MMM_wms
Really Really Experienced
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- Dec 4, 2019
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And this time with more substance. I offer you a chance for something I hope you’ll need as much as I do: a close and intimate companionship with a man you might get to like a lot. Because I seek precisely that with a dear woman. And I hope you need such a companionship as much as I because you too belong to that group of people who feel complete only when intimacy and affection becomes part of their lives.
When you married your husband you were counting on this to happen, and it did for a while. But then the tooth of time eroded it all. Erotic intimacy occurred less and less until it stopped completely, and affection got transferred to the kids and then to your dog. That is what happened to me at least.
I could end my ad right here, because everything that follows is merely “gravy”: some additional color on my desires and hopefully on yours also. … You and I have been short-changed by life to some extent. Not totally short-changed, otherwise we would not meet here on the Personals forum of Lit. You feel reasonably happy overall, and I do too; but still there is quite a bit missing in your life and in mine; among other things a “tingling” of sorts that we are not encountering often enough.
Can what we miss be had with a stranger we might meet through this ad? It depends mostly on you, I would say. I am ready for it, and I can imagine easily such a companionship via e-mails. Because intimacy and perhaps soulmate-ship happens in the heads of two people first, and in their hearts next. And no real-life touching and fondling is required for that.
IRL is great for intimacy when it becomes sexual. And IRL is something I cannot offer you. Because I am married and I do feel some loyalty towards my wife. Same as I hope you feel for your husband too. After all, we both have been married for quite some time, and our times together have spawned a sense of loyalry. Even if erotic intimacy and visiable affection have ceased.
But even sex between you and me can happen virtually or “remotely”. I have had it happen, and virtual sex is far better than no sex at all. OK, our fingers must come into play, or some toys. But that is something we’ve been practising for some time now, have we not?
And all other aspects of intimacy, which are happening in our minds and in our hearts, often intensify between mail lovers. Since physical intimacy is missing, the other parts of intimacy becomes stronger, because they must compensate for this deficiency.
So dear woman who kept reading my ad until the end: can I suggest you think about the proposition I made you today? And if you still like it tomorrow morning, write me a PM and introduce yourself.
When you married your husband you were counting on this to happen, and it did for a while. But then the tooth of time eroded it all. Erotic intimacy occurred less and less until it stopped completely, and affection got transferred to the kids and then to your dog. That is what happened to me at least.
I could end my ad right here, because everything that follows is merely “gravy”: some additional color on my desires and hopefully on yours also. … You and I have been short-changed by life to some extent. Not totally short-changed, otherwise we would not meet here on the Personals forum of Lit. You feel reasonably happy overall, and I do too; but still there is quite a bit missing in your life and in mine; among other things a “tingling” of sorts that we are not encountering often enough.
Can what we miss be had with a stranger we might meet through this ad? It depends mostly on you, I would say. I am ready for it, and I can imagine easily such a companionship via e-mails. Because intimacy and perhaps soulmate-ship happens in the heads of two people first, and in their hearts next. And no real-life touching and fondling is required for that.
IRL is great for intimacy when it becomes sexual. And IRL is something I cannot offer you. Because I am married and I do feel some loyalty towards my wife. Same as I hope you feel for your husband too. After all, we both have been married for quite some time, and our times together have spawned a sense of loyalry. Even if erotic intimacy and visiable affection have ceased.
But even sex between you and me can happen virtually or “remotely”. I have had it happen, and virtual sex is far better than no sex at all. OK, our fingers must come into play, or some toys. But that is something we’ve been practising for some time now, have we not?
And all other aspects of intimacy, which are happening in our minds and in our hearts, often intensify between mail lovers. Since physical intimacy is missing, the other parts of intimacy becomes stronger, because they must compensate for this deficiency.
So dear woman who kept reading my ad until the end: can I suggest you think about the proposition I made you today? And if you still like it tomorrow morning, write me a PM and introduce yourself.
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