A quick question....or three

[SethRD]

A little worried/scared.....

First off, hello everyone! This is my second post on here. I've been reading Lit for a while now, and decided to check out the forums.

Ok, let's get to business!

I'm 19, and within the last three years began masturbating. I tend to get off about twice a day, sometimes more. Now, here in lies my problem. I've noticed that my penis has began to curve to the left. I jack with my right hand. I don't think this is normal, so I'm asking you all for help.

Also, for a long time I've been lieing to myself, saying I want to stay a virgin till marriage, and when people ask, I say so I don't knock a girl up. That isn't the truth though. The truth is that I don't know what to do, and I'm a little self conscience about the above. I've never got a hand job from anyone other then myself, never got head. I guess you could call me a prude.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Astro]

Must guys have a bend in the penis shaft, its nothign to worry about. Dont compare yourslef to porn stars who have been surgicaly altered (ouch).

As for having sex before marriage, get used to putting a condom on yourself when there is no pressure from a waiting lass. Then go out and have fun, sex can be great.

Hope you enjoy yourself.

 

[BirdsWife]

Re: A little worried/scared.....

Also, for a long time I've been lieing to myself, saying I want to stay a virgin till marriage, and when people ask, I say so I don't knock a girl up. That isn't the truth though. The truth is that I don't know what to do, and I'm a little self conscience about the above.

Any good sexual relationship is dependent on open, honest communication, and if you can't even be honest with yourself, I don't think you are really ready for one. The technical aspects of sex are easy to learn, and there are a hundred different books you can read on the subject. The emotional side of sex isn't so easy.

Don't make the mistake of having sex for the first time simply because you are sick of being a virgin. If you are with the right person, your inexperience shouldn't matter to her. If she is a virgin herself, then the two of you can have plenty of fun experimenting to find out what feels good for both of you. If she herself has experience, then if she cares about you at all she should be willing to be patient with you while you learn. If not, then you should ask yourself whether you really want to be with someone who would disregard your feelings so easily.

One last thing. The excuse you have been using about knocking up a girl should be a very legitimate concern to you. Condom, the pill, the Depo shot.....no form of birth control outside of abstinence is 100% effective, so any time you are considering having a sexual relationship with a woman, you should be asking yourself whether this is someone you want to possibly be tied to for at least the next 18 years, if not the rest of your life.

 

[N8Dreams]

a slight deviation is quite normal, dont worry

 

[SethRD]

Thanks for the replies guys/gals.

BirdsWife, you are totally right. Thank you for making me realize those points.