adult babies

[ADIDAS0226]

i just found out that my SO is into wearing diapers aside that he is grown and such.

i'm ok with this, but i have yet to figure out if i will be comfortable with being around him if he has one on.

he resides in another state right now, so i dont really have to worry about it nec. anytime soon. but still.

i'm very accepting of things he likes and such but i just dont know exactly what to do with this bit of information he entitled me to know.

any suggestions?

 

[buxxxom]

Ask him. Does he want you to play a part in his fantasies? Does he want you to clean him up, change his diapers, etc.? Does he remember that little babies get their temps taken rectally instead of orally? Is he into that sort of thing? I think there is more going on here than diapers, and to be honest with yourself and him, all the cards need to be on the table.

Would you be comfortable with his desires, if he chooses to ask you to play along?

 

[ADIDAS0226]

 

[buxxxom]

Enema play by itself or leading to anal play is very erotic indeed. Compare your limits. There is a checklist somewhere in this BDSM forum that you can use and you may find new things to experiment with, or cross things off your list that both of you definitely don't want to experience.

 

[incubus'_sub]

Each to their own & whilst I'm very happy for everyone to enjoy their own little kinks, that would be a dealbreaker for me.

Anal play can be very erotic, but enjoying letting it spill, noooo.

Think carefully. It's all very well to be tolerant but if the idea turns you off (it sure turns me off), tell him now before you get involved in an activity you don't really want to know about.

 

[Etoile]

This is basically no different from finding out your partner is into any other kink you haven't thought about before. It's true that ab/dl is a much smaller community, but there's certainly plenty of people who do it.

If this is something you're willing to explore with him, check out the online scene for ab/dl and learn about it a bit. He'll appreciate you even more than he already does for not dumping him when you heard he's into this.

 

[Guest]

i just found out that my SO is into wearing diapers aside that he is grown and such.

i'm ok with this, but i have yet to figure out if i will be comfortable with being around him if he has one on.

he resides in another state right now, so i dont really have to worry about it nec. anytime soon. but still.

i'm very accepting of things he likes and such but i just dont know exactly what to do with this bit of information he entitled me to know.

any suggestions?

i've had experience with this. the guy i was with just simply liked wearing them. i wasn't all that thrilled about but i didn't make him stop. figured it was simply something he liked to do

 

[ADIDAS0226]