Advice on being foward to a user on the board

Shades of grey

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I have read the post's and profiles of several females on the board. I am just wondering what the best way to approach a few of them in a PM or and E-mail would be. There are two that are virgins and fairly new here like myself, but also a few really expierianced ones.
 
say hello and try to strike up a conversation, perhaps something relevant to a board discussion.
don't worry, they won't bite your head off. be daring, it's just the internet ;)
 
Send a PM to them. Just don't go making sexual advances in a PM until you know them well enough. I wouldn't recommend asking for autographed nudes yet either. *some on the board probably like it, while other's don't*
Send them a simple hello....I've enjoyed reading your posts kind of PM first and see what kind of response you get back. Almost everyone is pretty friendly around here.
Just my worthless .02 of advice.:D
Somewhere there's an old thread about PM etiquette I will have to see if I can find it...where's Cheyenne she could probably find it faster.
 
SummerRose said:
Send a PM to them. Just don't go making sexual advances in a PM until you know them well enough. I wouldn't recommend asking for autographed nudes yet either. *some on the board probably like it, while other's don't*
Send them a simple hello....I've enjoyed reading your posts kind of PM first and see what kind of response you get back. Almost everyone is pretty friendly around here.
Just my worthless .02 of advice.:D
Somewhere there's an old thread about PM etiquette I will have to see if I can find it...where's Cheyenne she could probably find it faster.

What she said. :rose: Except for the worthless .02 of advice. SummerRose gives good advice. :)

Send away your PM's and welcome to Lit.
 
No sexual innuendos if we don't know you.

At least not to me. I wouldn't dare speak for any others here. Some of them really like sexual innuendo from strangers. Go ahead - give it a try.
;)
 
Just dont do what one certain newbie did, he went thru the thread where a lot of people had posted pics, then PM'd himself into a frenzy asking for more pics of all the female posters.

More to follow....
 
LoL! I complimented a newbie on their av choice via PM and they wrote back asking me about my masturbation style!

You never know what you're going to get in response. You pays your money - you takes your chances. Welcome to the dance!
 
As you would at any party....

You could strike up a repartee in a thread.

If they seem interested in your responses, pm them or e mail them.

Most will look favorably on a pm from someone who reflects on some pearls of wisdom shared on the board or a simple "How are you doing today?"

Take care and Good Luck

Miss T
 
Just keep the sex talk out until its appreciated. But remember that sometimes the pm section's dont get checked often enough,and thats the reason why they dont get answered.

Sorry about that my friends. :eek:
 
How would you appraoch a girl normally?

If you get drunk and say "Wanna screw?" then send a PM with something asking them about their masturbation style (Did you respond Blushing Rose?)

If you get to know a girl, then flirt a bit, then make a move...do that. Its my preferred method (not that i've worked a method out or anything....:rolleyes: )

stay groovy...
 
Starblayde said:
Did you respond Blushing Rose?


No, I did not. If they want to know about my masturbation techniques and frequencies they could do a search on my name and find out what I would like to share with strangers.
 
Blushing Rose said:

No, I did not. If they want to know about my masturbation techniques and frequencies they could do a search on my name and find out what I would like to share with strangers.


*searches frantically* AAaahhhhh! :kiss:
 
Problem Child said:
girls like unsolicited cock shots. give it a try.

That would be better than the "do you have any pics?" email/PM that is more often sent.

I like cock shots. Just not from Outsider. :D
 
Oh my. OUTSIDER's cock shots are some of the ones I like best!

Where is that man, anyway?
 
DON'T pm every woman you find interesting with exactly the same message. A couple of guys have gotten caught sending out mass mailings like that and no one who got it was impressed. I was really bummed, actually, to discover the guy was paying the same compliments to half the women on the board, but hey, it was my 1st week here and you learn.

Maybe try to start a conversation based on something the woman posted in a thread? something you have an interest in or really liked?

S.
 
As a Horny Old Bugger...I have been pleasantly surprised

That is a Canadianism - don't get any cute ideas, Sly et al...

I have been surprised quite pleasantly by the responses to my recent PM's. (You know who you are, ladies- Thank You!)

Of course, a modicum of honesty & tact goes a long way... ( I wish I had listened to my Mum... sigh)

Shades - I'm sure that you have discovered already that these gals are sharp - as brainy as they are horny - a turn-on in and of, itself, for me, BTW!

So don't do or say stuff that will confirm that you're as sick and twisted as I am....:p :p :p


Enjoy, dude! As I have been (Now if I can only learn how to post a pic properly, I'll be away to the races...

Jimi

Life's Goal: Drive fast Love slow
 
Don't say "HI, love your avatar..I have a 10 inch cock..wanna fuck?" Just say you'd like to get to know them. And don't have a cow if they don't answer you within 15 minuets. :)
 
First get to know them buy reading what they think and say. Answer some of them, and then check there profile out you can learn a lot there. Then pm them be honest and not some perv. Good luck and have fun.
 
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