A question for the non-BDSMer ladies

[WriterDom]

Is getting your hair pulled erotic? I know that sounds like a crazy question, but I've been reading checklists in the personals at another site where you rate activities from 1 to 5, with 1 being you'd only do it to please your partner, and 5 being insanely erotic. Seems the most popular response is 5 followed by 4.

You'd expect higher scores at a bdsm site, but I just wondered if anyone here would be turned on by a lover grabbing a hand full of hair and pulling you to his cock. From my vanilla time memories, that was always a big no no.

 

[april-wine]

hmmm fingers tangled in my hair pulling me close, or keeping me close.........i love it, not a sharp pull, more of constant pressure...

 

[Nicole]

I know I shouldn't answer this being someone that likes the BDSM "lifestyle" but having my hair pulled was the first thing about me that I noticed I liked.

My best friend is certainly NOT into the BDSM "lifestyle" and I know she loves it.

 

[LRC]

hmmm fingers tangled in my hair pulling me close, or keeping me close.........i love it, not a sharp pull, more of constant pressure...

Yep ...... I agree!

 

[sexy-girl]

yes i like that ... apart from the man part

 

[morninggirl5]

yes i like that ... apart from the man part

LOL is that the man part or the man part?

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

That Struck Me So Funny

LOL is that the man part or the man part?

 

[MissTaken]

Tug my hair and pull it a bit.....

then hear me moan!

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

WriterDom!

I Jumped Right Outta The Thread And Realized That I Did Not Even Respond To Your Question

YES!
I So Totally Love Ta Get My Hair Pulled. Quite The Erotic Thing.

 

[Simply Me]

hmmm fingers tangled in my hair pulling me close, or keeping me close.........i love it, not a sharp pull, more of constant pressure...

What she said.

 

[Mischka]

I just wondered if anyone here would be turned on by a lover grabbing a hand full of hair and pulling you to his cock.

Nothing would ruin my mood and piss me off faster than a guy forcing me down on him like that. I enjoy my head being cradled, and my hair kept out of my face, but I absolutely do not enjoy that kind of dominance. Of course, I'm more of a dominating type myself. In the vanilla sense of the word.

 

[sexy-girl]

LOL is that the man part or the man part?

LOL both

 

[Ice Princess]

To me it matters a lot when the guy starts pulling my hair. It's like kissing harder, talking dirty, etc. -- if it happens once things have gotten very passionate and intense, then it's a sexy part of all that. If it happens too soon, it's disturbing and I'm out of there.

 

[BlondeBeauty]

Pull my hair and I'll pull yours.

Fair warning. LOL

 

[WriterDom]

thanks for the input

 

[bluntforcemama]

It really depends on the guy. I know that Juspar would never hurt me, so I would let him, and it would be a turn-on for me. Anyone else would have a bloody cock.

 

[Laurel]

No.

I like having my hair brushed, though.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

No.

I like having my hair brushed, though.

I'll brush... and then you brush mine tweet

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Re: Re: A question for the non-BDSMer ladies

Nothing would ruin my mood and piss me off faster than a guy forcing me down on him like that. I enjoy my head being cradled, and my hair kept out of my face, but I absolutely do not enjoy that kind of dominance. Of course, I'm more of a dominating type myself. In the vanilla sense of the word.

Mischka, I think the reference (though I could be wrong) is in regards to doggy style. He kneels behind you rabid with lust for you, tangles his hand in your hair and pulls you back onto his cock from the tip of your head to the lips of your pussy.

*moan*

God, where's Myst when I need (OK, want) her.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Re: Re: Re: A question for the non-BDSMer ladies

Mischka, I think the reference (though I could be wrong) is in regards to doggy style. He kneels behind you rabid with lust for you, tangles his hand in your hair and pulls you back onto his cock from the tip of your head to the lips of your pussy.

I was thinking doggie style too... If a guy grabbed my hair and forced my mouth onto his cock, I'd probably hurt him. I KNOW how to give a freakin blow job, so just sit back and enjoy it, ok?

But doggie style... I love to have my head pulled back while he's fucking me. Not ripping my hair out, but definitely a pull i can feel.

 

[KillerMuffin]

I'm a control freak. The answer is a horridly violent no.

 

[lilminx]

Re: Re: Re: A question for the non-BDSMer ladies

I think the reference (though I could be wrong) is in regards to doggy style. He kneels behind you rabid with lust for you, tangles his hand in your hair and pulls you back onto his cock from the tip of your head to the lips of your pussy.

Mmmm.... I love that But then again, since I'm starting to get into BDSM, I don't know if I count in this census.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

My lover seems to intertwine his fingers in my hair and pull me into a kiss or when he runs his hands thru my hair as I am going down on him ... I don't mind one bit ... plus he is gentle ... nothing rough.

 

[Laurel]

I'll brush... and then you brush mine tweet

It's a deal.

Us girls used to sit in circles and play "beauty parlor" when we were little. We'd braid/play with the girl's hair in front of us, while the girl in back of his "did" our hair. It kicked ass over throwing dirt clods or eating worms or whatever you dudes were doing at that age.

 

[Guest]

Re: Hair Pulling

Actually my feelings on this subject has changed over the years.

I used to spend big bucks in the salon "Back in the Day" and as any Black Woman can tell you, anyone with the gall to F*** Up a new 'do is very likely to catch some tragedy.

at least during the first couple of days.

Now that I wear my hair natural, it's JUNGLE TIME!!!!!!!!!!

My favorite is when my husband thrusts his hands deep into my hair as he's cumming and just grabs a handfull and hangs on for dear life.