A question for all Hetero males out there...

[sweetsub4u]

What would be your ideal, dream first date with a woman. Give details, please. What would she wear? What music is playing? Is there music playing? What does she say? What does she do? Please describe in detail you perfect first date.

 

[FingerBandit]

That depends. Two different dreams dates, for two different woman. First is someone that I am truly interested in and thinking might be dateable. Second is someone who I am very physically attracted to but know there is no chance of a relationship. Big difference in how I hope she behaves.

 

[hardcollege4]

Hmm, gorgeous little black dress with high heels, we go out to a restaurant and talk and she laughs and all my jokes are being received well. She's interesting but also interested in me, some light flirting but not so much that it's all we can focus on. Maybe go out after dinner to listen to some live music and have some drinks, then take her home kiss goodnight if I'm lucky, if I'm really lucky blowjob and a swallow, but that's being optimistic.

 

[sweetsub4u]

Just a normal date with a girl?

 

[BurningMonkey]

She would be wearing a tasteful but flirty cocktail dress that showed off her figure nicely without being vulgar. Some soft orchestral music would be playing in the background, The lights would be subdued.

She'd be animated and engaged, and smile easily. She would like to touch and be touched--on the hand, on the wrist, on the shoulder, maybe on the back of the neck.

We would have an interesting conversation, getting to know each other, comfortable, laughing frequently and smiling often. Lots of eye contact.

When the evening was over, a kiss. Maybe gentle, maybe passionate, depending on the flavor of the evening. (It would be evening, a dinner date or cocktails.) Then we would say goodnight with a promise of getting together again soon.

I don't like to rush things; the anticipation is almost as enjoyable as the eventual connection.

 

[sexualman123]

Great bloody question.

Ideal, if I lived in a perfect world, first date.

Shows up at MY door in a trench coat and a bottle of scotch. Says “we are staying in tonight.” Drops trench coat, great sex ensues. Then, in-between rounds of great sex we discuss philosophy, physics, and how the sci-fi channel fucked up, until the sun comes up and she has to go home.
I am clearly still a juvenile.

 

[creampieu444]

xxxxx

xxxxx

 

[lonely_niceboy]

I usually like my first dates to be light hearted and fun--not so much into the heavy romance.That can blossom naturally later.

In my mind the first date is all about getting to know the person while doing something fun or low stress together. So in the winter perhaps skating in the ice rink and then going to a local starbucks to chat and drink hot chocolate would be great. In the spring or summer an outing to the museum followed by a walk in the park or going to the ice cream parlor. You can have a great date at Barnes and Noble seeing the different types of books you both like. The traditional "dinner and a movie" can be counter productive because watching a movie is a very passive activity--doesn't leave much room for interaction. In the first date it is usually very stressful (at least for me) to immediately take a girl out to a super expensive restaurant and have candles etc.

After the date is over, escort the lady back home. Don't be a creep and expect a kiss at the end of the night--if she wants to give one that's fine, but if all that happens is that she smiles and says she had a good night and would like to see you again then that is also a victory. It's all about not coming on too strong during the first date.

 

[periastron23]

We could shoot rats at the dump, go shopping at thrift stores and have a sumptuous lunch, we could do a tune up on her truck...doesn't matter what she wears or what the music is...if we are really attracted to one other amd we are together...bliss

 

[DonnaBeck]

Soul Mate

We could shoot rats at the dump, go shopping at thrift stores and have a sumptuous lunch, we could do a tune up on her truck...doesn't matter what she wears or what the music is...if we are really attracted to one other amd we are together...bliss

OMG - love at first post. Take me now!

 

[DiablosWhore]

OMG - love at first post. Take me now!

Ha! If he's big and hairy and carries a big club, then you and I are going to be fighting over him! He's mine, Dammit, leave him alone! ;=)

 

[sereneone4u]

I usually like my first dates to be light hearted and fun--not so much into the heavy romance.That can blossom naturally later.

