age does it matter
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midwestyankee
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Matter to whom?
FlaminLeviathan
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To some extent I don't think it matters but of cors theres a limit (where someones decisions may be influenced by the other) and that limit differs in different people.
My limit would probably be an age gap of 4-5 yrs but that would probably change when I'm an old fogie and want a young lass to play with
on the other hand the age gap between my parents is 11yrs and thier still happily together so it can always work out.
My limit would probably be an age gap of 4-5 yrs but that would probably change when I'm an old fogie and want a young lass to play with
on the other hand the age gap between my parents is 11yrs and thier still happily together so it can always work out.
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I can tell you personally I've never understood the amount of emphasis we seem to place on age. I could care less myself. I'm 22. I've been turned on by women quite a bit more than twice my age, by 18 year olds, and by everything in between. I see no problem with that. If two people want to be together and they mesh as a couple, I could care less about any age gap between them. Just my two cents.
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Annora said:
So what is it in the age that gives older men an advantage in your mind?
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Erotica shouldn't happen only in the bed with the lights turned down low. It should be filled with moments thru out a day. Little things, touches, smiles winks when something crosses your paths.
Knowingly brushing up to one another. A stollen kiss, perhaps even a touch that shouldn't happen in public.
Conversation should be easy going, not one that you have to work at.
When you have the age span, younger in years its tougher to hit
the topics of interest.
All though younger men may have staying power, an older man can be enjoyed with soft cocks, stirring his level of pleasure..
I do so enjoy bringing a softened cock back to being erect with my mouth.
Knowingly brushing up to one another. A stollen kiss, perhaps even a touch that shouldn't happen in public.
Conversation should be easy going, not one that you have to work at.
When you have the age span, younger in years its tougher to hit
the topics of interest.
All though younger men may have staying power, an older man can be enjoyed with soft cocks, stirring his level of pleasure..
I do so enjoy bringing a softened cock back to being erect with my mouth.
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Age in itself I don't think matters. However, it is the level of maturity on both sides, what your interests are, what your goals are, what you are looking for etc.... and that applies to ppl that are the same age. If you have nothing in common than no matter how good the sex is/isn't isn't going to matter.
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tonitits said:
You said it all right there, toni.
bra_man69 said:the way things are today in this world does it matter if a man is 40 something and his girl friend is 20 something are the other way around
In a way it does for me...I would have a hard time being with someone younger, but not older.
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You can have a younger guy and he can act like a child but then you could have an older one that does the same thing.
I agree with what Toni said: **Age in itself I don't think matters. However, it is the level of maturity on both sides, what your interests are, what your goals are, what you are looking for etc.... and that applies to ppl that are the same age. If you have nothing in common than no matter how good the sex is/isn't isn't going to matter.**
I agree with what Toni said: **Age in itself I don't think matters. However, it is the level of maturity on both sides, what your interests are, what your goals are, what you are looking for etc.... and that applies to ppl that are the same age. If you have nothing in common than no matter how good the sex is/isn't isn't going to matter.**
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Not at all, My partner is nearly 10 years my junior, my best friend is married to a man 12 years her senior. I went to a wedding last year; he was 25, she was 42. I have friends who are 36 and 48 and have been married for 17 years. I dont think it matters, as long as you are happy together, and compliment each other.
I had some issues, but mainly concerned with what others think. Now I dont give a proverbial. And my man was 23 when I met him and is the best lover I have ever had.We tried living in different states for 6 months, but got back together.
You cant change the past, and cant decide your future, so I just enjoy everyday we are together now. He might not be here when I am old and the body rot has set in, but I have some magic memories and no regrets.
If you are both consenting adults and it feels right....do it...
I had some issues, but mainly concerned with what others think. Now I dont give a proverbial. And my man was 23 when I met him and is the best lover I have ever had.We tried living in different states for 6 months, but got back together.
You cant change the past, and cant decide your future, so I just enjoy everyday we are together now. He might not be here when I am old and the body rot has set in, but I have some magic memories and no regrets.
If you are both consenting adults and it feels right....do it...
