Age and Anal

[Cardinal]

Do women enjoy anal play/sex more as they age? or do they just finally give in!
When my wife and I were younger this never would have happened but now I can get it any time, well all most anytime I want it.

 

[Jezebelle1458]

cardinal, dont know about the rest,but i am 46 and have loved it since i was 17.

 

[BirdsWife]

I think that for the majority of people, they become more open to new and "kinkier" things as they age. When you are young, you have peer pressure to deal with and worry about what others think of you, but eventually you reach the age where you are comfortable enough with yourself to say, "I don't give a damn what anyone thinks about me. This is what I want, and by god, I am going to have it."

Then the real fun begins.

 

[Jezebelle1458]

i know i was very lucky. i have had great lovers from the start.sure,there were some who i would just as soon forget,but most have been wonderful. very few have had the nerve to try the "you should feel guilty" routine on me...not that it would work,even way back then. most have been willing to explore the depths of their souls(or mine). as for anal,one of my first lovers introduced me to it and i have loved it every since. i may let someone put a few restrictions on my body...but never my imagination.

 

[gumby123]

I think that for the majority of people, they become more open to new and "kinkier" things as they age. When you are young, you have peer pressure to deal with and worry about what others think of you, but eventually you reach the age where you are comfortable enough with yourself to say, "I don't give a damn what anyone thinks about me. This is what I want, and by god, I am going to have it."

Then the real fun begins.

BirdsWife, are you me? I would have said the exact same thing. I have just begun to try new things I never would have thought of 10 or 20 years ago.

 

[sheath]

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[Jezebelle1458]

yes,so much of it depends on the attitude of the partner who is "instructing" us.and their reactions. and also a lot of it is on ours.too many people try to play that game of 'OH NO..I WOULD NEVER DO THAT!". Yeah,right!in a pig's eye they would'nt.

 

[watergirl]

?

I first tried it in college, I was probably about 20. It was my idea, not his, and I love it. 27 now, and my limits vary based on how much I trust the person I'm with.

One partner, I would trust as far as breath play, if he so desired; but no one else could go there with me.

 

[firefighter02]

I'm not sure about the age question...I'm 28 now, and I have loved anal since the first time, when I was eighteen.

BUT I should point out that my lover at the time was forty, and he was quite the imaginative fellow. Maybe it was the fact that I had such a wonderful teacher that made me love anal so much?

S.

I could be 40..

 

[sheath]

I could be 40..

But you don't have to be. The age you are is more than okay with me.

S.

 

[curious2c]

Damn...Something I have missed out on...and wish I hadn't. *sigh*


Maybe...someday...

 

[Jezebelle1458]

man...you got to quit poking dead things with a stick and get out more!

 

[curious2c]

Hey...I take long walks on the beach. While reading poetry too.

 

[Jezebelle1458]

yeah,but do you read poetry about taking long walks on the beach? got news for you...while you were out playing and poking dead things,you missed poking a few live ones.

 

[curious2c]

Damn...just my luck. Oh well...maybe some other time I will be more...aware.

 

[Jezebelle1458]

like the saying goes..."Be all that you can be".

 

[janisjoplin197888]

"I don't give a damn what anyone thinks about me. This is what I want, and by god, I am going to have it."

Funny! I'am only 26 and have always had that opinion.

 

[Meat Whistler]

 

[ny11011]

Nope, Just to be different this was a thing that used to happen now doesn't don't know why it just stopped...

 

[Bandit58]

I was 43 when I had my first anal experience. After my marriage ended I embarked on a journey to find my sexual self, and I met someone online who showed me that what I had previously thought of as painful and dirty was a wonderful erotic experience with the right person.

Now with Gil anal play is a regular part of our sexual life. Fingers, butt plugs or cock, it's all good