A question for all the guys.

[Xtacy]

Obviously since your reading this thread, and this section of Lit then clearly you enjoy the odd penetration of your ass or two.
Now my question to you is when do you first try a bit of anal play, and probably more importantly, why did you try it? Did someone do it for you, or was it something you read about and wanted to try? Then the next ultimate question would be did you ever consider yourself gay/bi because of it?

For me personally it was a long long time ago, I wouldn't have been much older then 10 or 11. I didn't even know about gay guys or anything like that, but I did enjoy exploring my body and trying anything to see if it feels good. Only afterwards, did I find out about anal sex and prostrate glands. I personally don't consider myself gay or bi even since I can not love a man, but I do consider myself extremely open minded and horny!

I guess it's not really an important question afterall, but I am interested to know how you all got into it in the first place.

 

[Volz]

Obviously since your reading this thread, and this section of Lit then clearly you enjoy the odd penetration of your ass or two.

Just because a guy is gay or bi, doesn't necessarily mean he likes penetration of his ass.

 

[chrixxx]

Obviously since your reading this thread, and this section of Lit then clearly you enjoy the odd penetration of your ass or two.
Now my question to you is when do you first try a bit of anal play, and probably more importantly, why did you try it? Did someone do it for you, or was it something you read about and wanted to try? Then the next ultimate question would be did you ever consider yourself gay/bi because of it?

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I don't remember where I read about anal sex as a teen. I do remember that I did and used the handle of a screw driver to see what it would feel like. I know I did like it. I have never thought of myself as gay owing to the fact I have never had an emotional attachment to a guy. I just enjoy the sex.

 

[none2_none2]

I used to fantasize about adult men being naked and on all fours when I was just a young child. Their buns were always prominent in those dreams. The only thing I noticed earlier in age than their behinds was their body hair. (An uncle (through marriage) stayed in our house for a week when I was about 4.5 years of age. I remember seeing him get out of bed, and his body was covered everywhere with body hair. I wanted so bad to touch him. I remember lusting after Robert Conrad on the TV show Wild Wild West. He always wore such tight pants which showed off his shapely ass. He also had such a beautiful face. I don't remember my age then, because I don't rember when that show was on, but I would probably say 8-10 years of age.

I lived with my dad from the ages of 11-14.5. I remember how turned on I was in the swimming pool locker room when military guys were bent over to put on/take off their pants. I wanted so bad to touch their behinds, but I knew they would have probably beat the shit out of me, so I made sure they didn't know I was looking.

I should say that I was never sexually abused as a child. I have no idea why hairy men, and their asses caught my attention. They just did. I would notice penises, but it was more of a sense of wishing mine was that big. I never remember wishing I could play with a penis.

In highschool when I realized my attraction must be different from most guys, I tried to read up about sex. I remember reading on topics such as transsexuals. When I realized it meant becoming a woman (loosing your own penis), I realized that wasn't anything I wanted. I also read about str8 sex. Because of the way some book explained female orgasms, I had this mistaken concept that female orgasms created a milking affect in males. Thus, I figured gay sex was inferior and was probably all about boreing mutual masturbation since guys wouldn't have the ability to milk it out of another guy. Basically, I had no concept that there was this in/out motion that was required in both str8/gay sex.

I had sex with others starting at 21.5 years of age though I didn't get to top until I was about 23. If it hadn't been for religious hang-ups, and feelings of inadequacies, I probably would have tried it at even an earlier age. However, that might not have worked out either. I don't have any attraction to boys -- even when I was one. They just don't have the secondary male characteristics that turned me on: shape, muscle, deep voice, hairy body.

When I did finally get to top a guy at 23, I was just so natural at it. It wasn't because I was hung or so desirable. Rather, I had a natural gift to try to adjust to what the hunk on the bottom wanted. Sometimes I could sense if something I was doing was uncomfortable and adjust accordingly. If I couldn't sense what he was feeling (from watching his eyes, verbializations, or body language), I would care enough to ask. (I'm sure some of those hunks must of thought I was nice but weird for asking.)

