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[becca302]

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[jaF0]

Thank you for serious comments.

Seek professional psychiatric help.

Self mutilation is an indicator of something serious.

 

[lovecraft68]

If your 'master' wants you to do this, or is okay with it, then he is a piece of shit abusive sadist and you should run.

If you think permanently branding your body like you're a piece of cattle is okay you should also run...straight to some professional help.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Hopefully some others chime in. I’ll also bump a few thread to the top that discuss branding.

It would be a hard limit for me. I would get a tattoo, though, but only in a long term relationship. This would not be a small decision.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I want to put a brand on my tit. Hot metal to flesh. I want I initials of my Master....I feel I am gifted to him.

How do I do this...bend a paperclip with pliars and hold over a gas stove burner?

Anyone do this?

Thank you for serious comments.

I don’t know you and you seem to have few posts here, so I don’t know how experienced or how serious you are, but you asked for serious input, so I’ll try.

In BDSM there is the idea that your practice should be SSC(safe, sane, consensual) or RACK (risk aware consensual kink).

People will have opinions on safe and sane as you probably already noticed.
Personally, I think you should work on the risk aware and informed consent part and the post I quoted below makes me think you have a bit left to do, if you are serious about it.

For me, this is something best kept in fantasyland. The burn scars I have are unintentional. If you look at the threads TPH bumped you will find people who have done this and you can find information about risks and risk mitigation online.
Based on the post I quoted below though, I think you need to look into what it is you want from this and why, the possible fallout and how you would handle that etc.

As for the gift part, I think that permanent markings with someones initials is the type of gift that should be given only if it is on the gift registry of the owner of said initials and only if you know them really well from interaction over time.

In other words, I think there should be consent from the other person too. If you go ahead with this and need to seek medical attention(burns are prone to getting infected for example), you might put them in a very difficult spot. They may feel very bad about it even if nothing that bad happens.

This is weird...to me. But I have been chatrooms with a personna who has told me to call him Master. I met him in the slave auction chatroom. Anyway, yada, yada,yada... I find myself, unpromted, wanting to fashion a branding iron....from a paperclip????

So it fits the curve of my tit!

And I want to do this...is that spending too much time in chat...or what!

This may not be the right thread... but where is the "branding" thread?

 

[Enchanted_DreamFairy218]

I want to put a brand on my tit. Hot metal to flesh. I want I initials of my Master....I feel I am gifted to him.

How do I do this...bend a paperclip with pliars and hold over a gas stove burner?

Anyone do this?

Thank you for serious comments.

I don't think I could ever do this. I remember watching a documentary about a cult branding their members. I believe it was the NXIVM Documentary, if I remember correctly. It was horrible what those members had to go through.

 

[jaF0]

And the leaders are in prison now.

 

[Deleted member 861104]

Perhaps this makes more sense.... Especially in an online relationship.... you never know when "poof" they are gone....
https://www.submissivefeminist.com/ice-branding/

Much more playful and it will go away....

Shoot, you can always redo it if it fades.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

OK, I get it. You are serious and want to make a very big gesture, a solid, timeless indication to Him of your devotion and commitment. For that, you are to be commended. Truly.

Now, have you asked Him how He feels about it? I mention this because if He is not really impressed, then that’s a big, big red flag for you. If He isn’t 105% superhappy with you branding that beautiful boob - and I’m not seeing sarcastic here - then who are you doing it for?

I’m being as serious as you seem to be. Serious reply requested.

Follow-up edit, in case you haven’t actually asked Him before embarking on this.

You call Him your Master, which raises a fairly basic question - are you serious about your submissive status? I mean, are you serious about it, serious to the level that branding yourself implies? Is He serious about it too, and to that level?

If you are and He is, then there’s a third question. If you haven’t asked Him, if this is just a independent gesture on your part, how is He going to feel about you marring His property? Do you think He would be pleased if you keyed His car with your initials as a gesture of your submissiveness?

If He is indeed your Master, then this is emphatically not something to dropped on Him as a surprise.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

But thank you all. I am a bit upset that people here....some of the most open minded I am aware of...seem to warn that alarm bells are ringing if I am serious...and yes. I am.

Please consider the fact that we are a VERY open minded group of people, especially in this forum, and we are sounding the alarms. This is telling. We are being kind…this is a very serious decision.

 

[IrisAlthea]

Counseling tends to be vague and then an annuity for the bored conseller...been there, done that....chat tends to be a parallel universe in my opinion....

