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eversobeautiful

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Here is a question for all you out there..

Men: Do you think its a good thing for a female to be a virgin? or is it a hassle?

Women: Do you find it erotic and stimulating if a guy has NEVER done it or is it akward and horrible?

Jess
 
As long as she rocks my world, I don't care. Although virgins arent as good.
 
eversobeautiful said:
Here is a question for all you out there..

Men: Do you think its a good thing for a female to be a virgin? or is it a hassle?

Women: Do you find it erotic and stimulating if a guy has NEVER done it or is it akward and horrible?

Jess
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Well, the only sexual experience I've ever had *I* was the virgin and she the experienced one... However.. I don't think it would be a problem for me. I'm very gentle anyways (Unless I'm in an aggressive mood, or if she doesn't Want me to be gentle)
 
Everyone has to learn somewhere...frankly the idea of being the 'teacher' is not an unpleasant thought to me :devil:
 
nasty said:
As long as she rocks my world, I don't care. Although virgins arent as good.
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HOW can you say this, if you CLAIM to be a virgin Nasty?

WTF? :confused:
 
Hummm

I think it is Fine if the lady is a virgin - sex is totally up to her and that way if I am lucky enough to deserve that one time only sacrifice then I would be honoured!
 
eversobeautiful said:
Here is a question for all you out there..

Men: Do you think its a good thing for a female to be a virgin? or is it a hassle?

Women: Do you find it erotic and stimulating if a guy has NEVER done it or is it akward and horrible?

Jess
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I have no problem with female virgins at all.

:D

As for male virgins, I think because I'm still a virgin I would prefer to be with a guy who wasn't one but of course I'd never be like: Oh, you're a virgin? We can't have sex now, sorry.


And is it just me or is Moridin absolutely the most adorable thing ever?
 
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A hassle?

If I knew that she was a virgin, and she was asking me to be "the One," the last thing I'd think was "hassle." I would do everything possible to make it the event of a lifetime. My first time was with another virgin, it was great, but I like to think I've learned a thing or two over the years, and would be thrilled to play Pygmalion.
 
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Scabbers said:
would be thrilled to play Pygmalion.
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I think that's every man's dream... lol


Seriously, I had to 'teach' a couple of boyfriends that were virgins. The only thing I found annoying was that they were too proud to be 'taught'. :rolleyes: Big shock that the sex didn't turn out so well ... you always have to be able to learn from your partners ... virgins or not. Everyone knows what feels good to them, and you have to tune into that. Otherwise, you're going to end up with a stale sex life.

And who the hell wants that??????????:confused:
 
I say who cares if she is a virgin or not. that fact that she wants sex with me is more than enough for me.
 
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Mellon Collie said:
And is it just me or is Moridin absolutely the most adorable thing ever?
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Warning Mellon, He's even cuter in real time, and that is three fold in Person. The nickname for him is TeddyBear, and he earns it on a regular basis.

As for Virgins, if you are with a virgin, I feel that it is only more of an insentive to make it a special and caring time, since it is sort of a memorable moment.
 
eversobeautiful said:
Here is a question for all you out there..


Women: Do you find it erotic and stimulating if a guy has NEVER done it or is it akward and horrible?

Jess
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I would LOVE that!! First time and all, something he would always remember. Of course, you would have to be prepared for a fast first time, I am sure. So I would hope for more than just one time;) There is LOTS I would like to teach him..hehehe

Cassidy
 
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Mellon Collie said:

And is it just me or is Moridin absolutely the most adorable thing ever?
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Originally posted by LadyDarkFlame

Warning Mellon, He's even cuter in real time, and that is three fold in Person. The nickname for him is TeddyBear, and he earns it on a regular basis.

As for Virgins, if you are with a virgin, I feel that it is only more of an insentive to make it a special and caring time, since it is sort of a memorable moment.
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:eek: Ach, sis! You KNOW I hate that sorta stuff...
 
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I was with a virgin once... and I was her first... It was a long process... taking over 18 months before she felt ready. We took it slow. There were times we were close to being together when her nerves would get the best of her. But I respected her and knew she was worth waitng for.

When we finally did it, I was more nervous than she was, becuase it was her first time. And while the sex was not the greatest it is something I will always remember and cherish.
And she got better as time went on. :)
 
Women: Do you find it erotic and stimulating if a guy has NEVER done it or is it akward and horrible?


I have a male friend who is a virgin & he is 27 yrs old. When he first told me I thought he was joking with me & so forth. But then I got to really know him & he just wants to wait for that woman who he truly loves -- I find that sweet & noble of him.

Tho' when he first told me the idea peaked my curiosity, a part of me found it sensual to say the least -- he is very handsome & eludes this sexiness I don't think he is aware of ... :)

I would not see it as a hassle or anything , instead I see it as sensual & fun ... nothing wrong with men who are virgins !:kiss:
 
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Virgins

I was never a virgin until after I lost my virginity.

It was definitely NOT acceptable to be a virgin in high school. But I was not ready, so I listened to the "studs" and simply acted and spoke like them whenever the subject came up. In no time, I was a "stud" too. lol

So when I told my first that she had just taken my virginity, she accused me of being a liar. lmao

My first time wasn't very good for me, though.

I have always wanted to deflower a woman, but never got the chance. I would think it was a great honor to be a woman's first. :)
 
I much prefer a sexually experienced man.

Being the teacher, or taking a man's virginity, has no real appeal to me.

I am drawn to the natural dominance of masculinity. With that, his experience and knowledge of all things sexual is key to my sexuality. I don't believe I could respond the same with an inexperienced lover ... the switch would be too confusing.
 
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Mellon Collie said:


I believe I have previously declared that as cute thank you very much.

:D
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Arrrrggg!!! :mad: I am NOT CUTE dammit!!!
 
Virgin Schmirgin

How good someone is sexually depends on two factors:

1) Willingness to learn, try new things and be comfortable with their sexuality.

2) Their experience.

People who don't have #1 are not going to be very good despite #2, and people who have #1 can get #2.

I personally would rather be with someone with a moderate amount of #1 than a lot of #2 and little or no #1.

Waiter?

Yes, we'll have two of the #1 dinners please - make them extra spicey. ;)
 
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