What do you women want? I used to be a bad boy that did the usual. Women hated it cause I never understood them and never thought about what they thought and cared about. Now I am the sweet guy that wants to understand but has a fun, sexual, "bad" boy side to me and women don't want to talk to me. Well if you could help, tell me what I am doing wrong.
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I guess once you gain a certain reputation it is hard for women to accept otherwise. We always say we judge for ourselves but well....we listen to other women a bit too much at times. Women really, REALLY need to trust someone before that "bad boy" sexual side is exposed. You need to ask every step of the way if women are comfortable with what you are doing. Very nice equipment by the way (as posted on how big is it thread).
goddess_euphoria
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I agree with CRaZy & have to add that no one women (or even a poll of women) can tell you what women want, because that ultimately depends on the woman you're with.
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Thank you ladies for the advice. You know women ar confussing but then I guess from where you stand so are guys. But most guys have one level of thinking and that is sex. But life isn't all about sex. I just want my woman to be happy no matter what it takes. Thanks again.
Thank you ladies for the advice. You know women ar confussing but then I guess from where you stand so are guys. But most guys have one level of thinking and that is sex. But life isn't all about sex. I just want my woman to be happy no matter what it takes. Thanks again.
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Now that I think about it, there are some general guidelines... bring her flowers, listens when she talks, never pressure her about sex, and offer to paint her toenails & brush her hair. (ok, so I'm not positive on the last two, just talking for myself a little there 
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)The goddess is right - what women want and what men think they want are two different things. Communication is so important. You have to ask her what she wants and really LISTEN. "I would like to go out for dinner" does not mean a trip to the drive-thru at McDonalds
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quit trying to figure out what we want and just be yourself. It always shows through when you are trying to be something your not, or doing what you think we want.
we are a very perceptive bunch us women.
we are a very perceptive bunch us women.
