Advice about a Friend here that I'm Different From

[AlwaysSoaked]

Nevermind

 

[Killswitch1]

Saint Peter gets blown off all the time after skyping. He's used to it.

Just be honest.

 

[Hard_Rom]

Taper off the times you do connect. Who often do you talk? Take a couple of weeks and drop frequency of chats. Eventually just ignore them.

No way to avoid some hurt. You can try the 'it's not you, it's me' line.

Or lie and say you are starting a relationship.

Not a Skyper. Can they see when you are one? Can you control connections? Can you just edit from contact list?

No way to avoid some hurt.

 

[Saint Peter]

Saint Peter gets blown all the time after skyping. He's used to it.

Just be honest.

You know it, Toots!

 

[GimpyIntellect]

Just tell him you're a dude.

Sometimes the truth is the easiest way to go.

 

[AlwaysSoaked]

Taper off the times you do connect. Who often do you talk? Take a couple of weeks and drop frequency of chats. Eventually just ignore them.

No way to avoid some hurt. You can try the 'it's not you, it's me' line.

Or lie and say you are starting a relationship.

Not a Skyper. Can they see when you are one? Can you control connections? Can you just edit from contact list?

No way to avoid some hurt.

Thank you. Skype does show availability. He was contacting me more than once a day if I was there. My Skype sometimes says I'm there when I am not. I appreciate your thoughts. I do not appreciate trolls. Thank you Hard Rom

 

[Rachel_X]

Block, delete, move on with life.
That's how I do it.

 

[Hard_Rom]

Block, delete, move on with life.
That's how I do it.

But you are cruel and heartless. You would have us all die from overwork and starvation building monuments to your awesomeness.

 

[Rachel_X]

But you are cruel and heartless. You would have us all die from overwork and starvation building monuments to your awesomeness.

Not my fault if you don't bring a pack lunch.

 

[Christobal]

Hey if they haven't been a problem to you but aren't your cup of tea you could be kind.

Honesty can be kind if you are not brutally honest.

 

[AlwaysSoaked]

Hey if they haven't been a problem to you but aren't your cup of tea you could be kind.

Honesty can be kind if you are not brutally honest.

True. Thanks.

 

[girlsmiley]

So, I started chatting with someone on Skype after he sent me a message. Now, there is a problem...we are very different but it could be seen as my being quite rude if I just dismiss him. I certainly don't want to hurt his feelings but there just isn't any kind of ease with our conversation. I would greatly appreciate some advice. Thank you.

Maybe try asking him, "Please be quiet and get naked instead of talking. Thank you." Or something like that. "Now get the lube."

 

[Hard_Rom]

Not my fault if you don't bring a pack lunch.

What soylent green made up of dead workers. Worked to death building the space armada to conquer the galaxy in your name?

 

[AlwaysSoaked]

Good advice is apparently dead. Eaten by trolls. Goodnight

 

[RoryN]

Good advice is apparently dead.

No, good advice just doesn't want to talk to you.

You and it are "very different".

 

[Noor]

Just tell them you aren't comfortable with the conversation and you would rather not continue it.

By the way, my computer often shows I am on Skype when I am not.

In future, only add people when you feel comfortable with them, otherwise just chat with them without friending at first.

 

[Rachel_X]

What soylent green made up of dead workers. Worked to death building the space armada to conquer the galaxy in your name?

You were the one that brought up eating people.
I said the dead should be used as fuel.

 

[Lancecastor]

Any reason why you can't just tell the truth?

 

[Adjudicator]

So, I started chatting with someone on Skype after he sent me a message. Now, there is a problem...we are very different but it could be seen as my being quite rude if I just dismiss him. I certainly don't want to hurt his feelings but there just isn't any kind of ease with our conversation. I would greatly appreciate some advice. Thank you.

This is a seriously passive aggressive thread that I'm sure you're hoping your "someone from here" will read. Tell the guy the truth or admit you aren't ready for adult relationships. I see no other choice here, soaked.

 

[Adjudicator]

Don't worry, everyone. It's been 4 days since she lowered herself to talk to this friend she's different from. It's all good now.

 

[Adjudicator]

Deleting the quoted OP! Classic!

 

[Adjudicator]

Always Soaked gets a taste of her own medicine. Too bad adults can't just tell each other things aren't working out.

 

[Lancecastor]

Nice little drama!

This restores my faith in the GB.

Now I can't wait for the end of seantobleed and/or hairybutters!