Advice

[musicalwhovian]

I haven't talked to my Daddy in 3 weeks. We've never gone this long without talking and I don't understand what's going on. I feel like he doesn't want me anymore and I'm starting to get this feeling that the whole thing was a lie and that he didn't really mean it every time he said he loved me.


I need some advice.

 

[Chickenchowmein]

Well, I hate to be the one to say it but generally your gut feeling doesn't steer you wrong.

 

[Lord_Steve]

I haven't talked to my Daddy in 3 weeks. We've never gone this long without talking and I don't understand what's going on. I feel like he doesn't want me anymore and I'm starting to get this feeling that the whole thing was a lie and that he didn't really mean it every time he said he loved me.


I need some advice.

you're going to be okay. his neglect is your gain.

 

[Malich]

I'm going to assume this is online rather than face to face. If that is not the case then feel free to ignore this.

I'm also going to assume that you have been regularly contacting him and that he didn't give you any warning he was going away.

I have to ask, has this been something that was foreseen? has his communication been getting lax of late? Less often, longer time between you messaging and him replying? Messages less intense or detailed? If yes, then I am sorry but it sounds like he has decided to be a coward and to ghost you rather than doing the honest thing and telling you straight.

If not then there is a chance that, while serious, he may just have gotten into a situation where he cannot message, though this probably means he is quite unwell somewhere which will no calm your fears much I suspect.

However, much as I would prefer t be proved wrong, I suspect he may just have vanished by choice. In which case I can only offer my sympathy and the trite (but honest) message that it will get easier and not all "doms and daddies" are worthless.

 

[MaryanneB]

You are basing your conclusions on nothing. To come to a good answer you need facts. You have no idea what's going on in his life so why do you think it has to do with you? Could be something in his life is distracting him from where he really wants to be.

 

[dilipfrmindia]

Hope for the best ... Prepare for the worst ... Forget the rest!

 

[the captians wench]

Seriously, first thing, don't take the blame for his disappearance.

Sometimes, life happens and they forget that there is some one out there worrying about them. It happens. They don't mean to be dicks, they just are that way.

More often, they get distracted by something else. Be it temporary or a new "for ever" something or some one else takes their attention away from you.

Either way, what you really have to think about is what you want to do if and when he comes back.