Advice for male virgin?

[EriMaleTx]

Hi, I hope everyone is good and is having fun.

I started this thread to see if anyone had any stories/advice. I am a male virgin, single, age 24 in Texas, who has been thinking about sex a good deal lately, and I was wondering if any ladies have had sex with a male virgin, and had any thoughts about what made the experience different, good/bad, than with other people. I'm not planning on my first time being perfect, but if there are any major pitfalls that I could avoid with some solid advice, I'd like to know. Men who have advice in this area are also welcome to post.

If people would like to know more about me, ask and I'll post something, but I don't want to waste anyone's time if this thread dies a quick death (I will not be "bumping" it up if no one responds).

Of course I don't expect to find someone to have sex with me on this site (but hey, it could happen), but if someone wants to talk by e-mail, cyber, phone, meet, etc. let me know (but gently, as I am shy and will have a heart attack from pleasure if someone actually wants to spend time with me). In real life, I have cybered some but basically nothing else (I am pretty shy).

This is getting long, so I will end. Thanks for reading! And thanks in advance for any help. Enjoy the site and have a good day.

Eric

 

[Bigg_Capone]

When it comes to losing one's virginity I truly, firmly, deeply believe that it should not under any circumstances be hurried. I think that everyones' first time should be about love and trust more than anything. Doesn't matter your age as long as you're of legal status to make the decision to do so, sexual preference, race, gender, or any other bullshit the media tries to shove down your throat and cram up your ass.

 

[College_geek]

I agree with a lot of what BC says. My biggest piece of advice would be to not hire a hooker. Way too many risks involved. Also, on a personal aside, if I were an experienced woman (I'm a virgin myself), I would probably rather be with a virgin male because then I could teach him the ropes and "train" him to do things the way that I liked. Guys who have already had experience may have been with a lot of females, but that might not mean that they're any good. The time will come, and when it does, it will mean that much more.

 

[EriMaleTx]

Hi, sorry I couldn't reply sooner.

Thanks for the responses I got. Be assured, I will never hire someone to have sex with me. I do not expect to be having sex in the near future, I just wanted some opinions/stories on the subject.

College Geek, I hope more people think like you. I would love to be in a position my first time where the lady leads me through what she wants me to do. I think that would both take some of the pressure off and be really erotic!

I will try to respond to the private messages soon, but I am a little bit busy right now. They are great, though; I really enjoyed reading them.

Any more suggestions, stories? Let me know. I think this thread might die soon, so I will say thanks for sharing. Have a good time.

Eric

 

[first prime]

leading

you are right, the leading lady helps. my first threw me on the couch and took care of everything. I went to her house hoping for a kiss and got alot more.
my advise is, dont be desperate. Meaningless sex is great, but not your first time .
The girl that threw me on the couch was my first and will be my last. it will be 10 years on may 20th.

 

[College_geek]

Re: leading

you are right, the leading lady helps. my first threw me on the couch and took care of everything. I went to her house hoping for a kiss and got alot more.
my advise is, dont be desperate. Meaningless sex is great, but not your first time .
The girl that threw me on the couch was my first and will be my last. it will be 10 years on may 20th.

That's really nice that your first was the person you married, and as a female, being in control is a lot of fun. I think more women should try it, at least once (even if submission is in their nature).

 

[first prime]

i wouldnt change anything about my first time except for my performance

 

[EriMaleTx]

Yes, congratulations, and thanks a lot for sharing your story. Of course it is not a requirement by any means, but I would love to be with a lady who has clear ideas of what she wants to do, or have done! At least someone who is a little more confident in the dating scene than I am.

I will try not to come off as desperate (I don't think I am, but who knows?), but of course will be grateful to be even just spending time with someone who deserves my attention, and wants to be around me!

Thanks again. Later,
Eric

 

[Frogish]

hello

I think that your first actual intercorse experiance should be as pepole say with someone you like and care about. i gave it to someone i didnt and i regret that desion.

if you are shy you need to just let things flow and things will happen. my second time that is what happened with me and i had a better experiance. dont be tence about if the girl is a virgin or not for evey experince is differnt. Rember that she has needs too and you will be fine .


Frog