I attempted to put this in the (Loving Wives) category, but as I suspected, it was rejected. The admin suggested posting in the forum. I have never been to the forum, so here we go!
I am posting it as written.
First; there is no such thing, as a typical cuckold!
“Shhh… Can you hear it”? All the mouse’s of the cuckold haters, racing to make their ignorant rants in the comment box. And; yes I will have the comment box open, I am a firm believer that everyone has the right to their opinion. I live in a country where free speech is still tolerated, sort of!
I am by no means an authority on the subject. In fact; if you had asked me, about eight years ago, what the word “cuckold” meant, you would have gotten a blank stare. I had not yet come out of the “stone age” and accepted my subservient role to the machine.
But I have been around for more than fifty years and consider myself a student of the human condition, in all its glorious, messy, realities. That's why I stick by my statement, there is no such thing as, “a typical cuckold”.
Why am I writing this, you ask? Well, I’m glad you asked. I have been reading stories from the Literotica site for about two years and a member since March of 2017. At first, I didn’t really think about the star rating system or the comment box. But, if I liked a story, I would read the comments. Most were complimentary or constructive criticism. But some, I could only surmise, were from bible thumping do-gooders who somehow stumbled on the story, and had no idea they were reading erotica! I just couldn't wrap my head around people reading stories on Literotica and bitching because it was pornographic, or didn’t meet some arbitrary moral standard. However, it took on a whole new dimension for me, when I decided; I could do that and tried my hand at writing.
I quickly learned, that I didn’t have clue what I was doing, and was really regretting all the formative years of grade school English I spent telling myself, “I’m never going to need any of this shit when I grow up”!
Well, anyone who read some of the first attempts, at my (Loving wives) story, will agree it was horrible. I left the comment box open, hoping I would get some feedback to improve my writing.
I am very appreciative to (Laptopwriter), who actually saw some glimmer of hope in my substance, and gave me some truly constructive help. I just wish he had been a little more specific about the websites that would help me. I tried a few, but none of them were good at catching correctly spelled, wrong words, “context”. And punctuation is so subjective, that three different sites would yield three different opinions. But, I’m a stubborn “Taurus” with “OCD” and was determined to learn all the things I blew-off in school. I read many of the Literotica, (Writer’s resources) assays. I used many online guides to help with sentence structure and punctuation. Lord knows I’m not perfect, but I feel I have made real improvement.
I gave up writing after that story because it was taking to much of a toll on my “loving wife”. I know; “so why are you writing this,” you ask. I still like to read stories from Literotica, and I read many of them aloud to my wife. I guess that’s why I’m writing this, “shhh, I’m doing this on the QT.” I now vote on the stories that we find enjoyable, and even leave comments. But, I am still irked by the “cuckold nazis”. Like I said before, everyone is entitled to their opinion. It’s just baffling to me because there are so many stories in the loving wives category, that don't deal with cuckolding. So, why not just move on, if you realize a story contains a subject you are uncomfortable with?
My opinion is, most people don’t get many of the nuances involved, or have had a bad personal experience. Cuckold, covers a very broad spectrum of scenarios, with an infinite variety of reasons or things that trip someones trigger, so to speak. Within the erotic story genre, I see “cuckolding” on a spectrum. The threshold being, stories were a man accepts that his “loving vibrant” wife is a very sexual person, and for whatever reason cannot fulfill her carnal needs. He accepts that she will need fulfillment, but also expects her to be discreet. He may not even want to know, and his wife certainly would not flaunt her affairs or do anything to emotionally damage her husband.
On the other end of that spectrum, would be a borderline nymphomaniac woman with dominating sadistic tendencies. She would not have any problem tying her husband to the foot of the bed. Then ganbang 6 or 8 studs while taking great pleasure in “literally” rubbing it in his face.
Again, in my opinion. I think the vast majority of “cuckold” erotica enthusiast, fall into the fantasy fulfillment category. They don't actually indulge in genuine cuckolding activities. But, for whatever reason have found something within the genre that triggers strong emotions, and not always sexual or erotic. I fall into this category and enjoy a wide range of (Loving wives) stories.
I am also very lucky, my wife has always been very open-minded about role play, and we have had a lot of fun in all kinds of role play. All though, she does like to tease me, saying that if I had these notions 20 or 25 years ago when she still was a truly hot milf, things might have been different. But, then she shatters my little mind trip, with the statement, “and we would certainly not be married today!”
I know there are people who actually indulge in cuckolding. I’m sure that some of them have the right personality and compatibility, with their significant other, to derive a truly loving happy relationship. But, I also think the “reality” is, many cannot hold together a successful long-term relationship.
One last point; I read all the comments on my work, regardless of the content, negative or positive. But, one comment that I received at the end of my “twist of the knife” loving wives story, really struck me. It was complementary and well thought out, but one sentence really set me back in my chair.
It read, “Sorry, I just can’t handle the queer aspects.” I had made some obvious references to the fact that “Clint” was not into men. I felt I had portrayed his wanting to eat creampie, as a direct result of the visual excitement he experienced seeing well-fucked hots cunts dripping with cum during his “car part searches”. And the notion, that the women were extremely turned on by having there “dirty cunt’s” licked clean and brought to mind-blowing orgasms! I also portrayed “Lori or Sandra” as being turned on by the act, in that same way.
Again my opinion, I believe the majority of men who get turned on by whatever aspect of cuckolding trips thair trigger, are straight. I’m sure that being a BI man, is more compatible to actually living the lifestyle. I think the majority of men who have an open and honest relationship, derive great pleasure from pleasing their woman and don’t get hung up stereotypes, during “play time” fulfillment of each other's fantasies.
