Afraid to as a friend

[Hooper001]

I have a friend both older who I would love to suck, he has no idea I’m bi. He loves porn and has watched his wife get fucked. Just don’t know how to approach. I have seen his cock and would love to suck.

 

[MGTG]

If your ok with him knowing your bi then just let him know. Tell him exactly what you want to do to his cock, even if he says no at first at least he knows and one day he probably will surprise you and say...I’ll take that blowjob now. Do you swallow? If you do make sure say you want his load in your mouth. That really gets a man hot.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Gaydar...

I have a friend both older who I would love to suck, he has no idea I’m bi. He loves porn and has watched his wife get fucked. Just don’t know how to approach. I have seen his cock and would love to suck.

My guess is that he already knows, and he's just waiting for you to ask...

 

[klippert]

If you're close...then just tell him you're Bi....Don't mention his cock or sucking him. let him bring it up
If this crosses the line...then never mention it again.

Solved

 

[Sweepup50]

Been there

I am married and so was my best friend, I am bi and he is straight as one can get.
One day at his house after a night of boozing we were watching TV while he fell asleep on the sofa. I continued watching the TV but I kept looking across at him snoring away and thinking what if I undid his flies and sucked his cock while he was sleeping. Eventually I gave in to temptation and sat near him and was pulling his flies down when he woke up. He asked what the fuck I was doing so I told him I was going to suck his cock not knowing if he would kick me out or punch me on the nose.
To my surprise he said go ahead, and I did end up sucking his cock. he didn't come and when he had had enough he said that this will never be mentioned again. Years later as we exchanged emails I made some mention of sucking his cock and the exchanges became very sexual and as his wife at the time didn't enjoy sucking his cock he suggested that he wanted me to give him a blow job. Eventually it became something that we did a few times a year when the opportunity arose and he would come every time and I would swallow his cum. Strangely enough one time when his wife was away we had a threesome with my wife and we both fucked her.
So subtlety can work in the long run, not many married men can turn down a good blow job and since then I have sucked a few married men's cocks.

 

[Marty Fisher]

If your ok with him knowing your bi then just let him know. Tell him exactly what you want to do to his cock, even if he says no at first at least he knows and one day he probably will surprise you and say...I’ll take that blowjob now. Do you swallow? If you do make sure say you want his load in your mouth. That really gets a man hot.

AMEN! If she shares his wife, there's a good chance that he's willing to share his cock - with you!

 

[Hooper001]

Hooper001

I do swallowand love foreplay kissing nipple playand anal licking

 

[ficklefun]

I'd go for it.

 

[txfuncouple]

If you're close...then just tell him you're Bi....Don't mention his cock or sucking him. let him bring it up
If this crosses the line...then never mention it again.

Solved

Agree. Maybe watch some porn together and wait for a particularly hot scene, then ask him if its okay if you ask him a question. Ask him if he’s ever thought about jacking off with another guy while you both watch porn because you’re horny as hell and know he must be to. Maybe if he’s good with stroking then you both just jack off together. Or maybe if you’re both doing it you could wait till the girl on screen is stroking a cock and reach over and stroke him. If he’s good with that, you could do that for a bit and when the girl on the screen starts sucking a cock, say you’ve always wondered how that feels. If he doesn’t say anything bad, maybe lean over and just do it.

Or just come out and say sometimes when you watch movies like that you wonder what it would be like to suck a cock and ask how he feels about that. Then you could ask if he’d let you try it with him, no strings attached.

But if he’s not receptive, don’t push it. Once it’s out there maybe another time when you’re having a few beers it gets brought up again by him and you have the oportunity.

 

[Hooper001]

Hooper001

Let him catch you checking out his crotch.

He has caught me many times but never said a word

 

[Marty Fisher]

He has caught me many times but never said a word

Because he is waiting for YOU to make the first move. GO FOR IT! You won't regret it!!

 

[Wageslave]

I'm pretty sure that none of my friends would be up for anything like this

 

[klippert]

I do swallowand love foreplay kissing nipple playand anal licking

swallow and rimming is a huge bonus... kissing and cuddling will turn most masculine man away that may have an interest in M/M.
Trust me I know...this is NOT rocket science. Hope to get an update soon

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Just come right out an tell him how you feel. All that can happen is that he says no, and in my experience that won't happen.

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

"I'm not sure how to say this and I certainly don't want to lose you as a friend. But I'd like you to know that I enjoy fellating men and think it would be great for me if you'd consider allowing me to do that to you."
Cross your fingers and get your tongue lubed up.

 

[muycurioso]

good advice

Agree. Maybe watch some porn together and wait for a particularly hot scene, then ask him if its okay if you ask him a question. Ask him if he’s ever thought about jacking off with another guy while you both watch porn because you’re horny as hell and know he must be to. Maybe if he’s good with stroking then you both just jack off together. Or maybe if you’re both doing it you could wait till the girl on screen is stroking a cock and reach over and stroke him. If he’s good with that, you could do that for a bit and when the girl on the screen starts sucking a cock, say you’ve always wondered how that feels. If he doesn’t say anything bad, maybe lean over and just do it.

Or just come out and say sometimes when you watch movies like that you wonder what it would be like to suck a cock and ask how he feels about that. Then you could ask if he’d let you try it with him, no strings attached.

But if he’s not receptive, don’t push it. Once it’s out there maybe another time when you’re having a few beers it gets brought up again by him and you have the oportunity.

that is how I would approach it. "I wonder what that feels like, sucking a cock." or "you know I love pussy, but sometimes I get curious." He might say "about what." Then obviously "sucking a cock."

Same could apply if you want to slowly test the waters on telling wf/gf your fantasies. If she is like, WTF, just say you were joking. If she says "I like it." sweet!

 

[Astroman72]

I would probably go with the subtle approach too---let him know that you like cock, but don't mention HIS cock.

That gives him a huge opening if he's interested in you sucking him, and it's not too embarrassing if he's not interested.