I think it's a straight guy thing that we're usually (at least as young men) somewhat in a rush to get to sex with a woman. A recurring dream I have is accidentally turning a woman on to the point they're ready to strip me for sex NOW!
What if a man and woman were in the same college screenwriting class and given an assignment together to write a scene where a man is spanking a woman by hand, only to find out she is *super* turned-on by that? She hasn't tried this, and did not expect it to have the effect it has on her, and agrees to lay over his lap and have him swat her a few times, just to better ponder how to write the scene, and despite the fact she feels tingly at just the idea. By the 2nd swat she's fairly sure she's getting wet, but tells him, "See what it's like to hit harder." If she happens to be wearing elastic-waist sweats, she could easily drop them to see how being bare-bottomed changes things...
I'm thinking the room would have quickly filled with pheromones by then, so it would be a serious challenge for a guy to even think about stopping her, if she started stripping him at that point.
What if a man and woman were in the same college screenwriting class and given an assignment together to write a scene where a man is spanking a woman by hand, only to find out she is *super* turned-on by that? She hasn't tried this, and did not expect it to have the effect it has on her, and agrees to lay over his lap and have him swat her a few times, just to better ponder how to write the scene, and despite the fact she feels tingly at just the idea. By the 2nd swat she's fairly sure she's getting wet, but tells him, "See what it's like to hit harder." If she happens to be wearing elastic-waist sweats, she could easily drop them to see how being bare-bottomed changes things...
I'm thinking the room would have quickly filled with pheromones by then, so it would be a serious challenge for a guy to even think about stopping her, if she started stripping him at that point.