The comment box is open!
I am posting it as written.
First; there is no such thing, as a typical cuckold!
“Shhh… Can you hear it”? All the mouse’s of the cuckold haters, racing to make their ignorant rants in the comment box. And; yes I will have the comment box open, I am a firm believer that everyone has the right to their opinion. I live in a country where free speech is still tolerated, sort of!
I am by no means an authority on the subject. In fact; if you had asked me, about eight years ago, what the word “cuckold” meant, you would have gotten a blank stare. I had not yet come out of the “stone age” and accepted my subservient role to the machine.
But I have been around for more than fifty years and consider myself a student of the human condition, in all its glorious, messy, realities. That's why I stick by my statement, there is no such thing as, “a typical cuckold”.
Why am I writing this, you ask? Well, I’m glad you asked. I have been reading stories from the Literotica site for about two years and a member since March of 2017. At first, I didn’t really think about the star rating system or the comment box. But, if I liked a story, I would read the comments. Most were complimentary or constructive criticism. But some, I could only surmise, were from bible thumping do-gooders who somehow stumbled on the story, and had no idea they were reading erotica! I just couldn't wrap my head around people reading stories on Literotica and bitching because it was pornographic, or didn’t meet some arbitrary moral standard. However, it took on a whole new dimension for me, when I decided; I could do that and tried my hand at writing.
I quickly learned, that I didn’t have clue what I was doing, and was really regretting all the formative years of grade school English I spent telling myself, “I’m never going to need any of this shit when I grow up”!
Well, anyone who read some of the first attempts, at my (Loving wives) story, will agree it was horrible. I left the comment box open, hoping I would get some feedback to improve my writing.
I am very appreciative to (Laptopwriter), who actually saw some glimmer of hope in my substance, and gave me some truly constructive help. I just wish he had been a little more specific about the websites that would help me. I tried a few, but none of them were good at catching correctly spelled, wrong words, “context”. And punctuation is so subjective, that three different sites would yield three different opinions. But, I’m a stubborn “Taurus” with “OCD” and was determined to learn all the things I blew-off in school. I read many of the Literotica, (Writer’s resources) assays. I used many online guides to help with sentence structure and punctuation. Lord knows I’m not perfect, but I feel I have made real improvement.
I gave up writing after that story because it was taking to much of a toll on my “loving wife”. I know; “so why are you writing this,” you ask. I still like to read stories from Literotica, and I read many of them aloud to my wife. I guess that’s why I’m writing this, “shhh, I’m doing this on the QT.” I now vote on the stories that we find enjoyable, and even leave comments. But, I am still irked by the “cuckold nazis”. Like I said before, everyone is entitled to their opinion. It’s just baffling to me because there are so many stories in the loving wives category, that don't deal with cuckolding. So, why not just move on, if you realize a story contains a subject you are uncomfortable with?
My opinion is, most people don’t get many of the nuances involved, or have had a bad personal experience. Cuckold, covers a very broad spectrum of scenarios, with an infinite variety of reasons or things that trip someones trigger, so to speak. Within the erotic story genre, I see “cuckolding” on a spectrum. The threshold being, stories were a man accepts that his “loving vibrant” wife is a very sexual person, and for whatever reason cannot fulfill her carnal needs. He accepts that she will need fulfillment, but also expects her to be discreet. He may not even want to know, and his wife certainly would not flaunt her affairs or do anything to emotionally damage her husband.
On the other end of that spectrum, would be a borderline nymphomaniac woman with dominating sadistic tendencies. She would not have any problem tying her husband to the foot of the bed. Then ganbang 6 or 8 studs while taking great pleasure in “literally” rubbing it in his face.
Again, in my opinion. I think the vast majority of “cuckold” erotica enthusiast, fall into the fantasy fulfillment category. They don't actually indulge in genuine cuckolding activities. But, for whatever reason have found something within the genre that triggers strong emotions, and not always sexual or erotic. I fall into this category and enjoy a wide range of (Loving wives) stories.
I am also very lucky, my wife has always been very open-minded about role play, and we have had a lot of fun in all kinds of role play. All though, she does like to tease me, saying that if I had these notions 20 or 25 years ago when she still was a truly hot milf, things might have been different. But, then she shatters my little mind trip, with the statement, “and we would certainly not be married today!”
I know there are people who actually indulge in cuckolding. I’m sure that some of them have the right personality and compatibility, with their significant other, to derive a truly loving happy relationship. But, I also think the “reality” is, many cannot hold together a successful long-term relationship.
One last point; I read all the comments on my work, regardless of the content, negative or positive. But, one comment that I received at the end of my “twist of the knife” loving wives story, really struck me. It was complementary and well thought out, but one sentence really set me back in my chair.
It read, “Sorry, I just can’t handle the queer aspects.” I had made some obvious references to the fact that “Clint” was not into men. I felt I had portrayed his wanting to eat creampie, as a direct result of the visual excitement he experienced seeing well-fucked hots cunts dripping with cum during his “car part searches”. And the notion, that the women were extremely turned on by having there “dirty cunt’s” licked clean and brought to mind-blowing orgasms! I also portrayed “Lori or Sandra” as being turned on by the act, in that same way.
Again my opinion, I believe the majority of men who get turned on by whatever aspect of cuckolding trips thair trigger, are straight. I’m sure that being a BI man, is more compatible to actually living the lifestyle. I think the majority of men who have an open and honest relationship, derive great pleasure from pleasing their woman and don’t get hung up stereotypes, during “play time” fulfillment of each other's fantasies.
The comment box is open!
