a question for all the slaves on the list

[C.J'S slave TOY]

this is a question for all the slaves on the list who are living in a 24/7 relationship with there owners what were some of the things you had to get used to and how did you adjust to them and if you are peirced and marked with a tatoo did it hurt alot

 

[artful]

this is a question for all the slaves on the list who are living in a 24/7 relationship with there owners what were some of the things you had to get used to and how did you adjust to them and if you are peirced and marked with a tatoo did it hurt alot

Though I can't answer your questions directly,...I would guess you will get many answers that vary in their responses.

Most people have different levels of tolerance for pain.

Most relationships will involve varied degrees of adjustments, that would need to be undertaken, dependent on the parties involved.

Mostly,...I just wanted to give you a warm welcome to the Forum, and let you know many will be reading your thread.

We have three *sticky* threads at the top of our Forum page, and they all have some great info contained in them if you would care to read them.

Again,...welcome,...and please,...just call me Art.

 

[AnonymousSlave]

i don't exactly fit into your category, however, i am a 24/7 slave. i don't live with my Master. i am neither pierced nor tatooed.
i don't think that i would use the term 'get used to', that rings of bothersome or burden (and even a wee tad disrespectful if you think of something as having to 'get used to it'.)

Making adjustments to please a Master should never be bothersome or considered as a burden.

i once spent my evening running to 7 different stores to find one specific item for my Master. Did He ask this of me? No. Did He know of my efforts? Yes, but only because He happened to call me while i was at the cashier asking if they carried the item (and that was at store #5). Was He pleased that i found the item? Yes. Was He pleased at my efforts? Yes.
Did i consider running an errand as just something i would have to 'get used to'? No. Would i consider something as small as remembering to empty the ashtrays and keep them clean as something i would have to 'get used to'? No.

i consider such things as paying attention to detail, because the little things do matter.

He doesn't ask me to do things because they are things that He can't do for Himself. Nor do i do things for Him because i think that He can't do them for Himself, because He can. It is really quite simple, He asks me to do things simply because it pleases Him to allow me to do for Him. And i do for Him because it pleases Him.
i am not His slave because he 'needs' me. i am His slave because it pleases Him.

 

[bunny bondage]

well, i am pierced and tattooed, and it did hurt a little, but i've certianly felt worse pain in more fun situations!

the things you have to "get used to" vary greatly depending on the person, and probably are the same as those in nilla relationships (well, some of them) getting used to the way He touches me, the way His skin feels against mine, the feeling of His cock inside me, and the sting of His hand on my ass, these are all very fun things that i like getting used to! getting used to a person is really the same no matter what kind of relationship you're in. the only things that are bdsm dependant are the ways in which i'm punished and what He likes to do to me. also, putting aside my urge to say "no" to something i'm not comfortable with. i've learned to trust Him, and rely on His judgment, and know that if at any time i really do want Him to stop, he will. so just putting myself into someone else's hands did take some getting used to, but it's a very comforting feeling and is really freeing when it's in a good relationship. ^_^

 

[Sandia]

TOY, are you considering getting pierced or tattoed?
Are you looking forward to it?