I look for a woman who is right for me, as a virtual lover. Main reasons for this restriction: I live on the other side of the Atlantic Ocean, i.e. far away from many Lit readers, and I feel loyal to my wife, so RL cheating is out of the question.
But I like to resonate with my virtual lover nevertheless, in more than only the sexual realm. And more important than WHO I look for, is WHAT I look for will happen, when we begin to connect with one another.
I sense several important voids in my life, because my marriage has been "running on just half the number of available cylinders" now. I mean erotic intimacy has been missing for a while, and with that many other aspects have gone out the window as well. The worst of which: I can no longer give my wife what a loving husband wants to give her.
And to compensate for these voids, I search for a woman in a similar situation. For establishing a virtual relationship, in which all ALL essential components exist for happiness. I would find it ideal, if you searched for void compensation also. Because that would give both me AND you the same motive for writing each other. And a chance for really strong bonds forming, when the void compensation we undertake begins to work.
OK, love-making between us can happen only virtually, meaning some handiwork will have to come into play. Not that you and I have not become used already to handiwork as a substitute for RL sex, but such a substitute is not great. But handiwork together, in one form or another, is far better than handiwork alone; that's the way I feel at least.
On the other hand, the other aspects that I hope will lead to us liking one another, fondling each other's souls, and tickling each other's minds, have a potential of working out better than in real life. Because RL partners very rarely carry on deep conversations often with one another, which lead to exercising their minds, and to enticing their souls. And maybe the anonymity of the internet helps as well, for open-mindedness. Perhaps also the physical distance between ourselves.
So I am looking for us writing each other lots of mails, which touch our hearts. Text that you really enjoy reading, and I deeply enjoy writing, and vice versa. And text for sharing a good part of our lives with. By having to do all this in writing, it may well become far more intensive than in real life.
And us talking with each other by mail, intensively as I visualize it, allows us to get to know one another fairly well. Even if I cannot smell your pussy, as my tongue searches for your clit, or you cannot feel my cock in your hand or in your pussy, I count on our fantasies keeping each other well-aroused.
But my deep-down desires extend beyond us fantasizing one another to orgasms. I like us to share more than only our sexuality. Because you, and also I, are made up of more than only our common horniness. I look for a comprehensive kind of sharing thoughts and feelings, which move us both. For growing with and thru one another. Enhancing each other's lives, is another way to describe my yearning.
Mutual ego boosting is one outcome that will happen this way, as well as a simple lifting of each other's spirits. And I ask you: who does NOT love living a happier life?
In a nutshell, this is what I aim for: us dreaming about something together, which we no longer have in our marriages, and establishing this dream in a (virtual) reality. Via lots of mutual giving, via void compensation, via sharing in a multitude of dimensions. Achieving happiness and enjoyment and enticement for our minds, our souls, and our libidos.
If you like to find out, how I tick and how I would love for you to tick also, so we will encounter as little friction as possible, and enjoy each other more than by corresponding with just anybody, I suggest you read a post I have written on that subject: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1478425
But I like to resonate with my virtual lover nevertheless, in more than only the sexual realm. And more important than WHO I look for, is WHAT I look for will happen, when we begin to connect with one another.
I sense several important voids in my life, because my marriage has been "running on just half the number of available cylinders" now. I mean erotic intimacy has been missing for a while, and with that many other aspects have gone out the window as well. The worst of which: I can no longer give my wife what a loving husband wants to give her.
And to compensate for these voids, I search for a woman in a similar situation. For establishing a virtual relationship, in which all ALL essential components exist for happiness. I would find it ideal, if you searched for void compensation also. Because that would give both me AND you the same motive for writing each other. And a chance for really strong bonds forming, when the void compensation we undertake begins to work.
OK, love-making between us can happen only virtually, meaning some handiwork will have to come into play. Not that you and I have not become used already to handiwork as a substitute for RL sex, but such a substitute is not great. But handiwork together, in one form or another, is far better than handiwork alone; that's the way I feel at least.
On the other hand, the other aspects that I hope will lead to us liking one another, fondling each other's souls, and tickling each other's minds, have a potential of working out better than in real life. Because RL partners very rarely carry on deep conversations often with one another, which lead to exercising their minds, and to enticing their souls. And maybe the anonymity of the internet helps as well, for open-mindedness. Perhaps also the physical distance between ourselves.
So I am looking for us writing each other lots of mails, which touch our hearts. Text that you really enjoy reading, and I deeply enjoy writing, and vice versa. And text for sharing a good part of our lives with. By having to do all this in writing, it may well become far more intensive than in real life.
And us talking with each other by mail, intensively as I visualize it, allows us to get to know one another fairly well. Even if I cannot smell your pussy, as my tongue searches for your clit, or you cannot feel my cock in your hand or in your pussy, I count on our fantasies keeping each other well-aroused.
But my deep-down desires extend beyond us fantasizing one another to orgasms. I like us to share more than only our sexuality. Because you, and also I, are made up of more than only our common horniness. I look for a comprehensive kind of sharing thoughts and feelings, which move us both. For growing with and thru one another. Enhancing each other's lives, is another way to describe my yearning.
Mutual ego boosting is one outcome that will happen this way, as well as a simple lifting of each other's spirits. And I ask you: who does NOT love living a happier life?
In a nutshell, this is what I aim for: us dreaming about something together, which we no longer have in our marriages, and establishing this dream in a (virtual) reality. Via lots of mutual giving, via void compensation, via sharing in a multitude of dimensions. Achieving happiness and enjoyment and enticement for our minds, our souls, and our libidos.
If you like to find out, how I tick and how I would love for you to tick also, so we will encounter as little friction as possible, and enjoy each other more than by corresponding with just anybody, I suggest you read a post I have written on that subject: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1478425
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