated a lot. It is very important to really get to know someone before you ever meet.

I did have an incident that happened over a year ago where a man pretended to be 3 different people I chatted with on-line. I almost met this person in real life, and it was completely by a fluke that I found out what he truly was. I can never say who is was because he gave me and another woman two completely different stories. He pretended to be other people to get to know our thoughts and feelings and then came up with a person we thought we needed in our lives.

ALWAYS be careful

 

[wildrose70]

Now that I can really understand...I had the same thing happen to me..when i first got on the computer..this man told me all kinds of stories...then when I didnt want to talk to him anymore..he started threatening me ....he didnt want me to talk to any other man....but all the things he told me were nothing but lies..he was still married..and was doing the same thing to many other women...unfortunately for him....we caught him in the act!!!

Needless to say....I had nothing further to do with him!!!!

 

[Suzi]

That you would understand....Ha!

So...IF mbb308 was the type of man I think he is, you think that a young lady should wait until he shows up on her doorstep to find out what kind of man he really is? Bull shit!

You people do not think much of me, that much I know. I have talked with this man in PMs and email and seen this bullshit in writing (unfortunately did not keep it---would have made my case easier to prove). I know what MY instincts tell me. I posted the warning. There is nothing more I can do.

 

[Suzi]

*Ahem*

BUMP

 

[Shaq]

Re: *Ahem*

BUMP

Uh...dear...why did you bump a thread that says absolutely nothing?

I'm just not understanding the purpose now that you deleted the claims you made....

 

[ShiningEyes]

Re: Warning to all

Instead of sharing about all the personal predators out there, women (and men) should in general, be careful. On-line is so much different then real life because you can't see the people in action. You can only assume you understand the tone in which things are written, and that also gets miscommunicated a lot. It is very important to really get to know someone before you ever meet.

I did have an incident that happened over a year ago where a man pretended to be 3 different people I chatted with on-line. I almost met this person in real life, and it was completely by a fluke that I found out what he truly was. I can never say who is was because he gave me and another woman two completely different stories. He pretended to be other people to get to know our thoughts and feelings and then came up with a person we thought we needed in our lives.

ALWAYS be careful

Well Said!!