Once I started fucking, I did get over some of my shyness. Likewise, I felt self-resentment that I hadn't tried topping a guy years earlier. However, I was never attracted to boys, so it probably wouldn't have happened. Thank goodness I was too shy to try earlier. I just can't imagine myself at the age of 12 approaching one of those masculine, hairy, military guys I saw in the swimming locker room and saying something like" Please Mister, may I stare and maybe touch your bottom."

 

[GaryC]

The first of the anal play

Obviously since your reading this thread, and this section of Lit then clearly you enjoy the odd penetration of your ass or two.
Now my question to you is when do you first try a bit of anal play, and probably more importantly, why did you try it? Did someone do it for you, or was it something you read about and wanted to try? Then the next ultimate question would be did you ever consider yourself gay/bi because of it?
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I had met a man I was very attracted to while I worked on a forestry contract, at the end of the contract spent two weeks with him. He had taught me how to suck cock, at least to his desires. The next few months I was back in college and thinking over the experience. I experimented with giving blow jobs to other students but while I enjoyed the cock sucking there was not the excitement that I had felt with that one man

At first I was disturbed to find that I enjoyed doing sex with men, that I enjoyed being gay (unlike many men I have talked to I did not grow up loving men nor desiring to have sex with men). I had finally decided that if this was what I was that I would go all the way and lose my anal virginity also. Here were men around who I was regularly sucking who would have done the deed but I was looking for a special man for the task.

In my next time I took off from college to earn money I was working on the docks of Stockton in an invstigation of fraud. There was one man who turned me on powerfully. I was afraid to approach him on his curing me of my virginity, but I became certain he was the man when one of the days he and his crew were talking about sex he had remarked “ When it comes to ass fucking I prefer a man to a woman. If I have a choice between cunt and ass the woman would have to be pretty good for me to chose her”. He went on about that he did not consider himself gay or bisexual. I went out with him a few times (dinner and a remarkably boring afternoon at a baseball game). On the third time with him I had offered to give him a massage that I promised would be the best he had ever had. While I was working on his body I admitted to him my desires and brought him to full attention with a bit of oral treatment.

The first time, even though I had prepared my ass for him, it hurt like fire and I felt brused up inside.

At that point in my life I had considered myself gay because the most intense feelings I had had sexually had been with other men. That anal was more of the result of thse thoughts.

 

[robbie_boy1]

Obviously since your reading this thread, and this section of Lit then clearly you enjoy the odd penetration of your ass or two.
Now my question to you is when do you first try a bit of anal play, and probably more importantly, why did you try it? Did someone do it for you, or was it something you read about and wanted to try? Then the next ultimate question would be did you ever consider yourself gay/bi because of it?

For me personally it was a long long time ago, I wouldn't have been much older then 10 or 11. I didn't even know about gay guys or anything like that, but I did enjoy exploring my body and trying anything to see if it feels good. Only afterwards, did I find out about anal sex and prostrate glands. I personally don't consider myself gay or bi even since I can not love a man, but I do consider myself extremely open minded and horny!

I guess it's not really an important question afterall, but I am interested to know how you all got into it in the first place.

I love it but there are those out there that only have outies and not innies....I like in and deep and safe only........just my opinion

 

[Xtacy]

Just because a guy is gay or bi, doesn't necessarily mean he likes penetration of his ass.

True but lets face it, your splitting hairs there!

 

[Clit_Spanker]

I first tried anal sex because I liked the sensation when I had masturbated with a dildo. A real cock was much better than I could have imagined. I guess that would make me bi, but I don't like labels. So I consider myself just to be very sexual and openminded.

 

[bimori]

The first time was when my g/f was giving me a really hot blowjob . I was so hot she 1st started to rub her finger on my ass this seamed to drive me crazy . Then she lubed her figer up and slowly pushed it into my ass while she sucked me hard . This was just driving me nut I was ready to explode . I had no idea what she had in mind next . I felt her toy touching my ass . She had prelubed in with her finger . She turned the speed up to high as she pressed it in my ass . It hurt so bad but felt so good . She pushed it deeper and deeper into me while she suck me harder and harder . I have to say I exploded in her mouth like never before . My cock just kept cumming and cumming . It felt like a gallon . Then she came up to my mouth to give me a kiss I thought . She liked to do that after her bj's . But this time she sticks her tongue in my mouth and then a large flow of cum . I didn't know what to do . She kept kissing me her tongue deep in my mouth full of cum . I started to swallow not even knowing it then a bit more she wouldn't stop unil ever drop of cum was gone from my mouth . This was so much fun for me I love when she get her toy out I know she will fuck me really good and feed me really well .

