A rant.

[kiwiwolf]

Okay as you can probably tell this is a rant. If you don’t like it leave now.

I’m living in a pretty weird situation here. I live in the same house as my ex and four kids, only one of which is mine by virtue of biology. Recently the ex added her new man to the mix, which is actually a financial godsend. I don’t have any problem with her having him in the house and there are no jealousy issues involved here. I’m actually better off without her. The only reason I stay here is because of the kids. Anyone here who knows me also knows that I live for my kids. Without them I am nothing.

Things were ticking along quite nicely for the first few weeks of co-habiting with the new man until this week. He discovered that I actually write on my computer and he has started to go digging. I usually go to bed at about 1-2 am. He goes to bed around 7-8 am. In the intervening time he cruises through my puter and today I found one of my erotic stories had been edited by him. Not only that but he left it up on my puter screen so that my 7 year old could read it. I am damned careful about what my kids get access to and was super fucked off to have to explain to Ashley that words like Fuck and cunt are not good words, and that adults use them sometimes even though they shouldn’t. I wanted to rip the mother fuckers lungs out, but I think that the last thing my kids need is an image of me pounding his face to spaghetti sauce.

I bailed him up about it and his answer was that I should change my fucking password. This little son of a bitch is a PhD student studying Philosophy. I think he should read The Art of war by Tsun Szu before he tries to interact with me any more. I make a nasty enemy but I think this guy is relying on my good will and the fact that he pays rent to safe guard his ass. I desperately want to fuck him up.

I know most of this means nothing to any of you. I’m not looking for sympathy or pity. I needed a place I could vent and here it is.

Rant over.

 

[Azwed]

Ranting/Rambling is good it releases negative energy. Go ahead and rant away.

 

[Siren]

 

[kiwiwolf]

He has no respect for what is yours.......

it might not work out as a living situation for you.

Stick around Siren... I might need a good lawyer.

 

[Raina]

Rant away Kiwi. I'd be pissed too. And I wouldn't let him use my computer anymore either.

Grrr....I am so glad I don't have roommates anymore!

 

[lilminx]

That's really fucked up, Wolfie. You have every right to be pissed off. Tell him to get his own damn computer, and you shouldn't have to safeguard your password against him. He shouldn't have been looking through your shit to begin with.

 

[Guest]

Ugh. First of all, you have some kind of strength to even attempt this living situation. I don't blame you one bit for being upset with him.
Rant away, dear!

 

[kiwiwolf]

Ranting/Rambling is good it releases negative energy. Go ahead and rant away.

Thanks Az. I just needed some place that I could spew. I can't do it here cos it would upset the kids, so unfortunately Lit gets to wear it.

 

[freakygirl]

*hugs*

 

[Calamity Jane]

You're a better man than me darlin. (Ok, so I'm not a man at all, but I would have maimed the fucker)

Rant away if it keeps you out of jail. And change your passwords. All my writings are passworded in locked folders so no one goes snooping. Yes, it sucks ass that we have to protect what is ours from those we live with, but that's reality.

*hug* my friend.

 

[VeryBadGirl]

That was an interesting rant KW - and that guy sounds like a first class jerk. If he actually thinks that things not vigorously protected are fair game, maybe you should take a cruise through his closet - "you should put a lock on your closet door!" could be your defense.

I have a rant too - having something to do with the fact that I'm here instead of in bed. Unfortunately, it's not interesting enough to write.

 

[kiwiwolf]

That's really fucked up, Wolfie. You have every right to be pissed off. Tell him to get his own damn computer, and you shouldn't have to safeguard your password against him. He shouldn't have been looking through your shit to begin with.

Between him and my ex they have three computers. She has the Sony Vaio I gave her, and he has a laptop and a monster desk top.


Oh and it just gets better. Just got a phone call from a lady I have been seeing in R/L. She doesn't want to carry on the relationship because the situation is too fucked up. Also she says that the ex's boyfriend gives her the shits. He keeps on undresssing her with his eyes and making comments when I'm out of the room.

 

[Raina]

This guy is either really brave or really stupid. I wouldn't be trying to piss you off. No way!

 

[La Principessa]

That was an interesting rant KW - and that guy sounds like a first class jerk. If he actually thinks that things not vigorously protected are fair game, maybe you should take a cruise through his closet - "you should put a lock on your closet door!" could be your defense.

I kind of like this idea, Love. Ever think of maybe say, ....."marking your territory" in his closet????

miss you

 

[kiwiwolf]

I've sent the kids to a friends place. when he gets home we are going to discuss things.

 

[Siren]

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Sending major hugs right now buddy, you know where I am if you ever need me. Something has to give....

*where's Jake*

 

[Calamity Jane]

I've sent the kids to a friends place. when he gets home we are going to discuss things.

By discuss things, do you mean inflict bodily harm? Cuz that's what I'd be thinkin.

Really, I'm not a violent person, but in this case I'd be very tempted to make some major exceptions.

 

[La Principessa]

I've sent the kids to a friends place. when he gets home we are going to discuss things.

ooh...better yet then!! Piss on his shoes!!

 

[teddybear4play]

What a dick.

I could almost buy the "You should change your password" pile of bullshit, if I was really drunk and stuff. But what's his bullshit excuse for leaving it on the computer so your kid could read it?

I'd talk to your ex about this. If you're amicable enough that you can stay in the same house, you ought to be able to talk reasonably about this. Another option may be to move out, say to the house next door if you live in a sub/urban area.

Or just tell him, firmly but not angrily, that the next time he fucks with your stuff you'll have him arrested. There's a limit to "Make yourself at home."

TB4p

 

[kiwiwolf]

It's my birthday tomorrow. My lady and I were going to go out for dinner tonight and then come back here. She was going to stay the night. It was going to be our first time together.

There is no way on gods green earth that I'm not going to snot the little fucker. Thanks for the support folks... have a great day.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Ok, speaking as a mom. If I had a person living with me who was disrespectful and irresponsible enough to leave shit like that open, no matter who's computer it was on... his ass would be out of my house permanent like.

 

[Nora]

By discuss things, do you mean inflict bodily harm? Cuz that's what I'd be thinkin.

What she said goes for me, too. Sure, you can't do it...you have the kids to worry about. That's why you have your friends do it for you. *smiles*

 

[kiwiwolf]

What she said goes for me, too. Sure, you can't do it...you have the kids to worry about. That's why you have your friends do it for you. *smiles*

I've never been one to subcontract. I prefer taking care of my own back yard. Thanks anyway Nora.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

That's why you have your friends do it for you. *smiles*

That's a point KW send him to my place and I'll beat the shit out of him.

Though seriously you can't going damaging the guy too much or you will end up in jail and when getting custody/access of kids an arrest for violance will not look good.

I ment what I said on the phone a few minutes ago buddy, show up at my door any time day or night when you want out. I'll pay the taxi.