a threesome

[ladyadonia30]

My husband and I are tinkering with the idea of a threesome. I don't know if I am quite ready now...I have some fears. Fears of perhaps crossing that line and knowing there is no return. Fears of feelings of resentment being harbored by either myself or my husband.

Who on here, has had a threesome and how has it effected your relationship that you are in?

I have issues with security. I fear the husband would prefer the other woman over me. Watching him fuck someone else is erotic to think of, but that's my husband..haha...of course I have no problem with me being fucked. I guess I am looking for couples who have gone through with this...could use some ideas or hear the good, the bad, and the ugly in this.

 

[charman]

My husband and I are tinkering with the idea of a threesome. I don't know if I am quite ready now...I have some fears. Fears of perhaps crossing that line and knowing there is no return. Fears of feelings of resentment being harbored by either myself or my husband.

Who on here, has had a threesome and how has it effected your relationship that you are in?

I have issues with security. I fear the husband would prefer the other woman over me. Watching him fuck someone else is erotic to think of, but that's my husband..haha...of course I have no problem with me being fucked. I guess I am looking for couples who have gone through with this...could use some ideas or hear the good, the bad, and the ugly in this.

Sent you a message

 

[ladyadonia30]

ty

got it! responded

 

[Lucky13muse]

Hey

Have you talked about maybe swinging, that way there is equality on both ends, he gets something and you get something?

 

[Dr_Lit]

My husband and I are tinkering with the idea of a threesome. I don't know if I am quite ready now...I have some fears. Fears of perhaps crossing that line and knowing there is no return. Fears of feelings of resentment being harbored by either myself or my husband.

Who on here, has had a threesome and how has it effected your relationship that you are in?

I have issues with security. I fear the husband would prefer the other woman over me. Watching him fuck someone else is erotic to think of, but that's my husband..haha...of course I have no problem with me being fucked. I guess I am looking for couples who have gone through with this...could use some ideas or hear the good, the bad, and the ugly in this.

Maybe you should try finding a "party" where you can go with no obligations, watch, see what happens and let your body tell you what you want to do

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Wow... Excellent. You should go ahead and do it. Tell your hubby to find another guy and you can have two cocks. It works. Puts all the stress on him and he can watch you fuck another guy.

 

[Jailhouse]

Forget what the wild and crazy swinger crowd says: Threesomes and other sorts of group activity are dangerous when you love someone (and they're dangerous for other reasons as well). I'm not saying it can't work out, but treat it like a nuclear warhead; be aware how a lapse in clarity will create problems that you can't just fix with an apology and a kiss on the forehead.

Again, I'm not saying you shouldn't do it... but the ratio of threesome experiences I've seen that have caused serious problems compared to those which didn't are 10:1. I believe this is because the proper open and honest communication didn't happen beforehand and because people give in way, way too easily to their wants.

Hope this helps. Good luck. Post full motion video.

 

[ladyadonia30]

TY jailhouse

Thanks for the sound advice. I have to agree. I have seen couples go into the 3 some and leave with heads hung low...changed...and once you cross those lines...there's no turning back.

My theory is this, it is fantasy. It is nice to have a fantasy or two. When you make that fantasy a reality, what's left to fantasize about?


By the way....
nice pics!!!

 

[Jailhouse]

Thanks for the sound advice. I have to agree. I have seen couples go into the 3 some and leave with heads hung low...changed...and once you cross those lines...there's no turning back.

My theory is this, it is fantasy. It is nice to have a fantasy or two. When you make that fantasy a reality, what's left to fantasize about?


By the way....
nice pics!!!

It sounds like you don't wanna do this thing yet, but you don't want to let your husband down. Maybe it's not a bad idea to discuss that with him. Sex is valuable and passion is valuable and I'd even say that kink is valuable. Love, trust, and marriage are *more* valuable.

So sometimes we give up sometimes valuable for something that's more valuable.

If, however, you can get it to work... rock out with your cock out, baby.

 

[ladyadonia30]

hahha

rock out with your cock out baby....cute!
*looking for the strap on*

I like to toy with ideas. That's just how I am. I am a jealous jealous woman. Sharing my man...hmmmmmmmm.....well..there are consequences and for me..it would be my own insecurities.

WE are discussing things openly..we always do. Yeah I'd love two men at once or...perhaps experiment with a woman fully...but again....it is sometimes more fun just getting your feet wet rather than diving in.

 

[charman]

rock out with your cock out baby....cute!
*looking for the strap on*

I like to toy with ideas. That's just how I am. I am a jealous jealous woman. Sharing my man...hmmmmmmmm.....well..there are consequences and for me..it would be my own insecurities.

WE are discussing things openly..we always do. Yeah I'd love two men at once or...perhaps experiment with a woman fully...but again....it is sometimes more fun just getting your feet wet rather than diving in.

<<<<------sits on the sideline and pays attention

 

[Jailhouse]

I am a jealous jealous woman. Sharing my man...hmmmmmmmm.....well..there are consequences and for me..it would be my own insecurities.

Then I doubt it's a good idea for you. That feeling has to be mastered and put to rest before you should even think about a threesome. Believe me, it's not like swimming; you don't get used to the cold water by just jumping in.

 

[Jailhouse]

By the way....
nice pics!!!

Oh. Hey.. thank you

I'm thinking of making a calendar...

 

[ladyadonia30]

fragile

I may not look it, but I am fragile!!!

jumping into cold water would kill me


well...I think you should start your calender here!!!

 

[Jailhouse]

I may not look it, but I am fragile!!!

jumping into cold water would kill me

well...I think you should start your calender here!!!

Didn't I already?

 

[ladyadonia30]

more

More...bring more...lemme see!

 

[DirtyKitten]

Well since I'm already in line for a spanking from Lady A, for relentless highjacking, I will just throw this in....


Jailhouse, you are a delicious looking man.

 

[ladyadonia30]

i will share

hehehe...with you kitty..I'd share this jail meat!

doesn't he look just so yummy and juicy????


*licking lips and feeling all sorts of things down below*

 

[DirtyKitten]

hehehe...with you kitty..I'd share this jail meat!

doesn't he look just so yummy and juicy????


*licking lips and feeling all sorts of things down below*

Ahhh, the things that could be done with all that.


Jailhouse, how do you feel about a long extended stay in our closet??

 

[ladyadonia30]

slavery is a must do

we could put this collar on him
*hands a spike goth collar to her*

and pet him on occasion

we need to invite our friends

 

[Jailhouse]

More...bring more...lemme see!

Jailhouse, you are a delicious looking man.

You know, if you wanna take this to the thread where the pictures actually are I would feel less guilty for taking THIS thread off topic.

we could put this collar on him
*hands a spike goth collar to her*

and pet him on occasion

we need to invite our friends

I don't collar well. I have one, and a leash... but they're not for me to use on myself.

 

[DirtyKitten]

He could walk around shirtless in those jeans and serve us cold beverages.


Jailhouse, a couple more questions...

1. How do you feel about on the job sexual harassment? *giggles*

2. Will you share your "LitWife"??

3. Can we keep any photos we take of you??

 

[ladyadonia30]

oooooooooooooh

well then....here

*putting my neck on the line*


take me ..take me

woof woof

wag wag

 

[ladyadonia30]

lmao

haha oh u are such a funny girl



luvit

 

[DirtyKitten]

You know, if you wanna take this to the thread where the pictures actually are I would feel less guilty for taking THIS thread off topic.

You don't have to feel guilty baby, its Lady A's thread and she has a list of punishments for all highjackers.