A question for the D's...

[SirTrucker]

Has anyone felt at some point in their life...

Their spirit as Dominant depleting due to a serious injury/illness.

I certainly did after an extended stint in the hospital. It was very humbling and for a few months there you just don't feel yourself. It comes back but there was a window of time where one's will was certainly very low. Thoughts?

 

[Licia]

Him looking down at me in the hospital bed after watching me nearly bleed to death, emergency life or death surgery, and now he's ALONE...

Tears freely spilling and him wanting to walk away because men aren't supposed to cry?

Bullshit!

Yeah, I pulled him down against me and TOLD him everything would be alright.

...

But I realized a long time ago that I am infact, vincible. You are, too. So remember that when you're feeling like a wounded animal, the folks you care about/care about you shouldn't be targets. If someone ever looks at you while you're convalescing and says, "Why do you think I can't do anything," be smart (not stubborn) and go back to bed.

 

[SirTrucker]

I love that response. Thank you.

 

[Netzach]

It's my biography!

Accept that whatever is happening now, is not going to be happening later. That's not sunshine and roses, it could be worse. You, however, do not know that, so deal with what's happening as it happens.

Your relationship to power and your relationship to the giant cosmic importance of telling-someone-what-to-do is liable to change.

You may lose relationships and gain other ones over this.

The illiusion that you are in control is basically bullshit. So I decided to have more fun with it. I didn't "get it back" - it changed. A lot. It's still there, but it's not the same animal, nor am I.