Advice on Making a Toy Fit?

[redheadfantasy]

Not sure where is best to post this. I (early 20s F) got myself a dildo/vibrator for an early holiday present, but it’s a little too big. I have to really struggle and work to get it in, but even then it hurts a little, it’s so big. Any advice on making it a better fit? Would coconut oil help? Thanks! <3

 

[Sparkymatt]

Make sure you are very wet and use lots of lube. Easing it in slowly, just a little at a time, letting your pussy adjust to it. Moving it in and out, trying to go a little deeper each time. May need a few attempts to get pussy to open and stretch to the toys size.

How big is the toy?

 

[txwife594]

One of the things that we did was he would put two fingers on the bottom of my pussy and press down and hold. It did not take too long to make me more elastic down there. I read where women do that when they are expecting.

 

[water_moutina]

Slow and steady while you're horny
I have had few bad dragons and in the beginning I was like you. Even now when I use them after a while, it takes me a while to open up

I take it slow, and I have to be very horny at the time. Luckily, bad dragon gets me worked up so that helps

And no need for oil. If you're horny then you're wet. If you feel dry then you're not horny enough

 

[TheWhiteBull]

And no need for oil. If you're horny then you're wet. If you feel dry then you're not horny enough

Excepting medical considerations of course. Whenever my wife was on birth control we almost always needed lube. Once I got snipped and she went off she’s had no trouble.

Echoing the slow and steady comments.

 

[slowpoking]

patience and build-up

Take heart in the fact that you're beautiful sex organ is, as txwife said, also elastic. It can not only be stretched but conditioned to stretch to greater sizes. It depends, of course, on just how large this toy is, but start with something smaller that's a comfortable stretch and work your way up. Not in one setting -- like a session every couple days.

Once you're able to pleasurably accommodate the size you want, you'll need to maintain or your pussy will revert to its natural state.

So yes, it requires some dedication, but can you think of a funner practice to commit to.

 

[dannyboy1958]

user friendly

Ive bought many a dildo/vibrator in the past for a few of my partners ( sorry im very kinky ) made the mistake of buying a huge black thing some years ago but wife, despite having had 2 kids still struggled and it wasnt enjoyable a tall.
Moving onto smaller silicon ones, still not as much pleasure as a small vibrator. The idea being that getting that clit stimulated is normally enough to orgasm, that should make room then for the insertable type.
Was told by mos women that its not always about the size of what you put in, but what you do before it.
try lovehoney, a mine of information and feedback.

 

[cqiam]

Pop out a couple kids - try again?

I'm kidding of course - maybe buy a smaller one?

 

[Crownvic]

Not sure where is best to post this. I (early 20s F) got myself a dildo/vibrator for an early holiday present, but it’s a little too big. I have to really struggle and work to get it in, but even then it hurts a little, it’s so big. Any advice on making it a better fit? Would coconut oil help? Thanks! <3

Lots of lotion...love to help you...

 

[cubbyfire04]

Not sure where is best to post this. I (early 20s F) got myself a dildo/vibrator for an early holiday present, but it’s a little too big. I have to really struggle and work to get it in, but even then it hurts a little, it’s so big. Any advice on making it a better fit? Would coconut oil help? Thanks! <3

I can offer advice on making it fit the backside, if that helps

 

[Islander55]

It is one thing to try and accommodate a partner who might be large but the dildo will not feel slighted if you just put him away and get a smaller one. You might want to keep him around though because as you get older, you may find the bigger one works quite nicely.

 

[Bigspurt]

It is one thing to try and accommodate a partner who might be large but the dildo will not feel slighted if you just put him away and get a smaller one. You might want to keep him around though because as you get older, you may find the bigger one works quite nicely.

Sage advice. Have you ever looked at "Dragon Dildos"?

https://bad-dragon.com/shop

I bet a medium would be big enough.

 

[twister947]

It is one thing to try and accommodate a partner who might be large but the dildo will not feel slighted if you just put him away and get a smaller one. You might want to keep him around though because as you get older, you may find the bigger one works quite nicely.

Yep. Live and learn...

 

[Bonnie_Does]

Best toy ever

I don't care for dildos since they are too cumbersome in my opinion. I ordered Lovense bluetooth vib and will never use anything else now. It inserts quite easy and can be worn all day if you like!! Check it out! https://www.lovense.com/ The Lush3 model.

 

[klippert]

If these were a gift...I'd queswiton the person who baught them....if you wanted monter toy's....
- Lube / ID Glide... After that if it still hurts. Stop what you're doing

 

[Naughtygirl201]

I have one that's a little too big. I usually start with something smaller first until I'm ready for it. Lube helps, but also just getting really worked up. Sometimes those porn audios where the guy talks dirty work wonders. The big one is worth the work when you finally come on it. Sigh.

 

[Islander55]

I have one that's a little too big. I usually start with something smaller first until I'm ready for it. Lube helps, but also just getting really worked up. Sometimes those porn audios where the guy talks dirty work wonders. The big one is worth the work when you finally come on it. Sigh.

You hit it exactly. Once you are worked up, that bigger one works quite nicely. Of course that is also true of real ones. Make sure you are ready before trying to take it all in.

 

[Sundayschild]

This thread brings out the samaritan in me. I just want to help...