a Qustion for older ladies?

[hrdnthick4u]

Im a man of 35. I really appreciate older ladies. I'm a s/w/m in Reno nevad. Do ladies In there 30's-50's like younger men my age?I'm really interested in this because i really love older women and know i can satisfy an older lady the way she would like,as long as she is open and totally honest of what she likes and needs..I hope to hear from all ladies on this...Im very single and ready...

 

[suthernhunny]

i am 45 and prefer to consider myself "more experienced" instead of older!!

That experience has shown me that, generally, the older or more experienced gentleman can do the most pleasing. However, it is not fair to put everyone in the same category.

Basically, if a man understands a woman - how her body responds - and has desire to please - makes for some great sex. But when a man KNOWS a woman/women - responds to her responses..... MAKES FOR FANTASTIC SEX!!!

 

[Spurious Scribe]

i am 45 and prefer to consider myself "more experienced" instead of older!!


Basically, if a man understands a woman - how her body responds - and has desire to please - makes for some great sex. But when a man KNOWS a woman/women - responds to her responses..... MAKES FOR FANTASTIC SEX!!!

Suthernhunny makes a valid point, I think. I'm in this same age range and both maturity and experience rank pretty high in my book. Men your age can definitely have the maturity level, but I think many don't. Sounds sort of like you do though.

As for experience, it just comes from... experience! Sorry. I know that sounds "flip", but it isn't intended to. The point is, at my age, I'm not interested in playing "Mrs. Robinson" to a younger man. Let him get that experience somewhere else first.

Now here is the strange part... I have fantasizied more than once about being a sort of sexual mentor to a much younger man and providing him with many of his sexual "firsts". But this really only interests me in my fantasy life - not IRL.

In any event, I'll bet the person you are looking for is out there. I truly hope you find her.

 

[RomanHans]

I'm interested also (maybe this belongs in The Playground)...I'm 33, and it seems that most 'May-December' relationships involving a younger guy and a 'mature' woman are assumed to have a man who is 'barely legal' or close, and a woman who is conservatively 2+ times older. I'm interested in meeting a 'more mature' woman in her 40s--but is an age difference of 10 years really that much?

I agree that it's experience, not chronological age, that is key in defining 'maturity'--and also will concede that the difference in maturity and experience between a 20-year-old persona and 40-year-old partner is generally more substantial than the difference between a 35-year-old and a 55-year-old.

Roman