a strange fantasy?

[TaidSaid]

A friend told me about this site and its even more interesting than I thought! I’ve been browsing for the last couple of weeks and this is my first post. It involves a long-time fantasy of mine that I have wondered if any other (straight) guys have had. If this is not the right area to post about such a fantasy, please let me know.

As one who very much enjoys a good blowjob from sweet ladies I date now and then, I still have often wondered what it might be like on the ladies part. I’ve fantasized about doing a guy to find out. I know that seems weird, but it excites me to think about it. I’m curious to know if any other straight guys have had that particular fantasy?

 

[Wyatt]

No...no....and let me think about it...ummmm....NO!

 

[sheath]

I've been with several men who considered themselves 'straight', but were interested in what it might be like to give a blowjob. I think it's probably the same thing as a woman thinking about going down on another woman, or using a strapon. I know I'm not the only woman who has wondered what it would feel like to 'be' a man in bed. So I'm sure many men think that same way? It only makes sense.

So, in short answer: I think it's a normal fantasy.

S.

 

[TaidSaid]

No...no....and let me think about it...ummmm....NO!

LOL thanks for your response, even if you had to think about it!

 

[TaidSaid]

I've been with several men who considered themselves 'straight'...
So, in short answer: I think it's a normal fantasy.
S.

Thanks for responding. Did these guys who expressed that fantasy ever say how they went about satisfying it. There are, I think, some obvious pitfalls.

I could say I was just interested in research, but I reallly would like the selfish pleasure of finding out.

 

[sheath]

Thanks for responding. Did these guys who expressed that fantasy ever say how they went about satisfying it. There are, I think, some obvious pitfalls.

I could say I was just interested in research, but I reallly would like the selfish pleasure of finding out.

Welcome to lit.

Well, I have been with men who wanted to satisfy that curiosity, but never did. I'm not sure if they went on to do it after our relationship was over or not.

I have had the pleasure of watching a man play with a dildo as if it were a cock, which only whetted his appetite for the real thing. He did go farther and try the real thing, with me right there in the room as a "security net", in his words. He was very nervous, and having me there made him feel more comfortable. He enjoyed it immensely, and I know that after our relationship ended, he went on to more wonderful experimentation.

Another man played with a dildo in the same way, but decided that he simply did not like it. He rarely brought the fantasy up again.

If you are really interested in trying it, I would recommend playing with toys first, just to get the idea. If it really, really turns you on, then pursuing something further might be an option?

Whatever you choose, enjoy yourself!

S.

 

[Layne]

Fantasy

Hey,

You are not alone.

Look on this board, "How to", for the thread "Str8 males and bi sex", I think it is up to 48 or 49 pages.

Layne

 

[Morcheeba]

A friend told me about this site and its even more interesting than I thought! I’ve been browsing for the last couple of weeks and this is my first post. It involves a long-time fantasy of mine that I have wondered if any other (straight) guys have had. If this is not the right area to post about such a fantasy, please let me know.

As one who very much enjoys a good blowjob from sweet ladies I date now and then, I still have often wondered what it might be like on the ladies part. I’ve fantasized about doing a guy to find out. I know that seems weird, but it excites me to think about it. I’m curious to know if any other straight guys have had that particular fantasy?

If this has been a long-time fantasy of yours then are you sure you aren't bisexual?

Dunno sugar, why not make your fantasy a reality..... and btw, welcome to Lit.

 

[Wyatt]

LOL thanks for your response, even if you had to think about it!

i'm glad you took it the right way.

 

[TaidSaid]

Re: Re: a strange fantasy?

If this has been a long-time fantasy of yours then are you sure you aren't bisexual?

Dunno sugar, why not make your fantasy a reality..... and btw, welcome to Lit.

don't think so...even if a rose by any other name still smells as sweet!

but actually, men don't turn me on--I luvvvvv plump breasts and sweet pussy!

 

[TaidSaid]

Re: Fantasy

Hey,

You are not alone.

Look on this board, "How to", for the thread "Str8 males and bi sex", I think it is up to 48 or 49 pages.

Layne

Thanks for the tip--I'll look into it when I get some more time.

 

[TaidSaid]

Welcome to lit.

...If you are really interested in trying it, I would recommend playing with toys first, just to get the idea. If it really, really turns you on, then pursuing something further might be an option?

Whatever you choose, enjoy yourself!

S.

hmmm interesting suggestion...thanks

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I know a lot of straight guys who wonder what it's like to give head. Probably because they enjoy it so much, and probably because the women they've been with have had different reactions to giving it... some women love to do it, others hate it.

I think it's perfectly normal, and it gives no reason for you to question your sexuality.

 

[Morcheeba]

 

[naughtyeddie]

try it

try it

clearly you wont get it out of your head any other way.

option 1

get your girlfriend a soft strap on and try it on her, see how you like it or if it is a turn off.

option 2

try it with your girlfriend there as a safty blanket, try a 3 some mfm

option 3

hook up with some one on line and do it discretely




if you are noty bisexual you should be able to get it out of your systm and move to hetro fantasies. just get it out of your system.

 

[lovechild27]

I think its pretty normal to wonder what things are like on the other end! And not gay...we all are a little curious. Some go through with it and some supress it and deny and then end up wishing they had gone with it....

 

[Wizard]

No...no....and let me think about it...ummmm....NO!

Yep same reaction............Ummm NOPE!!!

 

[DuckLover]

I think it's a fairly normal, if not common, fantasy. Because the stigma associated with same-sex behavior is less for women, they tend to be more open about their interest, but I believe men are just as curious, even if they won't admit it.

Personally, I have thought about it, but never done anything about it. If I am ever in a MFM or MFMF situation with the right guy, MAYBE I'd try it. Then again, maybe not. <shrug> I got very curious about having my ass penetrated after my first time of anal sex. I started exploring myself in the shower, then having my gf use a finger on me. We've now moved on to her using a strap-on on me. It's only happened once so far, but we both enjoyed it and plan to try again. That said, I have no interest in having anal sex with a guy.

Bottom line: Your fantasy is normal and does not inherently mean anything about your sexuality.

 

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[sheath]

Once you drift over and act out that fantasy, I can't really say you are straight.

I think if you do it, and enjoy it, that would make you Bi now wouldnt it?

I'm curious as to why labels are necessary, regardless. It's just a fantasy. He's not questioning his sexuality, so why should anyone else????

S.

 

[Morcheeba]

I'm curious as to why labels are necessary, regardless. It's just a fantasy. He's not questioning his sexuality, so why should anyone else????

S.

Sheath is absolutely right. I'm actually kinda sorry for buggering into this man's thread when his question was specifically targeted to other straight men. Not being a man, I guess I was just being too inquisitive the other night. My bad. But I still think he should make his fantasy a reality and go cheerfully from there. Peace out.

 

[lovechild27]

Hmmmm...I made out with a girl when i was 18.


Never tried to again, but it squelched my curiosity.

am I bi now?

 

[Wulf7]

I'm in bascially the same situation as DuckLover. I've thought/fantasized about it (and having a girlfriend use a strap- on) and given the right circumstances I'd probably try it but I don't ever see me dating another guy or questioning whether or not I prefer guys over gals. Of course because of the stigma if it ever got out..makes me somewhat less inclined to try it.

Maybe its the whole stigma of it that makes it such a strong fantasy?

 

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