A request for opinions from the ladies

[Igorovich]

Ladies:

I have a request for your opinion regarding a very intimate problem which I have. First let me explain that I have a lady friend who is very understanding and willing to accept alternative methods of pleasure. Additionally we have joined together as a swinging couple, very selective but very interested in each other's satisfaction.

I am a diabetic, 58 years old and suffer from one of the almost automatic side effects: impotence. I am also one of the 30% of men for whom Viagra does not work. I have even doubled the maximum dosage to try and see what happens. Nothing. At first, I was prescribed an injection called Caverject. provided an instant erection, almost, that lasted for some time. Problem: the needle provided with it was not designed by anyone who ever had the injection himself. Where is the injection? Directly into the barrel of the penis. With a large gauge needle, this becomes very uncomfortable, almost painless. My ex-wife complained that I did not use it often enough.

I have since changed urologists and have been prescribed an injection that is much stronger and uses a smaller gauge needle, about the same as my insulin needle. No problem here, but I am still reluctant to "shoot up" very often. I guess I am subconsciously afraid to insert the needle because of past pain with Caverject.

My lady is very understanding and is very satisfied with my hands and mouth and never complains.

My question is this: what would be your reaction to meeting a ,man who made it clear up front that he had this problem and is very understanding of someone who does not want a relationship because of the lack of "fulfillment" physically?

I jsut feel that my lady is missing out a lot of pleasure frequently. I know that I am. I used ot wake up in the middle of the night for a quickie, then go back to sleep. I would also enjoy a morning fuck and the afterglow. Now, I have to prepare and I miss the spontaneity of those pleasures. Should I go ahead and inject myself when I get up in the middle of the night and the mnorning?

Please give me your opinions. This inquiring mind wants to know.
Thanks

Igor

 

[Suzi]

Hmmmmmmmmm...

Igor I think you will have to decide if the pain is worth the pleasure in the long run....If you decide it is, what about using mental images of your lady as you inject?....y'know, something to deaden pain?

In a way, your dilemma is not unlike the decision some women face in having children. You laugh, but think about it! Sure the sex part is enjoyable, and we can eat what we want and feel the baby kick, sleep more...but after it all...we gotta go through alot of pain to have that baby! Why do we do it? After the baby is born, many women have that contentment, holding their newborn, touching, counting toes, getting acquainted... most are tired, but that emotional high that comes after giving birth...there is really nothing like it---except for orgasm!

I guess I did little to help, but I hope I gave you a different perspective...?

 

[CatEyes]

I wouldn't use the injection everyday or anything like that. I would think as with any drug your body could become immune to it and it could stop working and then where would you be. Use it selectively. Maybe once a week or once every other week.

If you want to make things more spontanious for her maybe do it while she's in the shower or sleeping or before she gets home and surprise her.

Ever thought of maybe using a strap on? Might be something to try if she wants the penetration. And never underestimate the hands and mouth, they can do wonders. Just think she never has to complain that she doesn't get enough foreplay.

Hope some of this helped and good luck to you.

CatEyes

 

[Princess Amber]

Ladies:

I have a request for your opinion regarding a very intimate problem which I have. First let me explain that I have a lady friend who is very understanding and willing to accept alternative methods of pleasure. Additionally we have joined together as a swinging couple, very selective but very interested in each other's satisfaction.

I am a diabetic, 58 years old and suffer from one of the almost automatic side effects: impotence. I am also one of the 30% of men for whom Viagra does not work. I have even doubled the maximum dosage to try and see what happens. Nothing. At first, I was prescribed an injection called Caverject. provided an instant erection, almost, that lasted for some time. Problem: the needle provided with it was not designed by anyone who ever had the injection himself. Where is the injection? Directly into the barrel of the penis. With a large gauge needle, this becomes very uncomfortable, almost painless. My ex-wife complained that I did not use it often enough.

I have since changed urologists and have been prescribed an injection that is much stronger and uses a smaller gauge needle, about the same as my insulin needle. No problem here, but I am still reluctant to "shoot up" very often. I guess I am subconsciously afraid to insert the needle because of past pain with Caverject.

My lady is very understanding and is very satisfied with my hands and mouth and never complains.

My question is this: what would be your reaction to meeting a ,man who made it clear up front that he had this problem and is very understanding of someone who does not want a relationship because of the lack of "fulfillment" physically?

I jsut feel that my lady is missing out a lot of pleasure frequently. I know that I am. I used ot wake up in the middle of the night for a quickie, then go back to sleep. I would also enjoy a morning fuck and the afterglow. Now, I have to prepare and I miss the spontaneity of those pleasures. Should I go ahead and inject myself when I get up in the middle of the night and the mnorning?

Please give me your opinions. This inquiring mind wants to know.
Thanks

Igor

It is all up to you if you want to feel then cock in the pussy then do it but if you are fine with alternatives then thats ok to i have had this problem with a guy before i did not say no and once he got it up he took my virginty its all on what makes you happy and it is good that your lady friend understand to bad your ex could not seems a bit selfish to me Princess Amber

 

[Igorovich]

Thanks for your comments

Ladies:

I want to thank you for your input into this problem. My lady and I discussed it and we decided that the spontaneity that I enjoy is what she enjoys also.

For the record we had decided that last night we would take some photos and have them developed for posting on the web, maybe even on Lit? For them I had to take an injection. The results lasted far longer than ever before. Why? I don't know but I hope to recreate the situation again in the near future. Oh, and she loved being fucked for atleast 30 minutes, then being able to suck on a hard cock again about 30-45 minutes later.

Thanks again. I, and my lady, do appreciate your input.

Igor