A Question...

[WanderingWiccan]

A few of you here know who I am and for those that don't, I'm a 19 year-old, bisexual male. I had a question that I was hoping maybe older and wiser minds might be able to answer for me. I've never had sex, period. However, I've had several tiny relationships and two serious ones (still with the second one) and all have been with females. I don't think, right now anyway, that I could ever have a real relationship with another male but the idea of having sex with another man, especially if my sweetie is involved (she doesn't mind the idea), is one of my greatest fantasies that I would like to make happen one day... again and again and... well you get the point. Am I truly bisexual or am I just a straight male with dillusions of bisexuality?

 

[PoliteSuccubus]

My daughter's boyfriend is bi and since they have been together for 16 months he's questioning his sexuality, wondering if maybe he isn't really bi.

She told him that if he'd been with a guy for 16 months he'd prob be asking the same question.

This may not help you answer your question, but it might comfort you to know others ask it.

 

[WanderingWiccan]

Thank you, but, you're right it doesn't help. lol In fact, I feel a bit like I'm being lectured by Yoda. lol Um... again, thanks though... anyone else have any thoughts?

 

[Pookie]

I wouldn't dare try to guess whether you're bisexual or not. I suspect your attraction to guys is very real though. You may not ever have a real chance to explore a relationship with a guy. Then again, you could find yourself in one next week. I guess it comes down to opportunity more than anything.

You could be bisexual, but not biamorous as well. As with everything in life, time will tell. Don't fret over it though.

 

[WanderingWiccan]

Thanks for adding another viewpoint to my question. Muchly appreciated. Yes, Prrrrrrrrrrecious. *gollum gollum* Um... *ahems* anywho... lol Just excited about LotR:Two Towers on DVD tuesday.. yes, I have the attention span of a goldfish. :-D

 

[Queersetti]

A few of you here know who I am and for those that don't, I'm a 19 year-old, bisexual male. I had a question that I was hoping maybe older and wiser minds might be able to answer for me. I've never had sex, period. However, I've had several tiny relationships and two serious ones (still with the second one) and all have been with females. I don't think, right now anyway, that I could ever have a real relationship with another male but the idea of having sex with another man, especially if my sweetie is involved (she doesn't mind the idea), is one of my greatest fantasies that I would like to make happen one day... again and again and... well you get the point. Am I truly bisexual or am I just a straight male with dillusions of bisexuality?

In my opinion, whether or not you are bisexual is a matter of what you feel, not what you do. You could be bisexual your whole life and never act on it, just as you could be heterosexual or homosexual and remain celibate all your life.

If you feel strongly that you desire to have sex with a man, and have felt that way for some time, you are probably truly bisexual.

 

[WanderingWiccan]

Something else that might shed some light on my curiosity... I've never had sexual contact with anyone... period. I've been kissed all of twice.