But thank you all. I am a bit upset that people here....some of the most open minded I am aware of...seem to warn that alarm bells are ringing if I am serious...and yes. I am.

I think the symbolism would be... the real time fling ...and the chat moment I find myself in...if I hurt myself bodily...it would show. The emotional risk and possible scar does not, but darn it...both are real.

Actually, I did not think this was bdsm...so I apologize to that community for being basically ignorant and seemingly unglued.

My comments seem incoherent, but thank you ... for making sense of this for me.

I am way pass vanity..age is making a mess of my body. Sometimes, small impulsiveness is not a bad thing.

Mayhaps...random intimacy is much more dangerous than a small self inflicted scar... but sanity can be tenuous...sometimes knowing how to fake it is a useful coping mechanism.

We hardly know anything about your situation, but the impulsiveness you talk about is what worries me.
It is not about a small scar that will be under your clothes most of the time. That you think that is the extent of it is what is problematic.

It’s about making sure that you are aware about any consequences beyond the scar. What if it gets infected? Can you get treatment? How will they react to a wound that may be hard to explain away as accidental? If they think you did it, you might get in trouble but they may also think someone did it to you and get others in trouble.
It’s about making sure you are fully informed. Burn wound treatment + pressure from bra could get problematic for example. How do you handle the risk of passing out? There is information to be found. This is from less than a minute googling:
https://www.healthline.com/health/body-branding-need-to-know

And again, it is about consent. Dominants get the courtesy of being asked to consent too. Talking about hot things in theory =/=doing them.
Someone making grand gestures of that magnitude in my name, unprompted and without serious discussion, would make me distance myself.

 

[Specula]

I want to put a brand on my tit. Hot metal to flesh. I want I initials of my Master....I feel I am gifted to him.

How do I do this...bend a paperclip with pliars and hold over a gas stove burner?

Anyone do this?

Thank you for serious comments.

The very fact that you are expressing your thoughts about this matter, putting it up for comment, is a very good thing. Such a step should not be done in haste, not simply because of the risks involved in burning flesh, but also the risks of deeper long term psychological damage

 

[cookiecat]

Counseling tends to be vague and then an annuity for the bored conseller...been there, done that....chat tends to be a parallel universe in my opinion....

But thank you all. I am a bit upset that people here....some of the most open minded I am aware of...seem to warn that alarm bells are ringing if I am serious...and yes. I am.

I think the symbolism would be... the real time fling ...and the chat moment I find myself in...if I hurt myself bodily...it would show. The emotional risk and possible scar does not, but darn it...both are real.

Actually, I did not think this was bdsm...so I apologize to that community for being basically ignorant and seemingly unglued.

My comments seem incoherent, but thank you ... for making sense of this for me.

I am way pass vanity..age is making a mess of my body. Sometimes, small impulsiveness is not a bad thing.

Mayhaps...random intimacy is much more dangerous than a small self inflicted scar... but sanity can be tenuous...sometimes knowing how to fake it is a useful coping mechanism.

You don't seem unglued. More like your brain is being ruled by your pussy. I have been there sooooooooooo many times.

When I first discovered bdsm, I was unpartnered but I had ALL the feels. I would meet these guys in chatrooms, who I called Master or Lord or Sir Bob . Each one would feel like THE ONE. I did the craziest things because I wanted to. I felt it with every fiber of my being. It was like you said -- I wanted to prove my submission. Maybe even more to myself than to him? Even if he hadn't asked me for this gift -- I wanted to slam him over the head with my cherished gift.

I really wanted my pussy lips pierced in the worst way. I was single - no one was asking me to do this. The idea of having rings in my pussy in order to allow the next dom/master/guy to lock me up, leash me up.... it was really a powerful thing at that time.

The thing was, no one was asking me to do it. In a way, I was controlling some situation that wasn't even a situation. I wanted to do this thing for me to make me feel a certain way. Wrapping it up in this gift I was planning to give someone I didn't even know yet was my way of making me feel like it was something more. Something deeper.

Not every guy I've been with in the last 20 years has been thrilled with my piercing.

(As an aside: fortunately, the piercer I saw talked me out of rings in my labia and instead suggested a clit-hood piercing. He was the one who got me to see rings were a huge leap for a relationship I wasn't even in)

I get how you feel. I really do. I recently moved 800 miles to be with someone I believe I'm in love with, someone I want to serve as his slave. We met online, on a kinky site. I'm old enough to know what I want. And yet, 3 months in, the glow of lust is wearing off a bit. Reality is setting in. We have a mountain of differences to overcome. The floaty, happy pussy feeling I wish I had ALL THE TIME just doesn't get me through some of the difficult moments we have.

