A Question for the Men

lady_jennaxx

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For those men who consider themselves submissive, or even feel they might have those leanings even if they have yet to acknowledge them...

When was the last time you were properly used, if ever? And by 'used' I mean tormented and cock teased until you had to beg for more? Tortured and torn between wanting release, yet not wanting the sublime agony to end? To demonstrate that you can be useful, obedient and good? Regardless of how much you accept it (or don't) I know those thoughts are never far away.

If you've read any of my threads, you know my preferences (unattached only, 30-45), so reach out via PM.

Let's hear it :rose:
 
I am outside your preferences, but to answer your question, I don't think I've been 'properly used' to date.. though a couple times, things have been close. The reason being that I never had a partner that leaned towards being more dominant. I think that is likely true for many men who may lean submissive.

For those men who consider themselves submissive, or even feel they might have those leanings even if they have yet to acknowledge them...

When was the last time you were properly used, if ever? And by 'used' I mean tormented and cock teased until you had to beg for more? Tortured and torn between wanting release, yet not wanting the sublime agony to end? To demonstrate that you can be useful, obedient and good? Regardless of how much you accept it (or don't) I know those thoughts are never far away.

If you've read any of my threads, you know my preferences (unattached only, 30-45), so reach out via PM.

Let's hear it :rose:
 
I am outside your preferences, but to answer your question, I don't think I've been 'properly used' to date.. though a couple times, things have been close. The reason being that I never had a partner that leaned towards being more dominant. I think that is likely true for many men who may lean submissive.

Thank you for your input surferjake :rose:
 
Just this passed week! It was amazing she is the best and we both really enjoy it her more than me though I would assume!
 
Had my first session with a dome on cam a couple of weeks ago. It was fantastic and looking to try it again.
 
I am not in your age range (missed by two years) but I will reply and help you get some more visibility on your thread.

I have never been used. properly, improperly and any where in between. It is something that I would love to experience and be a part of. An absolute fantasy of mine for sure. Alas, it will probably never be fulfilled.
 
I am not in your age range (missed by two years) but I will reply and help you get some more visibility on your thread.

I have never been used. properly, improperly and any where in between. It is something that I would love to experience and be a part of. An absolute fantasy of mine for sure. Alas, it will probably never be fulfilled.

Well, you should share more of those thoughts, I'd be interested in hearing them. My PMs are always open, 2 years notwithstanding :rose:
 
Another one outside of your requirements (attached and 60), but what the heck... Last time I have been really used in real life was about 30 years ago - she was 18 and I was her teacher... Since then nothing and I need it so much... But place where I live is too small to look for someone without my wife finding out and on-line does not really work for me... Tried few times, one time it looked promising but ended when it was turning towards findom which is something I am not interested at all...
 
Last night hehe :D Even though lack of orgasms or punishment can be difficult, it always makes me much lighter on my feet the next day. I really crave the feeling of being utterly owned and used. I can't describe it any other way.
 
it has been a couple of years since i was with a Mistress. I do miss it a lot.
she tied me down to a table and tied my cock and balls pulled them and teased them to make me beg for more. used a tens unit too. after that she said I would be a service slave. Got on her knees on the table above my head and lowered her pussy for me to lick and make her cum. she slowly stroked me and said I would not cum till I made her first.
I do miss her since she moved away and wish to serve again like that
 
Purely from a marketing aspect m'Lady... to be honest? Your requirements suck.

Look at the responses you are getting. Guys a bit - okay. Maybe more than a bit. Older than your upper range.

And likely still attached to a partner.

A squeamish and I'll agree situation fraught with drama - but consider! Your - god I really do need to wash myself with vodka after this - internally as well as externally - marketing funnel? It's too narrow and you're bypassing good prospects.
 
Purely from a marketing aspect m'Lady... to be honest? Your requirements suck.

Look at the responses you are getting. Guys a bit - okay. Maybe more than a bit. Older than your upper range.

And likely still attached to a partner.

A squeamish and I'll agree situation fraught with drama - but consider! Your - god I really do need to wash myself with vodka after this - internally as well as externally - marketing funnel? It's too narrow and you're bypassing good prospects.

Thanks for the opinion but I'm quite comfortable with my likes, no matter how narrow others might feel the parameters might be :rose:
 
Purely from a marketing aspect m'Lady... to be honest? Your requirements suck.

Look at the responses you are getting. Guys a bit - okay. Maybe more than a bit. Older than your upper range.

And likely still attached to a partner.

A squeamish and I'll agree situation fraught with drama - but consider! Your - god I really do need to wash myself with vodka after this - internally as well as externally - marketing funnel? It's too narrow and you're bypassing good prospects.

Are you suggesting it is somehow wrong to seek partners who are unattached?
 
I’ve never been properly used. I don’t think my public persona gives that part of me away, do I don’t think I attract that type of woman. I desperately look to find a woman that would use me in every way she desires. Completely serve her and submit.
 
I’ve never been properly used. I don’t think my public persona gives that part of me away, do I don’t think I attract that type of woman. I desperately look to find a woman that would use me in every way she desires. Completely serve her and submit.

Here's hoping your wish gets fulfilled :rose:
 
Definitely after I felt cared for with a previous woman. After the increased emotional intimacy, it made submitting so more pleasureable. Being able to trust her with my uncomfortable sexual desires and have her not only be willing to try, but also be into it and willing to go further made it all the better.
 
Definitely after I felt cared for with a previous woman. After the increased emotional intimacy, it made submitting so more pleasureable. Being able to trust her with my uncomfortable sexual desires and have her not only be willing to try, but also be into it and willing to go further made it all the better.

I'm glad the memories are pleasant ones YoungToy :rose:
 
I have never expirienced this for real, even though I crave it immensely. Tease and denial is my ultimate fantasy, but aside from a few online connections, I never got to play it out...

Love,

Thom
 
Bump for an oldie but a goodie :rose:

I'll admit I do like teasing texts and pics and getting turned on at times when I shouldn't but there does come a time when you get so damn horny that all you can think about is that sweet release
 
I'll admit I do like teasing texts and pics and getting turned on at times when I shouldn't but there does come a time when you get so damn horny that all you can think about is that sweet release

And that, ShaneoD, is the sweet spot 👌
 
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