In my mind the first date is all about getting to know the person while doing something fun or low stress together. So in the winter perhaps skating in the ice rink and then going to a local starbucks to chat and drink hot chocolate would be great. In the spring or summer an outing to the museum followed by a walk in the park or going to the ice cream parlor. You can have a great date at Barnes and Noble seeing the different types of books you both like. The traditional "dinner and a movie" can be counter productive because watching a movie is a very passive activity--doesn't leave much room for interaction. In the first date it is usually very stressful (at least for me) to immediately take a girl out to a super expensive restaurant and have candles etc.

After the date is over, escort the lady back home. Don't be a creep and expect a kiss at the end of the night--if she wants to give one that's fine, but if all that happens is that she smiles and says she had a good night and would like to see you again then that is also a victory. It's all about not coming on too strong during the first date.

Thumbs up!

 

[jonpatato]

Dressed in a short black dress but not to short. open toed wedge souled shoes.
dinner and drinks. pray that we have sex. may be just oral on first date. give and receive.
Carry her home hope for more.

 

[Alphacenturian]

What would be your ideal, dream first date with a woman. Give details, please. What would she wear? What music is playing? Is there music playing? What does she say? What does she do? Please describe in detail you perfect first date.

I meet her for dinner at one of her favorite restaurants. She's wearing a stunning sliky sleeveless red dress, no stockings, and high heels. Her hair is blond, short shinny and pulled backinto a bun. Red lipstick, and large dangling earrings. Our eyes gaze at each other, we talk and get to know each other. Soft music in the background, enjoying a bottle of wine. We laugh and I ask you to dance while we are waiting for our dinner. Your scent is amazing and electrifying as we move closer together, caressing and connecting as we enjoy this moment....

 

[InsatiableDsire]

I usually like my first dates to be light hearted and fun--not so much into the heavy romance.That can blossom naturally later.

In my mind the first date is all about getting to know the person while doing something fun or low stress together. So in the winter perhaps skating in the ice rink and then going to a local starbucks to chat and drink hot chocolate would be great. In the spring or summer an outing to the museum followed by a walk in the park or going to the ice cream parlor. You can have a great date at Barnes and Noble seeing the different types of books you both like. The traditional "dinner and a movie" can be counter productive because watching a movie is a very passive activity--doesn't leave much room for interaction. In the first date it is usually very stressful (at least for me) to immediately take a girl out to a super expensive restaurant and have candles etc.

After the date is over, escort the lady back home. Don't be a creep and expect a kiss at the end of the night--if she wants to give one that's fine, but if all that happens is that she smiles and says she had a good night and would like to see you again then that is also a victory. It's all about not coming on too strong during the first date.

Perfect

 

[mnbreastluver]

I like to be more casual, on a first date. Instead of dinner,I take them to lunch instead. She wears a tank top and shorts. You can tell a lot about a woman that wears a tank top by how low cut it is. If she's confidant and she's comfortable with her body, it might be a bit more low cut. We would go to a bar and grill type of place, and talk and get to know each other over a few drinks.If it's going well,then there's a park nearby that has a bandshell and a lake. We might decide to take a paddle boat ride, around the lake, and listen to the band from there, without it being to loud to talk. If it ends up going really well, then get to further get know each other, and end up having dinner also.

 

[pervydiver]

For the first date, I try to make it as fun as possible. If she doesn't have time, a lunch or coffee with a drive along the waterfront, just talking. If she does have the time, then dinner and some sort of activity. A walk in the park and sitting near the water, a ride on the carousel, skating, or something competitive like going to the gun range or minature golf. If she's comfortable with betting, betting on the winner with a kiss or hug (essentially whatever she's comfortable with.) No matter what we do, she'll dress with what she's comfortable in. Also I don't expect anything but having a good time. Anything else is a bonus. But as long as she enjoyed herself it was a good date.

 

[DonnaBeck]

Cat fight

Ha! If he's big and hairy and carries a big club, then you and I are going to be fighting over him! He's mine, Dammit, leave him alone! ;=)

And if he gets turned on by a good cat fight, maybe we can share him?