AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! I'm PISSED!!!!!*sorry for the vent*

[nasty]

Well, it looks like I'm in a relationship,(with a man, that is.) Although, it may not last, since, I can't really fuck. I take tthe higest dose of Viagra for a "lift-off." The thing is, I'M STILL quite a bit flaccid. And, the docs method to try and help me isn't working. Plus, I've tried a penis enlargement program from the net. Which, won't help, because, the exercises call for the penis to be erect. And, I have no control over my erections. In fact, I can't even get hard well watching porn,(well, it all depends on the raciness of it.) If I stay with a semi-erect penis all my life, how on earth will I ever have intercourse, or, anal?

 

[ksmybuttons]

Have you tried the injections?

 

[MissTaken]

If your new friend really wants to be your SO, he is likely to help you find ways to deal with this issue.

Are you on any meds that would affect you ability to get and maintain an erection?

Relax a bit, nasty. As far as the new relationship...if it is meant to be, it will happen.


hugs

 

[nasty]

Have you tried the injections?

Not yet. I see the docs in a few months, so, I may try it. The only other option is surgery, and I WONT do that, because it's REALLY dangerous. The thing that really pisses me off isn't the thing I'm in now with the guy, but, having sex with woman. Plus, being in a wheelchair, I know that you can't orgasm, and, obviously, feel a damn thing. GOD!!!!!! I wish I could experience sex the way you guys do.

 

[ksmybuttons]

Just have to find your orgasm spot. I have a friend in a chair who uses the injections. Works for him and his partner. Why wait a couple of months?

 

[nasty]

Just have to find your orgasm spot. I have a friend in a chair who uses the injections. Works for him and his partner. Why wait a couple of months?

I have to wait a few month, because, that's the only time he could get me in. I obviously don't want to wait, but, you do what you gotta do.

 

[lavender]

 

[glamorilla]

Have you ever considered using a cock ring or something...If you snap it on tight after youre semi hard itll help maintain the erection and when its time for it to come off your head'll go loopy.

 

[goddess]

L-arginine seems to help and using viagra several times 100mg dosage seems to have a build up affect. Good luck. Keep trying.

 

[nasty]

L-arginine seems to help and using viagra several times 100mg dosage seems to have a build up affect. Good luck. Keep trying.

Yeah, I use the 100mgs of Viagra.

 

[ksmybuttons]

Give the doc a call and tell the office what you want, I bet they can get you in earlier - the docs not going to teach you how to do it, I am sure someone else will. Something you can do with a partner.

 

[nasty]

Have you ever considered using a cock ring or something...If you snap it on tight after youre semi hard itll help maintain the erection and when its time for it to come off your head'll go loopy.

Nope. But, they're latex. I'm allergic to latex. I know what you're thinking. I have condoms made latex-free.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

which I could suggest something to help......

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[nasty]

hmm...where the heck have I been...nasty, I had no idea.

I only mentioned it about a dozen times.

P.S. I didn't mean for that to come out snotty. What I mean, is, that info. on me probably got buried under all the other threads.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[glamorilla]

Nope. But, they're latex. I'm allergic to latex. I know what you're thinking. I have condoms made latex-free.

Actually I was thinking look into a leather or even a metal cockring...especially a thin one which will really restrict the flow of blood and help maintain the hard on.

I know a guy (I know lots of guys...) who after having prostate surgery had a lot of difficulty getting it up...he used to use a vaccuum pump to help him out...that might help too.