Abstinence

[thespiceoflife]

Abstinence from masturbation has received quite a bit of publicity recently. Anyone tried it and if so what were the effects.
I recognise the lit erotica community might not be a representative sample

 

[ADogWithABone]

I'll add one more question to this:

Are many days of abstinence very different than after only few days? For example, is your state (mood, arousal, cum volume, whatever) very different after 100 days of abstinence than after three days?

 

[CuttingEdge]

For what it is worth, I do not masturbate.

I feel it is a form of "cheating" on my wife, so I save myself for her. I obviously look up pictures and read stories, and get turned on, but to actually touch myself to the point of release...very, very seldom. Maybe 4-5 times a year.

But, my wife and I have a pretty good sex life, so waiting for her is seldom more than a day or so.

 

[ericandshannon]

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[thespiceoflife]

One of the often reported effects is more intense love making.Have any of the women on here tried abstinence?

 

[thespiceoflife]

I once abstained completely for 16 weeks and nothing miraculous happened but it was interesting I was more prone. to spontaneous erections and had very strong morning erections. Contrary to what you would expect my interest in sex diminished. When I did ejaculate there was very little semen, the whole process seems to become almost dormant. Sex is fun but it is entirely optional

Interesting that your interest diminished

 

[Jada59]

After I had the baby, I couldn't have sex of any kind. I hated it! Was sooo horny!

 

[Justfantasies]

After I had the baby, I couldn't have sex of any kind. I hated it! Was sooo horny!

You didn't even masturbate

 

[OldFred65]

The thought of abstaining from sex in any way , shape, or form simply has no appeal to me. I love fucking, sucking and getting fucked and sucked too much to give it up even for a few hours.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

The thought of abstaining from sex in any way , shape, or form simply has no appeal to me. I love fucking, sucking and getting fucked and sucked too much to give it up even for a few hours.

I agree with you 100% Fred!

 

[MaBelle3120]

I've abstained from masturbation for two weeks, and that was the longest I've ever gone without.
I noticed I felt more stressed, I didn't sleep as well, and by the end of the two weeks everything seemed erotic.
Don't recommend it

 

[anniebaby10]

Why would anyone want to refrain from having an orgasm? If I am not getting fucked or eaten, then I am going to do it myself. And have many times when away from. my hubby. It helps me sleep better. WTF? Abstinence?

 

[mnbreastluver]

I couldn’t do it nor would I ever want to.

 

[ericandshannon]

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[LookingGlassLicker]

Sometimes I abstain if I'm writing a story. My policy is I don't cum until my characters do.

Sometimes I abstain because it feels good to cum for the first time in a week.

 

[curl4ever]

A couple of years into the sexless part of my marriage, I read some book that insisted that women have a sixth sense about sex. So I tried what the book suggested and went a full year without masturbating or looking at anything sexual on the internet. Do you think that made my wife raring to have sex with me??? Um... no.

I have no doubt that abstinence helps some people, but I am quite skeptical about anybody who claims that they have some amazing solution for any of life’s issues. Didn’t make any major changes with my health, life, or attitude.

 

[genxer36]

I'm too horny all the time. I think I made it three days when I had the flu.

 

[jharp]

When I was in the Military and deployed I went long periods of time without spanking it. During those times I was vastly more energized but also aggressive. About 9 weeks in my balls started hurting and were overtly overly sensitive. Thank God we never got into a Fire fight during that time or I would have been hurting bad at a critical moment. My dumbass continued this for a few more weeks until finally I saw the doctor about it. His recommendation was to unclog the plumbing.

So that night I found an out of the way spot and just unleashed. I came so hard I got dizzy. Only time I ever got that way with Masterbation. Instantly I felt much calmer and more tranquil. Within 20 minutes everyone on the COP (Combat Outpost) could sense the change in me. From that point on I managed myself.

I'd go 6 to 8 weeks of no fap; the amped up Agression in me keeping me alert and primped for a fight. Then I'd Fap and start the cycle all over again.

About a month and a half ago I've decided to do it again and go no fap for weeks on end as I try to get back into shape. I'm not as Amped as I was once was in my youth but I an noticeably more focused and energized. Curious though, my desire for sex seems to be all over the place. One week I feel not a twinge of sexual desire, then one day it's all I can think of. The rest seems to be in between those two extremes. Anyone know what gives?

 

[Tnt69]

I am not allowed to masterbate unless I have permission. I don’t get permission very often. We have a regular sex life but sometimes because of work scheduling sometimes we go a couple of weeks. This has gone on for awhile. After years of these two week abstinence periods and not being able to release, I find I don’t get excited. I get excited when we are together but when I know we will be apart, nothing.

Lol. That would be the day someone "allows" or "doesnt allow " me to masturbate! He wouldnt be allowed to eat breakfast, lunch or dinner if that were the case! Just try to tell me I cant masturbate once! He'd be sleeping in another room, the GARAGE!

 

[JeffLovesKim]

Seven days without masturbation makes one week...