Advice please ladies..
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waverlysgirl
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DO SOMETHING NICE
and out of the ordinary that she would notice right away. cook dinner one evening and have candles on the table, with a nice bottle of wine or champagne. Wash the dishes, ask her what she wants to do for an evening. Take her out to dinner or to a movie. Tell her, for no reason, that she is beautiful and that you love her. Compliment her on something that she is wearing, even if it isn't new. I commend you on trying to put some magic back in your marriage. A lot of people on here have given up on theirs.
and out of the ordinary that she would notice right away. cook dinner one evening and have candles on the table, with a nice bottle of wine or champagne. Wash the dishes, ask her what she wants to do for an evening. Take her out to dinner or to a movie. Tell her, for no reason, that she is beautiful and that you love her. Compliment her on something that she is wearing, even if it isn't new. I commend you on trying to put some magic back in your marriage. A lot of people on here have given up on theirs.
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benhur34 said:
too vague sweetheart, we need to know a bit about your lady wife in order to help you.
my old man has used all manner of stunts over the years a lot have worked, some haven't.
is it a sex related thing, or just a general boredom thing?
let us know honey, might be able to help, might not.
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I think the nicest thing my S/O ever said to me was once when we were just sitting on the couch cuddling. He gazed at my face for several long moments, then said out of the blue, "God, you are gorgeous!" It was an ordinary moment in an ordinary day, but I was absolutely transfixed at that moment.
dragonhearted
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benhur34 said:
how about a night where you pamper her?
set up the tub with hot water and lots of bubbles and rose oil....scented candles (3 so you don't have to have the bathroom light on)....bring her in by the hand and slowly undress her....then gently hand her into the tub....let her stand and you use the sponge to wash her body....watch it respond, watch the candle light flicker off of her wet soapy skin...watch the suds slipping down her body, over her breasts, between her thighs....let her sink down into the tub....and use a light weight pitcher to fill with water and wet down hair...put in some nice smelling shampoo, and massage it in for her....let her lean her head back while you rinse it off....give her a rolled up towel to put behind her head, so she can soak...then you go into your bedroom and taking the dozen red roses you bought (hint) take maybe six and remove the petals...sprinkle them all over the bed. Light candles around the room, turn off the electric light...turn on soft music.
Go back to the bathroom, once the stage is set......and help her stand...then towel her gently off, kissing every spot you dry....use some delicately scented lotion and rub into her arms and legs....carefully comb out her wet hair...then bid her close her eyes, wrap her in a dry towel (blow out candles) and slowly walk her to bedroom....
Escort her slowly to edge of bed and have her sit...take off towel...let her open her eyes....and be surprised
Re: Re: Advice please ladies..
That would definitely work on me, Dragon heart
Ivy
dragonhearted said:how about a night where you pamper her?
set up the tub with hot water and lots of bubbles and rose oil....scented candles (3 so you don't have to have the bathroom light on)....bring her in by the hand and slowly undress her....then gently hand her into the tub....let her stand and you use the sponge to wash her body....watch it respond, watch the candle light flicker off of her wet soapy skin...watch the suds slipping down her body, over her breasts, between her thighs....let her sink down into the tub....and use a light weight pitcher to fill with water and wet down hair...put in some nice smelling shampoo, and massage it in for her....let her lean her head back while you rinse it off....give her a rolled up towel to put behind her head, so she can soak...then you go into your bedroom and taking the dozen red roses you bought (hint) take maybe six and remove the petals...sprinkle them all over the bed. Light candles around the room, turn off the electric light...turn on soft music.
Go back to the bathroom, once the stage is set......and help her stand...then towel her gently off, kissing every spot you dry....use some delicately scented lotion and rub into her arms and legs....carefully comb out her wet hair...then bid her close her eyes, wrap her in a dry towel (blow out candles) and slowly walk her to bedroom....
Escort her slowly to edge of bed and have her sit...take off towel...let her open her eyes....and be surprised
That would definitely work on me, Dragon heart
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Ivy Lady,
That sounds great, but it doesn't always work. I was honest and (at least tried to be) spontaneous with telling her that she was the most beautiful and sensuous creature that I had ever laid eyes on. Still she didn't stay with me, prefering some guy half a continent away who didn't even send her a valentines gift.
I do not understand women at all.
That sounds great, but it doesn't always work. I was honest and (at least tried to be) spontaneous with telling her that she was the most beautiful and sensuous creature that I had ever laid eyes on. Still she didn't stay with me, prefering some guy half a continent away who didn't even send her a valentines gift.
I do not understand women at all.
A-nonimous said:
You're right. It doesn't always work. My ex-- told me that. But with him his words didn't mirror his actions. I never believed he thought I was beautiful. And my current has moments where I wonder if he really means it. But he doesn't say things like that often. However, he touches (and gropes) me frequently, so I know even if he doesn't think I'm the most beautiful thing to set feet on the planet, he still likes me and thinks I'm a sexy girl.
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LOL... Sometimes???
Honestly. This girl was FAR more beautiful than she realized. She caught my breath whenever we locked eyes. And when she gave me that "Come Hither" look, a just about died. I would have done anything for her, but what she wanted was for me to leave her to her chosen man. So I did.
Honestly. This girl was FAR more beautiful than she realized. She caught my breath whenever we locked eyes. And when she gave me that "Come Hither" look, a just about died. I would have done anything for her, but what she wanted was for me to leave her to her chosen man. So I did.
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Ivy,
I am sure that you are very fine yourself.
As for her, I really cared for her a lot. Enough to let her be with whom she wanted. I hope to find someone someday that wants to be with me that much.
I am sure that you are very fine yourself.
As for her, I really cared for her a lot. Enough to let her be with whom she wanted. I hope to find someone someday that wants to be with me that much.
Thanks for the responses folks - I'm going to try a few things - some beatiful romantic ideas there - especially the rose petals on the bed - now if only I could get the kids out of our bed!!!!!
She's agreed to come and look at the web site - so maybe we can find somethings together that will put a bit of zest back
She's agreed to come and look at the web site - so maybe we can find somethings together that will put a bit of zest back
benhur34 said:Thanks for the responses folks - I'm going to try a few things - some beatiful romantic ideas there - especially the rose petals on the bed - now if only I could get the kids out of our bed!!!!!
She's agreed to come and look at the web site - so maybe we can find somethings together that will put a bit of zest back
Good for you, Ben.
Your wife will love you for putting forth the effort.
Ivy
