advice for a virgin

[Guest]

I am a virgin, who has been with a steady boyfriend for the past two years....we engage in many sexual activities....however, i am not ready to lose my virginity quite yet. My question is, how can i spice our realtionship up a little? we enjoy in oral sex, but i want to be able to make it more exciting for him

 

[HarlemBlade]

Well there are many ways to spice up the relationship without sex, I think. I dated a girl once and we did not become sexually active for over a year, so I know where you are coming.

First and foremost, I would go right to your boyfriend and ask him what he likes. He's going to have the best judgement of all on his own pleasure. See what he likes, how he likes it, and when he likes it.

Besides that, concentrating on the romantic aspects of the relationship can be very important for you right now. Work up that sexual tension between the two of you with light touches and staring into each other's eyes. Once you 've built that up, passionate kissing will be very satisfying. And there's always things like role playing. That can spice things up quite a bit, as you'll see all over these boards.

But like I said, ask him what he would like and you two can go from there. Be sure to work in what you want as well, though!

 

[Notme2]

Try anal sex. You get to feel someone inside of you and still be a virgin. And he gets to feel what it is like to actually screw someone.

 

[CuriouslilQT]

Well I been with my boyfriend for about 15 months and we also have not had sex yet. The best advice I could give you would be to add variety to your oral sex. TAke a trip to your local sex shop and there must be tons of ideas you can get to make it more interesting without actually having to go all the way. Giving each other good oral sex can probable leave you both satisfied. Enjoy each others company and one day when you ready it will be worth the wait.
Good luck
LiL

 

[CuriouslilQT]

Well I been with my boyfriend for about 15 months and we also have not had sex yet. The best advice I could give you would be to add variety to your oral sex. TAke a trip to your local sex shop and there must be tons of ideas you can get to make it more interesting without actually having to go all the way. Giving each other good oral sex can probable leave you both satisfied. Enjoy each others company and one day when you ready it will be worth the wait.
Good luck
LiL