A Warning for the Ladies of Lit

[Lnds]

This is just a warning for the ladies of Lit.
Be wary of this person, they will share conversations, photos, and audio without your permission.
I’ve tried to report this person, but I guess Lit is okay with their members doxxing other members.
So just be careful, he will lie and gaslight you. Their usernameS are in my signature.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

This is just a warning for the ladies of Lit.
Be wary of this person, they will share conversations, photos, and audio without your permission.
I’ve tried to report this person, but I guess Lit is okay with their members doxxing other members.
So just be careful, he will lie and gaslight you. Their usernameS are in my signature.

Sorry you had this experience. You do have to be careful about who you share with.

 

[ericalauren]

This is just a warning for the ladies of Lit.
Be wary of this person, they will share conversations, photos, and audio without your permission.
I’ve tried to report this person, but I guess Lit is okay with their members doxxing other members.
So just be careful, he will lie and gaslight you. Their usernameS are in my signature.

I'm sorry that happened! That's awful.

 

[LauraLO]

This is just a warning for the ladies of Lit.
Be wary of this person, they will share conversations, photos, and audio without your permission.
I’ve tried to report this person, but I guess Lit is okay with their members doxxing other members.
So just be careful, he will lie and gaslight you. Their usernameS are in my signature.

One of the reasons I love Lit is woman like you...so devasted about what that jerkwad did to you but you have probably saved many women from him...huggggs from me to you

 

[Xenaqueen]

Thank you so much for sharing this.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

This is just a warning for the ladies of Lit.
Be wary of this person, they will share conversations, photos, and audio without your permission.
I’ve tried to report this person, but I guess Lit is okay with their members doxxing other members.
So just be careful, he will lie and gaslight you. Their usernameS are in my signature.

I don’t see a member here with those usernames. At least, they don’t come up in a search so maybe they’ve never posted?

1. If you could pls share with me (PM is more than fine) specifics, I can get the site to take action against his account(s).

2. You need to remove his email address from your signature. That’s a violation of the forum rules and could cause trouble for your account.

 

[MissMandy86]

Thank you

 

[Lnds]

but you have probably saved many women from him

That is what I’m hoping to do.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

That is what I’m hoping to do.

I hope this experience has not ruined Lit for you permanently.
It does seem that many people, including many women, do enjoy the interplay that occurs here. I think people become the most disappointed and discouraged when they expect too much.

 

[Lnds]

I hope this experience has not ruined Lit for you permanently.
It does seem that many people, including many women, do enjoy the interplay that occurs here. I think people become the most disappointed and discouraged when they expect too much.

Yeah, it kinda did. Plenty more happened that I did not list publicly here. This is just a warning to the women he may come across.

I was not expecting too much. I did not want or ask him to do any of this. I would like to think basic respect is understood, but that is not the case.

That’s very good OTHER people have had good interactions on this site; I’m warning some women of the one I’ve had.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Yeah, it kinda did. Plenty more happened that I did not list publicly here. This is just a warning to the women he may come across.

I was not expecting too much. I did not want or ask him to do any of this. I would like to think basic respect is understood, but that is not the case.

That’s very good OTHER people have had good interactions on this site; I’m warning some women of the one I’ve had.

As far as I can see, you don’t ID the culprit.

 

[Noor]

Yeah, it kinda did. Plenty more happened that I did not list publicly here. This is just a warning to the women he may come across.

I was not expecting too much. I did not want or ask him to do any of this. I would like to think basic respect is understood, but that is not the case.

That’s very good OTHER people have had good interactions on this site; I’m warning some women of the one I’ve had.

I get it, someone pretty much killed my interest last summer and so far it’s not back.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

As far as I can see, you don’t ID the culprit.

Did you not read the opening post?

 

[Noor]

Did you not read the opening post

The problem is these guys keep changing their names

 

[B_mossy24]

Thank you for sharing. You have to be discerning of people here, I agree with what someone said above- that a lot of the time people have high expectations and then take it out on the person they've played with. Anyone who's pushy or cold-messages me without any prior interactions on a thread I will most likely not respond back to. And if they're pushy and it's all about their pleasure - byeeeee. There are plenty of great folks on here, though... But definitely be weary!! I've been on the forum only a couple months but there are people I've chatted with almost daily since then who I've slowly gotten to know and so appreciate. And the women on here - while much less numerous than the men - tend to be so supportive and great. Hope you find good folks, too, if you're not feeling completely disheartened.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

@Noor, is that second quote actually your reply? I don’t recall saying that.

An issue with this guy is that he has no posts. He doesn’t appear in any searches because he has no public activity. I think folks should be very cautious of interacting with someone with no posts.

 

[Noor]

@Noor, is that second quote actually your reply? I don’t recall saying that.

An issue with this guy is that he has no posts. He doesn’t appear in any searches because he has no public activity. I think folks should be very cautious of interacting with someone with no posts.

Yes, I messed it up and couldn’t get it right.
Guys should have friends, family, hobbies, locations, linked in, basically be real people. References would be nice too.

 

[Lnds]

should have friends, family, hobbies, locations, linked in, basically be real people. References would be nice too.

Don’t need all of that, just asking to not doxx someone. This is real life. He doesn’t have any consequences to deal with, but I sure do.

It’s gross to me that some people think this is funny that it went viral. Some people don’t understand the difference between fantasy and reality.

 

[Noor]

Don’t need all of that, just asking to not doxx someone. This is real life. He doesn’t have any consequences to deal with, but I sure do.

It’s gross to me that some people think this is funny that it went viral. Some people don’t understand the difference between fantasy and reality.

People without strong societal connections have less incentives not to doxx people and don’t have others to call them on antisocial behavior.
Asking people not to doxx is unlikely to work, people who doxx others don’t care.
No, It’s not funny.

 

[Lnds]

People without strong societal connections have less incentives not to doxx people and don’t have others to call them on antisocial behavior.
Asking people not to doxx is unlikely to work, people who doxx others don’t care.
No, It’s not funny.

Oh I’m aware it’s unlikely to work. Obviously he did not care as this was his plan all along.
While I thought I was just having some fun.

But I can try to warn other women…before he moves on to another username, if he hasn’t already.