 

[Harrowborg]

Personally I first tried it as a kid at about age 11 when i started masturbating. growing up with sisters meant while they had holes in place, i didn't so thought I wanted to explore the only hole i had. and wow it felt good lol

 

[Seeker33]

My reason

Well, I had always had a fantasy about anal but never had the nerve until the girl I was dating in the Army wanted to have MMF with a guy in our unit. Then she said she wanted me to fuck her while he fucked me. It was awsome!

 

[rcuhljr]

Probably 15-16, I'd read about it somewhere, and I don't think it includes an inherent influence on your sexuality, merely your own level of comfort.

 

[CloseNtime]

 

[bi golly]

When I discovered masturbation, I was whacking off like crazy. My fantasy material were the mail order catalogs from Sears and Wards. I started to investigate my body parts and to see what felt good. I realized that my anus felt good when I touched it. I used my fingers and other objects. I got something stuck in me once and I freaked out. I managed to poop it out, but I was fucking worried that I would be found out. I was from a very religious family so I tried real hard to be a good Christian and not have 'those' thoughts. That lasted six months until I jacked off and my cum was sort of yellow. I thought that wasn't a good thing so I didn't have a problem jacking off when I felt I needed to keep the pipes working.

I used to think that there was something wrong with me because my anus was sensitive. I realize now that I am mostly het, but I would do a man if I had the chance. I have used a dildo on myself and it was pretty fucking great. I lay on my side and push the dildo in with one hand and while I have a light hold of my lubed up cock with the other. The feeling is mind blowing. I can imagine what a real cock feels like. I have heard that they are warm, almost hot, and soft to the touch.

I wouldn't mind meeting a guy who wants to expirement, the same as me. Women are the ones that turn my head. Always have, always will.

 

[TwilightPrince]

I have never had it done to me. The thought does turn me on immensely though. It is the submission of ones self to that kind of pleasure and control. I love the thought... but the whole idea makes me nervous at the same time.

 

[cjdc]

Can't quite remember when I started anal play but remeber doing it a lot in my mid teens. I sometimes had fantasies about guys while whacking off. Then when I started getting better quality adult mags (not easy in Britain in the 80's) which featured erect guys, the fantasies increased. When the oportunity to have sex with a guy arose by accident, it didn't seem that much of a shock and I went ahead and had a great time. I guess it seemed natural to have a cock in me.

These days I still have sex with guys as much as possible. I guess I would call myself bi (but not openly) but then again, I feel no connection with guys at all. I never walk down the street and stare at a hot guy as I would a girl. Even the sex is just animalistic and raw with a man where as with a woman it is totally different. I think it is more the cock I like as opposed to the person! Sounds kinda shallow but true.

 

[Her sissy slave]

and?

Obviously since your reading this thread, and this section of Lit then clearly you enjoy the odd penetration of your ass or two.
Now my question to you is when do you first try a bit of anal play, and probably more importantly, why did you try it? Did someone do it for you, or was it something you read about and wanted to try? Then the next ultimate question would be did you ever consider yourself gay/bi because of it?

For me personally it was a long long time ago, I wouldn't have been much older then 10 or 11. I didn't even know about gay guys or anything like that, but I did enjoy exploring my body and trying anything to see if it feels good. Only afterwards, did I find out about anal sex and prostrate glands. I personally don't consider myself gay or bi even since I can not love a man, but I do consider myself extremely open minded and horny!

I guess it's not really an important question afterall, but I am interested to know how you all got into it in the first place.

i have had it done twice..and very poorly. one was an ex girlfriend..
one was an ex mistress.

now if i can just once find someone to do it slow and easy and do it right....

ah well i can dream.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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