You don't know me, I'm just a Virgin Newbie (Now!). I don't know you...so let me tell you some things about me.
I was born in Stuttgart, Germany, Navy brat. Grew up with my brother and Mom, she divorced early in my childhood.
My brother left the house at about 15-16 year-old, into juvenile homes and such. I left my Mom at 12 years-old to live with my Dad and his 'housekeeper' (1982).
Life with Dad and his wife didn't go well. But ironically the best and most fondest memories came from the Catholic private school attended (Key West, Fla.). Dad had(s) his own personal problems and his wife was an absolute witch (We are now friends and e-mail buddies.)
There was one time in Key West my Dad kicked me out, left me out in the parking lot of K-Mart at midnight. For all he knew I was gone. Walked to police station and reported the 'abandonment'. Went to school (Catholic) the next day. Dad calls to report me missing and subsequent absence from school...only I was at school. Proudest moment as a kid, making my Dad look the fool.
Moved back with Mom, she remarried and divorced in a span of 5-6 months. Left Mom again to live with Dad. He kicks me out for good this time after about 2 years.
Like my brother before me I go from juvenile home, to foster home to juvenile home. Never to finish high school. Joined Navy like Dad, good choice.
Spent 3 1/2 years in Navy, fucked anything that moved OR had a pulse. Got early out during ramp down after Gulf War. Married my a girl I met at school while I was in juvenile home.
Returned to Minnesota from Navy, moved in with wife. Cheated on wife...had baby to make it all better. Cory...the most precious, best-behaved and even tempered kid you will ever meet, he is now 8 years-old. Divorce after 6 years, two cars and a house.
Met Debbie online doing the IRC & Quick Cam thing, Debbie moves from Indiannapolis to Minnesota to live. Debbie is a good woman, takes care of me, too good care of me. Helps me through the divvorce, I help her with her then 14 year-old daughter.
The divorce was ugly, but could've been worse, on a scale from 1 to 5, 5 being the worst, it was a 4. Had to represent myself in court and convince judge Cory was 'ready' for overnight sleep-overs with Daddy. His mother, or more accurately my X-Mother-In-Law interferred continuously, as she did during the marriage. It wasn't Cory who wasn't ready for overnight sleep-overs, it was the mother and X-In-Laws who were not ready for Cory to be ready...Of important note, Cory's mother slept with him until 6 1/2 -7 years old...not good and I strongly discouraged it, seems to have stopped.
Got into computers and taught myself hardware, software and programming. Lot's o' fun. I think my first AOL bill was like $300 or something insane. Been on the Internet since 1994.
Life with Debbie was good, she helped me with Cory when I needed it most, good to have a female presence around, he was 3 1/2 at the time of the divorce and when she came to live with me.
Debbie was raised in southern Illinois, bible belt country, she was a preacher's wife awhile back before she met me. She didn't like me surfing porn or chatting we with people, anyone on the Internet. Somehow I convinced this woman pose nude on the Internet...even put together a website and sold subscriptions and made a little money. She was much older than me, 43 at the time we met I think...anyhow she was also 6'3" and had legs from NY to CA. Hot looking lady, and a good woman I must say.
But...I felt I had to leave her after 5 years...like I said she took good care of me, did my laundry, cooked, cleaned while I basically laid around and got fat & lazy. Threw myself into work and a small software company business. I left her to take care of myself and feel better about myself...be my own man. Look after my own finances and either make it or break it on my own.
Well, that's the brief story...thanks for reading. Someone else's life stories can be quite boring I'm sure, but like I said, I don't know you and you don't know me.
Now you know a bit about me...here I am.
Zamdrist
I was born in Stuttgart, Germany, Navy brat. Grew up with my brother and Mom, she divorced early in my childhood.
My brother left the house at about 15-16 year-old, into juvenile homes and such. I left my Mom at 12 years-old to live with my Dad and his 'housekeeper' (1982).
Life with Dad and his wife didn't go well. But ironically the best and most fondest memories came from the Catholic private school attended (Key West, Fla.). Dad had(s) his own personal problems and his wife was an absolute witch (We are now friends and e-mail buddies.)
There was one time in Key West my Dad kicked me out, left me out in the parking lot of K-Mart at midnight. For all he knew I was gone. Walked to police station and reported the 'abandonment'. Went to school (Catholic) the next day. Dad calls to report me missing and subsequent absence from school...only I was at school. Proudest moment as a kid, making my Dad look the fool.
Moved back with Mom, she remarried and divorced in a span of 5-6 months. Left Mom again to live with Dad. He kicks me out for good this time after about 2 years.
Like my brother before me I go from juvenile home, to foster home to juvenile home. Never to finish high school. Joined Navy like Dad, good choice.
Spent 3 1/2 years in Navy, fucked anything that moved OR had a pulse. Got early out during ramp down after Gulf War. Married my a girl I met at school while I was in juvenile home.
Returned to Minnesota from Navy, moved in with wife. Cheated on wife...had baby to make it all better. Cory...the most precious, best-behaved and even tempered kid you will ever meet, he is now 8 years-old. Divorce after 6 years, two cars and a house.
Met Debbie online doing the IRC & Quick Cam thing, Debbie moves from Indiannapolis to Minnesota to live. Debbie is a good woman, takes care of me, too good care of me. Helps me through the divvorce, I help her with her then 14 year-old daughter.
The divorce was ugly, but could've been worse, on a scale from 1 to 5, 5 being the worst, it was a 4. Had to represent myself in court and convince judge Cory was 'ready' for overnight sleep-overs with Daddy. His mother, or more accurately my X-Mother-In-Law interferred continuously, as she did during the marriage. It wasn't Cory who wasn't ready for overnight sleep-overs, it was the mother and X-In-Laws who were not ready for Cory to be ready...Of important note, Cory's mother slept with him until 6 1/2 -7 years old...not good and I strongly discouraged it, seems to have stopped.
Got into computers and taught myself hardware, software and programming. Lot's o' fun. I think my first AOL bill was like $300 or something insane. Been on the Internet since 1994.
Life with Debbie was good, she helped me with Cory when I needed it most, good to have a female presence around, he was 3 1/2 at the time of the divorce and when she came to live with me.
Debbie was raised in southern Illinois, bible belt country, she was a preacher's wife awhile back before she met me. She didn't like me surfing porn or chatting we with people, anyone on the Internet. Somehow I convinced this woman pose nude on the Internet...even put together a website and sold subscriptions and made a little money. She was much older than me, 43 at the time we met I think...anyhow she was also 6'3" and had legs from NY to CA. Hot looking lady, and a good woman I must say.
But...I felt I had to leave her after 5 years...like I said she took good care of me, did my laundry, cooked, cleaned while I basically laid around and got fat & lazy. Threw myself into work and a small software company business. I left her to take care of myself and feel better about myself...be my own man. Look after my own finances and either make it or break it on my own.
Well, that's the brief story...thanks for reading. Someone else's life stories can be quite boring I'm sure, but like I said, I don't know you and you don't know me.
Now you know a bit about me...here I am.
Zamdrist
