I've always resisted writing the kind of personals ad that starts with a long list of narrowly defined criteria. My assumption was that such a person simply didn't exist, and it would be a depressing and fruitless exercise.
Then again, as they say...nothing ventured, nothing gained. So here's a little bit about who I am, a little bit about who I hope you might be, and if the sketch is close enough, how about sending a friendly hello to see if there's that elusive chemistry?
Ok, so here's a bit about who I hope you might be. You're a little intellectual. Not in a pretentious sort of way, but you're curious about the world around you, are good with words, value communicating o complete sentences, etc.
You're open minded, willing to travel down a few psychological rabbit holes others would steer clear of, sexually and otherwise (see below).
You're active. You needn't be an Olympic athlete, but you like to get outside and exert yourself a little bit, at least sometimes.
You're old enough to have a bit of life experience, and the accompanying humility that comes with knowing enough to know you don't know everything.
You've got a kind heart and an affectionate streak.
And now a bit about me...
Late 30s, and first and foremost I just try to pride myself on being a kind, soft hearted guy. Professional but intellectually unsatisfied by my career. Educated, miss the college days when I was surrounded by other curious people and life was full of unbounded options. Thin, clean cut, masculine but not macho, and somewhat athletic. I log about 30 miles per week running, enjoy hiking, biking, and exploring the great outdoors. Contemplating doing my first triathlon. Strongly prefer women (and only interested in connecting with women) but slightly bi-cur, and you hopefully appreciate guys with that aspect to them or at least are agnostic about it. Book lover, movie nut, history buff...I could ramble on, but hopefully that paints a decent picture.
So with all that said, does this resonate with you at all? If so, drop me a line.
Have a great night everyone.
Then again, as they say...nothing ventured, nothing gained. So here's a little bit about who I am, a little bit about who I hope you might be, and if the sketch is close enough, how about sending a friendly hello to see if there's that elusive chemistry?
Ok, so here's a bit about who I hope you might be. You're a little intellectual. Not in a pretentious sort of way, but you're curious about the world around you, are good with words, value communicating o complete sentences, etc.
You're open minded, willing to travel down a few psychological rabbit holes others would steer clear of, sexually and otherwise (see below).
You're active. You needn't be an Olympic athlete, but you like to get outside and exert yourself a little bit, at least sometimes.
You're old enough to have a bit of life experience, and the accompanying humility that comes with knowing enough to know you don't know everything.
You've got a kind heart and an affectionate streak.
And now a bit about me...
Late 30s, and first and foremost I just try to pride myself on being a kind, soft hearted guy. Professional but intellectually unsatisfied by my career. Educated, miss the college days when I was surrounded by other curious people and life was full of unbounded options. Thin, clean cut, masculine but not macho, and somewhat athletic. I log about 30 miles per week running, enjoy hiking, biking, and exploring the great outdoors. Contemplating doing my first triathlon. Strongly prefer women (and only interested in connecting with women) but slightly bi-cur, and you hopefully appreciate guys with that aspect to them or at least are agnostic about it. Book lover, movie nut, history buff...I could ramble on, but hopefully that paints a decent picture.
So with all that said, does this resonate with you at all? If so, drop me a line.
Have a great night everyone.
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