Belilica
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welll im 19 and i just had sex a couple weeks ago for the first time and since the first time i think iv had sex about 10 or 11 times and to me it just doesnt feel good and every time he puts it in it hurts ..i dont understand why this is can some one please explain and tell me what i need to do ...
This girl posted on the end of a thread that I started, but is pretty much dead. Just thought I'd start something new so that she could get some responses.
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I think that if there isn't enough foreplay taking place, then perhaps you are a bit dry. Tell him what you like, what you do when you touch yourself, what gets you going. Wetness can also be hindered if you are scared that it's going to hurt. You could try using a water based lubricant. If you are getting irritated and are using condoms, you might be allergic to latex or spermicide. It could also be that if he is large, that you're not used to having something that big in there. If that's the case, try a small dildo or
something along those lines. If you don't want to have sex, tell him and don't let him pressure you.
I hope this is helpful, perhaps someone else has some input...
Bel
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welll im 19 and i just had sex a couple weeks ago for the first time and since the first time i think iv had sex about 10 or 11 times and to me it just doesnt feel good and every time he puts it in it hurts ..i dont understand why this is can some one please explain and tell me what i need to do ...
This girl posted on the end of a thread that I started, but is pretty much dead. Just thought I'd start something new so that she could get some responses.
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I think that if there isn't enough foreplay taking place, then perhaps you are a bit dry. Tell him what you like, what you do when you touch yourself, what gets you going. Wetness can also be hindered if you are scared that it's going to hurt. You could try using a water based lubricant. If you are getting irritated and are using condoms, you might be allergic to latex or spermicide. It could also be that if he is large, that you're not used to having something that big in there. If that's the case, try a small dildo or
something along those lines. If you don't want to have sex, tell him and don't let him pressure you.
I hope this is helpful, perhaps someone else has some input...
Bel
