About Profile Info

[FinnLotta]

I have read hundreds of profiles the last months and noticed that many men have no info at all.

What you put in your profile is of course up to you.
This is only a friendly advise.
It would be nice if you put some info about yourself in your profile.


A photo is always a big plus.I understand if you don't want to show your face.
It can be part of your face or taken at a long distance.Use your imagination.

I have seen people who want to recive Pm's but don't have Pm's on,so check that.

When you send a Pm to a woman,be respectful,give nice compliments about her or something she have posted.
Be yourself and don't lie.
Good spelling and grammar is a plus.
I have noticed that the kind men here have many women who like them.

I want the men here to get female friends,online relationships or even love.

Men and Women, what do you think about this?Please comment.

Lotta

 

[Morrigu]

Personally I don't read profiles I'd rather get to know the person through interaction, but that's just me.

 

[FinnLotta]

Morrigu
Thank you for taking time to reply.I understand that you don't read profiles.You get to know people when you post.

Lotta

 

[FinnLotta]

I like to know who's online when I am.When I read their profiles I get some info about them.If they sound interesting,I send them a Pm.
If they have posts,I read them.
I have met some wonderful men that way.

(If anyone see any error in my writing,please tell me so I can improve).

Lotta

 

[FinnLotta]

I love to meet new people so you are very welcome to come in and say hi.
I'm very friendly and I'm feeling lonely.A woman shouldn't feel lonely when there are so many men here.

Lotta

 

[MrEd63]

It would be a big help if people indicated their gender on profiles - save potential embarrassment

 

[omgitselaine]

It would be a big help if people indicated their gender on profiles - save potential embarrassment

Ummm i do not have any doubt in my mind with your name and avatar .... that you are a male !! luuv the avatar by the way !!

 

[MrEd63]

Ummm i do not have any doubt in my mind with your name and avatar .... that you are a male !! luuv the avatar by the way !!

( checks down trousers to make certain ) Thank you dear lady

 

[FinnLotta]

MrEd63
Thank you.Sometimes it's difficult to know if it's a man or a woman.
Unfortunately it's easy to lie on the internet.

Lotta

 

[Female_Teacher]

Slightly OT, but could you guys help me- How do I get a display pic up? I managed to get a profile pic up, but I can't see the option to get an Avatar pic

Thanks!

 

[FinnLotta]

I hope more people would say what they think.The people who have been here a long time,maybe they doesn't care about this.Maybe it's because I'm new here that I feel it does matter.I don't think the men that I want to reach read this but I wanted to try.

 

[FinnLotta]

FemaleTeacher
I've seen that you must have 100 posts before you can get an avatar.
In the How to forum there is lot of info about anything.

Lotta

 

[whalee]

Hi FinnLotta. I hope you find lots of friends here. THere are very lovely people on Lit.

 

[Guest]

Personally I don't read profiles I'd rather get to know the person through interaction, but that's just me.

I only check a profile if the persons post grabs my attention.



Hello Lotta Welcome and enjoy

 

[kendra1980]

I profile people before I will spend much time with them.

Profile pages don't tell you as much (and are often not a true representation of the person) as following a few pages of their posts.

See where they post, see what they say, who they interact with. That tells a whole lot more about the person.

 

[ORCAA]

I do enjoy reading profiles as a little glimpse of them selfs , profile should be written with honesty

 

[FinnLotta]

Hi whalee.
I hope I get to know more nice people.
I have male friends here.
I love Lit.

Lotta

 

[FinnLotta]

Hi Wicked Kitten.
Thank you!I'm on Lit every day if I can.

Lotta

 

[FinnLotta]

kendra1980

Your advice is good.
If someone never posted, there is only by profile info you get an idea about that person.

 

[FinnLotta]

ORCAA
Yes, honesty should be important.
I try to be that.

 

[FinnLotta]

Thank You everyone who has replyed and read my Thread.
I have asked the moderator to move it to another forum.
This is not the right place.

Lotta

 

[FinnLotta]

I still read peoples profiles.
I always get dissapointed when there is no info at all.
Please put some basic info.