If you want a thing, an act, a thing to give you this feeling - think it through. Is branding the only option?

I haven't been around here in a while. But, I have been here in this particular forum for a long time. This is an open-minded group of people. The people who have replied are very experienced. It's because of this experience - including mine - you are getting these responses.

Don't brand your tit with a paper clip.

Beyond the possible "what could go wrong" scenarios, you'll probably have a scar you won't what later on. If you must, try a different body part isn't so tender and so visible to your next potential partner. Maybe your hip? And, if you must, give it time. Impulsive is fun. A fun fling, for sure. Wait a week or five. See how you feel. How the person you're chatting with feels.






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[ToPleaseHim]

Cookie

 

[IrisAlthea]

You don't seem unglued. More like your brain is being ruled by your pussy. I have been there sooooooooooo many times.

When I first discovered bdsm, I was unpartnered but I had ALL the feels. I would meet these guys in chatrooms, who I called Master or Lord or Sir Bob . Each one would feel like THE ONE. I did the craziest things because I wanted to. I felt it with every fiber of my being. It was like you said -- I wanted to prove my submission. Maybe even more to myself than to him. Even if he hadn't asked me for this gift -- I wanted to slam him over the head with my cherished gift.

You describe it so well!
Sir Bob made me almost squirt marguarita through my nose though.

The thing was, no one was asking me to do it. In a way, I was controlling some situation that wasn't even a situation. I wanted to do this thing for me to make me feel a certain way. Wrapping it up in this gift I was planning to give someone I didn't even know yet was my way of making me feel like it was something more. Something deeper.

Yes!

The floaty, happy pussy feeling I wish I had ALL THE TIME just doesn't get me through some of the difficult moments we have.

Does it ever though?

If you want a thing, an act, a thing to give you this feeling - think it through. Is branding the only option?



I haven't been around here in a while. But, I have been here in this particular forum for a long time. This is an open-minded group of people. The people who have replied are very experienced. It's because of this experience - including mine - you are getting these responses.

Don't brand your tit with a paper clip.

Beyond the possible "what could go wrong" scenarios, you'll probably have a scar you won't what later on. If you must, try a different body part isn't so tender and so visible to your next potential partner. Maybe your hip? And, if you must, give it time. Impulsive is fun. A fun fling, for sure. Wait a week or five. See how you feel. How the person you're chatting with feels.

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Yes.

 

[seela]

You've gotten some really good advice above.

True story:

I accidentally branded my boob once when I was doing something (not prompted, all on my own, birthday surprise) that I thought was cute and fun for someone. I was fine with having that mark, it brought back happy memories of something really great. Or at least it did, until the dynamic between me and the person I did the thing for died. Then it became a sad reminder of what used to be and no longer was. I did wish I didn't have the mark anymore and seeing it made me feel bad, but I still didn't regret having done what I did.

Eventually the sadness went away and I was able to associate the nice times with the mark again. Since then the mark has faded and now I really have to look for it to see it. In a way I'm glad it's not there, but at the same time it's sad it's gone.

So I guess my tip is that if you choose to go through with this, do it because you yourself want to do it, do it for yourself. Do it if you're sure you won't mind seeing something on your body for a long time even after the person you're now thinking about doing it for is no longer in your life.

If you want to go through with this and the person you're chatting with is also game, make sure you research thoroughly how to do it to avoid any serious complications.

And just a thought, could the brand be something other than the initials? You would still have a lasting memory of that moment, you'd get the pain and you could look at it later on and get all the feels. But if your current partner doesn't turn out to be a forever partner, the next one won't have to be reminded of your current partner's name every time you get together. That seems like a plus?

Please don't mix doing something like that with intimacy. It doesn't gift you to your partner any more than spanking your butt with a spatula on their command does if your partner doesn't want to receive that gift.

You have time. Do the research on how to do this safely and maybe spend a little time thinkng about why you want to do this.

Also, maybe think about what advice you'd give to a friend who was planning on getting a tattoo. Would you advice they think it through and think about what motif to get and where, especially if it's the first tattoo they'd be getting? What advice would you give a friend who was planning on getting a tattoo of their very new, online only partner's initials as the first tattoo?