Lady Reiha
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I was wondering if anyone out on the forums can help me out on my little predicament. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half, and we love eachother very much. The only problem we're having is with sex.
You see, my boyfriend has a very low libido. I'm lucky if I get sex once every two weeks- if that! He claims that he still finds me attractive and that he either feels too exhausted to preform or that he isn't feeling attractive himself. He isn't cheating either, I'm 110% sure about it.
I'm also frustrated with his lack of initiative. For example; today he asked me if I wanted sex. He asked me as I was waking up, so I told him "How about later? We can have a shower together" ( to get us in the mood). He agreed. We had our shower, and a little bit of foreplay ensued. As I took a few more minutes to wash my hair, he got out of the bathroom and went straight to the computer room, while I waited-naked for him.
After about 10 minutes, I got dressed and came into the computer room ( he had jeans on at this point). I tried to undress him. Mild foreplay ensued, and then he did up his jeans and went downstairs to prepare supper. I did some dishes and some laundry, we ate, and he decided to watch a show with our room mate ( a guy).
So I went on Lit for a while, and waited for him. He didn't come. So I decided to take a nap. He didn't come. Instead, when I woke up, he was back on the computer. By then, our room mate was in the same room.. so asking for sex was a little awkward then.
By the time my room mate went to bed, my other room mate got home ( also a guy), which then my boyfriend was talking to them. After a half-hour they exited the room, to which I assumed they were still hanging out. I got up, only to noticed that all the lights in the house were off. I went into my room, and my boyfriend is there, asleep.
I turned on the light and asked him "why didn't we have sex". His reply was simply "I'm sorry. I promise, tomorrow after you get home from work, I love you..". By then, I sighed, told him I loved him as well and exited the bedroom, turning off the light.
And now, I am here- writing this.
I'm so damn confused. I'm not the type of girl to refuse anything he wants. He KNOWS that I'll do anything, and if he isn't in the mood for sex, that i'm willing to pleasure him without asking for anything in return. He constantly re-assures me that I'm not doing anything to bother him.. so what's the deal?
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated and most helpful.... Thanks a million...
You see, my boyfriend has a very low libido. I'm lucky if I get sex once every two weeks- if that! He claims that he still finds me attractive and that he either feels too exhausted to preform or that he isn't feeling attractive himself. He isn't cheating either, I'm 110% sure about it.
I'm also frustrated with his lack of initiative. For example; today he asked me if I wanted sex. He asked me as I was waking up, so I told him "How about later? We can have a shower together" ( to get us in the mood). He agreed. We had our shower, and a little bit of foreplay ensued. As I took a few more minutes to wash my hair, he got out of the bathroom and went straight to the computer room, while I waited-naked for him.
After about 10 minutes, I got dressed and came into the computer room ( he had jeans on at this point). I tried to undress him. Mild foreplay ensued, and then he did up his jeans and went downstairs to prepare supper. I did some dishes and some laundry, we ate, and he decided to watch a show with our room mate ( a guy).
So I went on Lit for a while, and waited for him. He didn't come. So I decided to take a nap. He didn't come. Instead, when I woke up, he was back on the computer. By then, our room mate was in the same room.. so asking for sex was a little awkward then.
By the time my room mate went to bed, my other room mate got home ( also a guy), which then my boyfriend was talking to them. After a half-hour they exited the room, to which I assumed they were still hanging out. I got up, only to noticed that all the lights in the house were off. I went into my room, and my boyfriend is there, asleep.
I turned on the light and asked him "why didn't we have sex". His reply was simply "I'm sorry. I promise, tomorrow after you get home from work, I love you..". By then, I sighed, told him I loved him as well and exited the bedroom, turning off the light.
And now, I am here- writing this.
I'm so damn confused. I'm not the type of girl to refuse anything he wants. He KNOWS that I'll do anything, and if he isn't in the mood for sex, that i'm willing to pleasure him without asking for anything in return. He constantly re-assures me that I'm not doing anything to bother him.. so what's the deal?
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated and most helpful.... Thanks a million...
