A Peak Inside - Detailed Sex Diary

[Westman123]

I'm trying something out, and we'll see how it works.

I like real and authentic in all aspects of life. I don't contribute much online, but thought if there are others out there that are like me, that maybe I could share something I'd like to read. And I'd enjoy it and maybe others would too.

So this is a bit of a sex diary, lots of details, not holding back the human moments.

I'm 30's, as is my wife. We have kids, jobs, and a nice life in a nice town with nice friends.

Like most married couples, our sex life has been up and down. But we work at it and keep finding new ways to keep it exciting.

She's pretty, slightly curvy, with perky tits and a great ass. I'm a runner and stay in good shape.

Our sexcapades are usually twice a week - once very close and love-making, once intense and boundary pushing. That's just the rhythm we found, it wasn't intentional.

But we've come to like the idea of giving each other something to think about during our daily lives....the dirty secret idea definitely drives us when life allows it.

To get started with a short story.....one thing we've been paying attention to and talking about is how she contracts after her first orgasm and getting close to her second. We usually go for two, and lately we've been going REALLY slow when she brings the vibrator back to her clit. When we go slow I can feel all along my cock where her pussy is contracting and squeezing me. Sometimes its right at the base, sometimes further up. At times the squeezing almost hurts - it doesn't, but it's VERY strong. The last time we did this, she was on top, and I waited until I felt her wetness coming back (there's some time where she's not as naturally lubed after that first orgasm) to grab her hips and hold her down/steady so I could fuck her at the speed/depth that I wanted. She totally gave in, and as she relaxed she moan and whispered 'yes' and I filled her while she collapsed on me.

More specifics to come...the good and the bad.

 

[Westman123]

For a long time we had a very vanilla sex life. Lots of good feelings, but not memorable. That was okay, but as we got into our 30's I pushed us a little more. I think the instigator was having some friends who talked fairly openly about their sex life and I realized it was something we hadn't done. Like - we had a routine and thought that was what it was.

More details on that path someday. But here's a recent chapter.

I ask and suggest things, but very rarely (if ever?) do I push on her tasting herself in any way. I figure that's not something I should push on. A few times I've made out with her after I've gone down on her - most times she turned away, but over the past few months she hasn't, and she actually seemed to enjoy it. I noticed it for sure. Not my place to push though, so I didn't change what I do.

The other night, after a great start of a vibrator orgasm for her, followed by me fucking her deeply for a few minutes, we changed positions. During the change she immediately started giving me oral - no requesting or urging. She had NEVER done that after I had been inside her. I could tell she hesitated just a little, but was clearly very into it.

Her second orgasm, while on top of me, was huge.

Mine was pretty big too, with both hand wrapped around her ass and my face between her breasts.

So now, I've sexy texted her about this just a little while she's at work, and yes, I can tell she liked the dirtyness of it.

 

[Kissjoanie]

For a long time we had a very vanilla sex life. Lots of good feelings, but not memorable. That was okay, but as we got into our 30's I pushed us a little more. I think the instigator was having some friends who talked fairly openly about their sex life and I realized it was something we hadn't done. Like - we had a routine and thought that was what it was.

More details on that path someday. But here's a recent chapter.

I ask and suggest things, but very rarely (if ever?) do I push on her tasting herself in any way. I figure that's not something I should push on. A few times I've made out with her after I've gone down on her - most times she turned away, but over the past few months she hasn't, and she actually seemed to enjoy it. I noticed it for sure. Not my place to push though, so I didn't change what I do.

The other night, after a great start of a vibrator orgasm for her, followed by me fucking her deeply for a few minutes, we changed positions. During the change she immediately started giving me oral - no requesting or urging. She had NEVER done that after I had been inside her. I could tell she hesitated just a little, but was clearly very into it.

Her second orgasm, while on top of me, was huge.

Mine was pretty big too, with both hand wrapped around her ass and my face between her breasts.

So now, I've sexy texted her about this just a little while she's at work, and yes, I can tell she liked the dirtyness of it.

So I love my own taste and my girlfriend also tastes amazing.

 

[Westman123]

So I love my own taste and my girlfriend also tastes amazing.

Guess we can add another lady to the roster of enjoying the taste then! I actually find it really hot that she came on to it her own way. I've suggested many things that she's tried and loved (just a few that she hasn't loved), and that's been great. But it's WAY hotter when she comes to it on her own.

Probably didn't hurt that I let out a little sigh/moan often when I first go down on her. She really does taste great, and it's maybe worked its way into her head a little!

 

[Westman123]

But it doesn't all go well.

After we had our first realization that we needed to evolve things, I suggested one of those apps with quizzes you take, showing the 'yes' answers to the other. At that point I was very up for trying everything and getting immersed in growing together.

She was much more iterative. Let's add one thing (a toy, a position, etc) and try it a few times. If it sticks, great, add something else. If not, move on with something else.

But for a good long while I didn't really recognize that difference in approach. So with the app, for instance, there was way too many concepts in there that she couldn't picture. But for me, it got me excited about having the conversation.

So it did lead to lots of miscommunications, or nights where expectations weren't aligned. And on some of those nights I'd be anxious, and if something didn't go smoothly I'd take it personally and get kind of down about it. And maybe end the night early (before I finished, basically), leading to both of us being a little confused and either passive aggressive or walking on eggshells the next day.

In the end, I probably dropped my expectations down a little, but it lead to more positive and good feelings for sure.

Okay back to the sexy stuff soon.