Wildflowerfirefly
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Love Making vs Fucking.
So I wanted to give my opinion on this specific topic because I actually got into a discussion with my Master about this a couple of weeks ago so I knew I wanted to write something about this and voice my opinion.
No I am not a expert I do not have any degrees in sex therapy or what have you but I do have a vagina so that does indeed give me some insight into this and allows me to have an opinion on the topic.
I know that my female friends from our banter when we talk about sex and sexual acts that in general most of them prefer to make love as opposed to fucking.
I get it by all rights love making is soft and tender and passionate it’s the stroking of your hair the caress of your lovers hand against your face the whispers of sweet nothings in your ear of undying devotion and love.
It’s beautiful and poetic there is nothing more sweet and sensual then a man or a woman who loves you and wants to show you that by their touch the way they kisses you the way they whispers in your ear of how much they adore and treasure you.
Heck according to Wikipedia the definition or distinction of the two is the following.
The act of making love: is a bonding, a reinforcement of couples commitment to each other.
Where as “fucking” is the act of sexual intercourse.
So do you care what the difference is?
Because if you’re making love to somebody and they are doing all the wonderful things they’re touching your hair touching your face whispering sweet nothings in your ear they are still doing the acts of sexual intercourse are they not??
They still are for all intensive purposes banging the shit out of you.
So does that mean when someone is “fucking you” that they don’t love you or treasure you or your body? That because they are fucking you your not in a committed relationship?? Hmmm
Yes there are certain situations when fucking is fucking like you can go to the bar pick somebody up take them home and bang the shit out of them and there doesn’t have to be any feelings or emotion involved it’s just a consensual act between two people longing to feel the excitement and rush from uncomplicated consenting sex.
That’s not what I’m referring to nor what I’m talking about when i discuss my opinion. I will use me as a example..
I am in a BDSM relationship I love that my master treasures me and adores me and he makes me feel like I’m the most important person in the world to him.
It is a thrilling thing to feel the love that he bestows upon me. For he is a generous man and he is very giving in every way.
HOWEVER!!!
I like to be fucked I like it rough I like pain I like my hair pulled I like to be called his Naughty Little Slut. Did I ever stop to think he didn’t love me or appreciate me because he wasn’t making love to me because we were Fucking..
My answer is HELL NO!!!
How your partner feels about you should resignate in the way that they touch you and treat you. In a BDSM relationship there is a lot of control and submission that doesn’t mean that it can’t be loving or affectionate or tender or passionate towards you.
I guess I just get offended at the fact that my friends and people out there in general think that to have someone fuck you is horrible the word in itself is so filthy and dirty and wrong..but why is it?
It is only filthy and dirty and wrong if that’s how you perceive it to be.
There are alot of women and men out there who like to be fucked they like to feel dirty and nasty and filthy cuz it’s sexually exciting and erotic.
Some people even feel that if your fucking it is just about you and about worrying your own self satisfaction your sexual release it doesn’t have to be…
Having sex, making love, fucking it is all in what you put into it.
I guess my point to all this is this
Love and Passion and Tenderness CAN Exist in both Love Making and Fucking.
If you are willing to open your mind and give your body freely without reservations the possibilities are endless.
Wildflower
So I wanted to give my opinion on this specific topic because I actually got into a discussion with my Master about this a couple of weeks ago so I knew I wanted to write something about this and voice my opinion.
No I am not a expert I do not have any degrees in sex therapy or what have you but I do have a vagina so that does indeed give me some insight into this and allows me to have an opinion on the topic.
I know that my female friends from our banter when we talk about sex and sexual acts that in general most of them prefer to make love as opposed to fucking.
I get it by all rights love making is soft and tender and passionate it’s the stroking of your hair the caress of your lovers hand against your face the whispers of sweet nothings in your ear of undying devotion and love.
It’s beautiful and poetic there is nothing more sweet and sensual then a man or a woman who loves you and wants to show you that by their touch the way they kisses you the way they whispers in your ear of how much they adore and treasure you.
Heck according to Wikipedia the definition or distinction of the two is the following.
The act of making love: is a bonding, a reinforcement of couples commitment to each other.
Where as “fucking” is the act of sexual intercourse.
So do you care what the difference is?
Because if you’re making love to somebody and they are doing all the wonderful things they’re touching your hair touching your face whispering sweet nothings in your ear they are still doing the acts of sexual intercourse are they not??
They still are for all intensive purposes banging the shit out of you.
So does that mean when someone is “fucking you” that they don’t love you or treasure you or your body? That because they are fucking you your not in a committed relationship?? Hmmm
Yes there are certain situations when fucking is fucking like you can go to the bar pick somebody up take them home and bang the shit out of them and there doesn’t have to be any feelings or emotion involved it’s just a consensual act between two people longing to feel the excitement and rush from uncomplicated consenting sex.
That’s not what I’m referring to nor what I’m talking about when i discuss my opinion. I will use me as a example..
I am in a BDSM relationship I love that my master treasures me and adores me and he makes me feel like I’m the most important person in the world to him.
It is a thrilling thing to feel the love that he bestows upon me. For he is a generous man and he is very giving in every way.
HOWEVER!!!
I like to be fucked I like it rough I like pain I like my hair pulled I like to be called his Naughty Little Slut. Did I ever stop to think he didn’t love me or appreciate me because he wasn’t making love to me because we were Fucking..
My answer is HELL NO!!!
How your partner feels about you should resignate in the way that they touch you and treat you. In a BDSM relationship there is a lot of control and submission that doesn’t mean that it can’t be loving or affectionate or tender or passionate towards you.
I guess I just get offended at the fact that my friends and people out there in general think that to have someone fuck you is horrible the word in itself is so filthy and dirty and wrong..but why is it?
It is only filthy and dirty and wrong if that’s how you perceive it to be.
There are alot of women and men out there who like to be fucked they like to feel dirty and nasty and filthy cuz it’s sexually exciting and erotic.
Some people even feel that if your fucking it is just about you and about worrying your own self satisfaction your sexual release it doesn’t have to be…
Having sex, making love, fucking it is all in what you put into it.
I guess my point to all this is this
Love and Passion and Tenderness CAN Exist in both Love Making and Fucking.
If you are willing to open your mind and give your body freely without reservations the possibilities are endless.
Wildflower 
