lonely_hubby60
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For a curious woman, who feels some voids in her life like me; voids that both of us find disturbing.
Do you get the feeling now and then that your life is missing some essential aspects? Being loved and cared about in a way you desire, for instance. And feeling enticed and aroused, again the way you desire it?
If you tick like me, you crave for enticement of your intellect, arousal of your libido, and fondling of your soul, with a bit of empathy thrown in now and then. Plus a far deeper understanding of your innermost cares and aspirations in life, than you are getting it from signifiant people close to you. Things you were hoping to be part of your marriage but which are not any longer.
Most likely you have good reasons to continue your marriage, like I do, and leaving your spouse is not an option. But does that really mean for you to resign to these essential aspects missing for the rest of your life? I would think not, for myself at least.
And the solution that I envision, could become a solution for you also: a mail companionship with each other, to compensate at least partly, for what we are not getting from our spouses.
Fortunately I have enjoyed some form of such a connection earlier and it had helped me much. But it did not last and it was not as intensive as I would have liked. This is what I hope to achieve better now.
How about yourself? Do you see yourself described by my ad, to a large extent? And do you seek a significant change, and are prepared for some effort to achieve it?
Do you get the feeling now and then that your life is missing some essential aspects? Being loved and cared about in a way you desire, for instance. And feeling enticed and aroused, again the way you desire it?
If you tick like me, you crave for enticement of your intellect, arousal of your libido, and fondling of your soul, with a bit of empathy thrown in now and then. Plus a far deeper understanding of your innermost cares and aspirations in life, than you are getting it from signifiant people close to you. Things you were hoping to be part of your marriage but which are not any longer.
Most likely you have good reasons to continue your marriage, like I do, and leaving your spouse is not an option. But does that really mean for you to resign to these essential aspects missing for the rest of your life? I would think not, for myself at least.
And the solution that I envision, could become a solution for you also: a mail companionship with each other, to compensate at least partly, for what we are not getting from our spouses.
Fortunately I have enjoyed some form of such a connection earlier and it had helped me much. But it did not last and it was not as intensive as I would have liked. This is what I hope to achieve better now.
How about yourself? Do you see yourself described by my ad, to a large extent? And do you seek a significant change, and are prepared for some effort to achieve it?
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