Abuse fetish

Brina13

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So I have this abuse fetish. I liked my hair pulled to the point my scalp will be sore for days. Smacked around, choked, spanked with belts, flogs etc,. My husband used to love doing these things but now he doesn't really do them. That's the first problem, the second one is that I am addicted to this kind of sex and go thru withdrawal. I get moody, cranky, bitchy. I mean we will have sex and whatever but not the way I feel that I want and need. But as soon as he does one of those things I feel balanced again. Has anyone experienced anything like that?
 
So I have this abuse fetish. I liked my hair pulled to the point my scalp will be sore for days. Smacked around, choked, spanked with belts, flogs etc,. My husband used to love doing these things but now he doesn't really do them. That's the first problem, the second one is that I am addicted to this kind of sex and go thru withdrawal. I get moody, cranky, bitchy. I mean we will have sex and whatever but not the way I feel that I want and need. But as soon as he does one of those things I feel balanced again. Has anyone experienced anything like that?

the kissing and cuddling tender sex doesnt really work for me either , i love the physical abuse and i enjoy verbal abuse too and it is the only way i really enjoy it so you are not alone .x
 
My wife and I both love this, switching between abuser and abusee. I have to admit she usually wins though.
 
I just don't understand why he won't do these things anymore. He says he loves doing them, they turn him on but he's afraid he's going to hurt me. He literally did them for almost two years but then after we got married he doesn't seem like he has much interest in them anymore. We've had a few threesomes and he doesn't seem to have much interest those anymore either. Idk it's like he did a 180. I'm seriously getting fed up with it. I want that rush, that excitement, that pleasure. Sighs
 
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