~a Query~

[Rusty_Rider]

Hello!

Domination as in case of discipline, I have seen some cases where a master has trained his slave to do certain activities on command. Those acts put me to think far into the fact that can by discipline a master/mistress can put the submissive (or slave) into a state where he ( the master or mistress ) controls the bodily activities of the slave. This, obviously, can be explained by the fact that by regular and reoccurring training and punishments which put the body under painful experiences (both mentally and physically) teaches the brain of a submissive individual to react at certain commands so as to keep the “body” out of pain. I never believed it was ever possible unless I saw it myself a few days ago.
This has put me to serious thinking. Is it possible that a dominant can also improve a real bad man by teaching him some manners or by teaching him to keep his temper under control? Is it possible that by regular and continuous training can a man be trained to live a sensible life by quitting drugs and other bad habits?
Okay... I know the answer to the question... but would like to hear from u guys …
Adding another question … is there any Dom that would like to take up a job of this kind?

Extending this query to a personal I would add that I need a Dom for such a purpose...
I have been livin’ alone from the age 9, and I would say I got “seasoned” with all sorts of people and I did grew up and became the bad guy... and now after plenty long years I do realize that how wrong have I been but by now the attitude became habits and habits have turned out to be character. If a Dom is willing to undertake me as a slave... I would open the book of my life to him/her... I would follow as and whatever as u say... without any questions … u can control me completely... (Sex included)...
There will be no need for revealing your identity... all u can tell me is the state where u live... unless u want to!
Anyone interested?
Or is BDSM means one Dom usin’ his/her slaves just for their sexual pleasure … without a motive …
Just for a fuck?

R

 

[Evil_Geoff]

For some Dominants, their purpose to have a slave is indeed "just for a fuck".

For others, their purpose may be to have someone to keep their household in order.

For yet a different group of Dominants their purpose may be to establish a family or dynasty and the slave is part of that family...

Dominants, male, female, trans gendered and otherwise, being people, will have their own reasons for doing whatever it is they decide to do.

The kind of relationship that you are seeking may not be an easy one to find because it will require a great deal of work and effort on the part of the Dominant in question. In my mind, I am seeing a process that would be very similar to boot camp, a breaking down of the extraneous bad habits and character traits that are littering your life currently, and then the re-programming/retraining in a new way of thought and action.

There are many who would not be willing to make that much effort.

You might find someone willing to take on a "fixer-upper" project like this though because they'll appreciate the challenge it represents. If you are willing to serve/learn from/be trained by male or female Dominants, I would recommend leaving this add up on the BDSM personals, and also placing a similar add in the GLBT personals. Not many Leathermen cruise over on this side and you might have more success finding a suitable match there.

Best of luck in your search!

 

[Rusty_Rider]

For some Dominants, their purpose to have a slave is indeed "just for a fuck".

For others, their purpose may be to have someone to keep their household in order.

For yet a different group of Dominants their purpose may be to establish a family or dynasty and the slave is part of that family...

Dominants, male, female, trans gendered and otherwise, being people, will have their own reasons for doing whatever it is they decide to do.

The kind of relationship that you are seeking may not be an easy one to find because it will require a great deal of work and effort on the part of the Dominant in question. In my mind, I am seeing a process that would be very similar to boot camp, a breaking down of the extraneous bad habits and character traits that are littering your life currently, and then the re-programming/retraining in a new way of thought and action.

There are many who would not be willing to make that much effort.

You might find someone willing to take on a "fixer-upper" project like this though because they'll appreciate the challenge it represents. If you are willing to serve/learn from/be trained by male or female Dominants, I would recommend leaving this add up on the BDSM personals, and also placing a similar add in the GLBT personals. Not many Leathermen cruise over on this side and you might have more success finding a suitable match there.

Best of luck in your search!

First of all a thanx for your interest and the effort you made to do suggest me something valuable!

Actually I am not seeking anyone to lend some 18 hours a day on me. although I would like ( or anyone else would do the same !) a dom who can indulge with you as much as possible. But I have this in mind:
I can write the whole day activities, starting from the minutest details and explaining the whole incidents .. and the dom can reply back with his/her "instructions/punishmenst" .. I abide to follow .. and post/reply back all the details .. this can reduce the effort on the dom side .. and one can think of it the whole day or wenever he/she gets time and can post me the message either from home/work .. as he/she is comfortable .. rest depends how well it goes!
I know how hard it is to reform .. the dom can control my food, alcohol control .. exercise .. sleep .. whateva she/he may like!

maybe I didnt knew how to put it there!
I think i need someone's help for that as well ..
Sincere thanx for ur response!
~R~

 

[Etoile]

Actually I am not seeking anyone to lend some 18 hours a day on me. although I would like ( or anyone else would do the same !) a dom who can indulge with you as much as possible. But I have this in mind:
I can write the whole day activities, starting from the minutest details and explaining the whole incidents .. and the dom can reply back with his/her "instructions/punishmenst" .. I abide to follow .. and post/reply back all the details .. this can reduce the effort on the dom side .. and one can think of it the whole day or wenever he/she gets time and can post me the message either from home/work .. as he/she is comfortable .. rest depends how well it goes!
I know how hard it is to reform .. the dom can control my food, alcohol control .. exercise .. sleep .. whateva she/he may like!

Again, this is only going to work if you want to change. If you don't want to make this change yourself, you will end up lying in whatever you write to him/her.