WriterDom
Good to the last drop
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- Jun 25, 2000
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From someone I wont name: Hey, I have submissive fantasies, how do you teach someone to dominate you?
Or , to turn it around, if you have Dominate fantasies can teach someone to be submissive?
Maybe someone can share their insight. From my perspective with dealing with (and here comes that ugly word again) vanillas, that, no, you can't transform someone into a Dom or sub. And I think I answered her by saying that it's sometimes easier to get a man to go along with ANYTHING, as long as there is sex involved, but I don't know if that is a healthy thing for the couple if it only intensifies her desire to be submissive.
Or , to turn it around, if you have Dominate fantasies can teach someone to be submissive?
Maybe someone can share their insight. From my perspective with dealing with (and here comes that ugly word again) vanillas, that, no, you can't transform someone into a Dom or sub. And I think I answered her by saying that it's sometimes easier to get a man to go along with ANYTHING, as long as there is sex involved, but I don't know if that is a healthy thing for the couple if it only intensifies her desire to be submissive.
