A weird thought

[nathan122]

Maybe you have also noticed over the
(Choose one): years, months, weeks, days, hours, seconds

that women on here tend to get bombarded with messages from lonely perv men eager to find at least a chat friend? Maybe you’ve also noticed that something like 98% of people on here never meet anyone offline, or have sex with someone they met here.

So here’s the radical idea: since we’re not going to have sex anyway, how about if us lonely perv men, um, chat with each other?! It might be fun. Try me?

 

[hilton1958]

Maybe you have also noticed over the
(Choose one): years, months, weeks, days, hours, seconds

that women on here tend to get bombarded with messages from lonely perv men eager to find at least a chat friend? Maybe you’ve also noticed that something like 98% of people on here never meet anyone offline, or have sex with someone they met here.

So here’s the radical idea: since we’re not going to have sex anyway, how about if us lonely perv men, um, chat with each other?! It might be fun. Try me?

I am one of the 98%. However, if I actually came across people here who lived close to me, that might change, but in more than 10 years I never have. Maybe it's for the best.

 

[nathan122]

We ARE the 98%
I've met some great folks from SA online. If you'd like to chat sometime, please drop me a line.

 

[EroticSearcher]

Maybe you have also noticed over the
(Choose one): years, months, weeks, days, hours, seconds

that women on here tend to get bombarded with messages from lonely perv men eager to find at least a chat friend? Maybe you’ve also noticed that something like 98% of people on here never meet anyone offline, or have sex with someone they met here.

So here’s the radical idea: since we’re not going to have sex anyway, how about if us lonely perv men, um, chat with each other?! It might be fun. Try me?

This is true! My worry is as well that the women on here aren't women but men pretending/creating fictional females... but then again if you never meet them and like you said, it's about having a chat mate, does it matter?

 

[nathan122]

This is true! My worry is as well that the women on here aren't women but men pretending/creating fictional females... but then again if you never meet them and like you said, it's about having a chat mate, does it matter?

No doubt there are both, in my opinion and experience. I really LIKE the honesty that can be a feature of online friendships, so I do think it matters in some ways. If one is just looking to get off, which is OK too, it probably doesn't matter as much. IMHO

 

[THoney269]

women on here tend to get bombarded with messages

We do.. while some men on here behave like gentlemen (which I definitely appreciate), most seem to take the entitled/creepy route and get pissed off when women refuse to play along...

 

[bestkeptsecret678]

We do.. while some men on here behave like gentlemen (which I definitely appreciate), most seem to take the entitled/creepy route and get pissed off when women refuse to play along...

There’s nothing like anonymity (plus high speed WiFi) to bring out the best and worst in humanity.

I find it all liberating, as as a chance to be more transparent (on certain matters) than IRL.

 

[THoney269]

There’s nothing like anonymity (plus high speed WiFi) to bring out the best and worst in humanity.

I find it all liberating, as as a chance to be more transparent (on certain matters) than IRL.

I find some of the anonymity liberating..

 

[Poetdontknowit]

It's very true. Horny definitely overrides societal niceties. Couple that with anonymity, welp... you get the Hey Babe, you're hot brainstorm messages. I'll admit, I'm horny, usually. But, I have manners and a sense of decorum. Even chatting, even about sex, is much better if you at least have an opening connection. One liners are stupid. Objectifying is stupid. Just saying Hello, wanna see my "fill in the blank" is stupid. Put some thought into it. Those of us who like the chat appreciate it. And I like chatting with anyone.

 

[JustAnotherWhore]

Am I the only woman who read this, laughed, and thought "good luck to ya?" The ones seeking women but not having success with their shitty one liners and crude approaches would likely bring that same energy to the fulsome chat?

 

[kathyisgr65]

Maybe you have also noticed over the
(Choose one): years, months, weeks, days, hours, seconds

that women on here tend to get bombarded with messages from lonely perv men eager to find at least a chat friend? Maybe you’ve also noticed that something like 98% of people on here never meet anyone offline, or have sex with someone they met here.

So here’s the radical idea: since we’re not going to have sex anyway, how about if us lonely perv men, um, chat with each other?! It might be fun. Try me?

I've suggested it to a couple guys..I'm pan so gender isn't even a consideration.. it's all about personality and dirty mind for me..but for some reason most of the guys I've suggested this to looked at me like I suggested they give up chicks all together and buy a wig and heels.. anyway I'm kinda curious what they're saying to um holler if u want
.if not.. good luck

 

[dkak001]

I've suggested it to a couple guys..I'm pan so gender isn't even a consideration.. it's all about personality and dirty mind for me..but for some reason most of the guys I've suggested this to looked at me like I suggested they give up chicks all together and buy a wig and heels..

Interesting there's reluctance. I'm open to chatting with anyone who wants to chat. Maybe being open minded is the key???

I do hear/read stories now and again from some of the ladies here how pushy a lot of guys can be. Not knowing or experiencing these incidents myself, I can only surmise that is frustrating. My guess is guys outnumber gals by 10:1, so there is that to contend with.

 

[Japansurfer]

I am one of the 98%. However, if I actually came across people here who lived close to me, that might change, but in more than 10 years I never have. Maybe it's for the best.

When it happens it’s great. Not met anyone now I’m in uk - but I did meet someone in Japan from such a site. We had an amazing relationship of lust mixed with non-committed friendship.

 

[Japansurfer]

Some

A fair amount of the men/boys are very pushy and have an entitled kind of attitude...like it's our job to make sure they cum...or come at us like we are a service or product instead of a person...and it is frustrating..but that's what the ignore button is for.
I think if I can find someone or a few someone's that I enjoy chatting with I'm gonna shut down DMs to others
.cuz ppl can be very mean.

Like is not the right button - but definely sympathetic to this comment hope I never come across that way but you never know

 

[Paradox]

I would very much enjoy developing a friendship with someone, but does it have to be pervy? Certainly, I have an interest in things sexual or I wouldn't be on Lit, but I don't need someone to satisfy all my sexual urges constantly. Really, all I want is a friendly person who recognizes that those sexual interests exist and is open to conversing about whatever.

So, @nathan122, I don't think your idea is weird at all, and hope it takes off.