A question for the boys...
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EJFan
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the orgasms of both parties are the responsibility of all involved. it's just that men can orgasm more easily (usually).
if you're unable to orgasm with men, it could be that he's not respectful of your orgasm... or you're not helping to guide him... or both... or you're not comfortable with men and you DO, in fact, need to be in a lesbian relationship.
if you're unable to orgasm with men, it could be that he's not respectful of your orgasm... or you're not helping to guide him... or both... or you're not comfortable with men and you DO, in fact, need to be in a lesbian relationship.
Eilan
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I'm not a boy, nor do I play one on TV, but. . .
Some men out there think that women should bow down and worship the almighty penis. Just because. They're more worried about their how long/thick their cocks are or how far their erection stands out from their bodies to care about the pleasure that they can give to their partners. I've already said it once tonight, but our biggest sex organs are between our ears. Unfortunately, some men and women don't seem to realize this.
If you're not being satisfied by your partner, take charge. Tell him what you need.
If all else fails, perhaps you need to stop playing with boys and find some men? It worked for me.
Some men out there think that women should bow down and worship the almighty penis. Just because. They're more worried about their how long/thick their cocks are or how far their erection stands out from their bodies to care about the pleasure that they can give to their partners. I've already said it once tonight, but our biggest sex organs are between our ears. Unfortunately, some men and women don't seem to realize this.
If you're not being satisfied by your partner, take charge. Tell him what you need.
If all else fails, perhaps you need to stop playing with boys and find some men? It worked for me.
human_male
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Maybe it's the sort of guys you're going with.
A lot of men are worthless…
I'm a man, and believe me I know (just for the record I share this username with my Girlfriend, so sometimes this name is male, some times female).
There are a lot of guys out there who just want to cum. It's not important to them if the girl cums. These men are assholes, and do not deserve the joy that a woman has to offer. It's possible that you have just not found the man who is willing to take the time, and or the effort necessary to bring you to that mind blowing orgasm that you need. Then again, maybe you do need a woman’s touch, that’s for you to judge… all I know is that there is nothing more arousing than a woman screaming in orgasmic ecstasy, and any man who does not know this is nothing… pure and simple.
I'm a man, and believe me I know (just for the record I share this username with my Girlfriend, so sometimes this name is male, some times female).
There are a lot of guys out there who just want to cum. It's not important to them if the girl cums. These men are assholes, and do not deserve the joy that a woman has to offer. It's possible that you have just not found the man who is willing to take the time, and or the effort necessary to bring you to that mind blowing orgasm that you need. Then again, maybe you do need a woman’s touch, that’s for you to judge… all I know is that there is nothing more arousing than a woman screaming in orgasmic ecstasy, and any man who does not know this is nothing… pure and simple.
bad_angel
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my b/f is great. And I love him to bits. The thing is, well, I kinda havent told him I cant come. See I,ve been sleeping with him for 3mnths now and if I tell him now then he'll know I've been faking it all this time. I just couldnt hurt him like that.
Halo_n_horns
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bad_angel said:
A) Sorry you were passed over by the ones that knew what they were doing.
B) Whatever you do just make sure you get video that we can all watch.
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My gf is like you, she also has never had an orgasm through masturbation or with my help (oral, fingering, or intercourse). She's 21 and started masturbating around the age of 13 or 14 she says, but she still gets to a point when her clit is just too sensitive and she can't continue. I don't know, she says she's never had an orgasm because of the entire 'if you don't know then you probably haven't had one' thing, but I know at least when I finger her or give her oral then the muscles in her legs and abdomen do spasm at the point of no return, and her anus at least contracts (though I've never noticed the vagina doing that). Is it perhaps she has weak orgasms or somesuch?
Sorry, didn't mean to get off your topic, but at least you know you're not alone
Sorry, didn't mean to get off your topic, but at least you know you're not alone
bad_angel
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Halo_n_horns said:A) Sorry you were passed over by the ones that knew what they were doing.
B) Whatever you do just make sure you get video that we can all watch.
I'm sorry to. Lookes like my ship has sailed.
Will look into that vidio for you.xox
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tron said:
you fucking jackass, what does it fuckign take to get two different usernames. How fucking RETARDED ARE YOU?
Jesus christ
naughtygirl69s said:
wow... need to relax much?
a question for you... did we ever Wrong you in anyway? is there any post that we ever made that ever caused you any grief? If so I, we apologize, and hope that our sexually ambiguous point of view has not caused you to kill anyone with an axe or to have sex with your cat.
Please enjoy the rest of your weekend and try to forget about the dark place we have sent you.
naughtygirl69s
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tron said:
You're an idiot. Plain and simple.
Râleclins
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Errr... I hope I'm not getting on topic too much.
As a guy, I think that you've done a very, very bad thing by allowing him to believe you've had orgasms. Not only because lies are bad for a relationship, and because, as you said, he will probably be upset to know you've been faking. But also because, well, if he thinks you're having wild orgasms everytime he's there... Then why should he try to make you have real orgasms ? As long as he doesn't know about you not having orgasms... He can't help you.
You say you love him to bits. In my opinion, if you love him, you've got to stop lying to him. It will hurt him. It will be difficult for you. But what would be worse ? Staying in this silly situation ? Or him being hurt now, and then trying to make you have real orgasms later ? (And if it works... Well, he would certainly be very glad to have given you your first orgasm.) By the way, it would be nice to remind him that for many girls, not having an orgasm does not mean they didn't like what has happened. (after all, you're initiating sex a lot even if you don't expect an orgasm that much. Am I wrong ?)
To quote some older people on this forum : Communication, communication, communication.
(Oh, and don't forget to experiment by yourself, of course.)
As a guy, I think that you've done a very, very bad thing by allowing him to believe you've had orgasms. Not only because lies are bad for a relationship, and because, as you said, he will probably be upset to know you've been faking. But also because, well, if he thinks you're having wild orgasms everytime he's there... Then why should he try to make you have real orgasms ? As long as he doesn't know about you not having orgasms... He can't help you.
You say you love him to bits. In my opinion, if you love him, you've got to stop lying to him. It will hurt him. It will be difficult for you. But what would be worse ? Staying in this silly situation ? Or him being hurt now, and then trying to make you have real orgasms later ? (And if it works... Well, he would certainly be very glad to have given you your first orgasm.) By the way, it would be nice to remind him that for many girls, not having an orgasm does not mean they didn't like what has happened. (after all, you're initiating sex a lot even if you don't expect an orgasm that much. Am I wrong ?)
To quote some older people on this forum : Communication, communication, communication.
(Oh, and don't forget to experiment by yourself, of course.)
