a masturbation incident

Southernhelle

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ok,
scenario: a girl shares a room with a gorgeous, well-endowed, intelligent, understanding, funny, good-natured, good-humored, unashamed, anabashed male, one with whom she has grown increasingly comfortable, one with whom she can discuss religion and sunrises and porn and plunging someone else's shit after they fuck the toilet up and all that crap, ok, so this girl and this guy share a bedroom, but it's platonic as far as a physical relationship..so one night the girl has insomnia..is laying there on her own bed daydreaming, and hears the beginning and continuance of her roommate getting himself off. the girl tries to control her breathing so that she does not give away the fact that she is awake, and once the deed is done, everything is fine..no mention the next morning, when for some inexplicable reason the girl and the guy both wake up at 5:30 and stand outside in the dark smoking cigarettes and talking about the aforementioned sunrises.

my take: of course this happened to me this morning. I thought it was cool as shit, listening to such an intimate happening, it was extremely erotic, and caused endless possibilities (being female, i naturally overanalyze everything)..it's possible he knew I was awake, it's possible that he didn't, it's NOT possible it was a wet dream (I've heard one of them before; this was long and slow and deliberate), so many things are possible..I was in no way embarassed..and in truth a few weeks ago we "jokingly" agreed that masturbation on either of our parts was an acceptable thing if the urge hit while not alone.

so my questions:
for men: is this a difficult thing to do in front of a girl? do you think there's a good possibility that he thought I was asleep? would it be difficult to decide to masturbate knowing full well that the other person in the room COULD be awake? and any feedback of course.

for women: what would you do? mention it? keep it in your memory? would any of you be grossed out or horified or embarassed? again, any feedback you have would be interesting.

my living situation is weird, it's wonderful though..so I don't know if many of you can really completely relate..but try. please. it's on my mind a lot today.
 
I would keep the incident in the back of my mind, my private little memory. If you say something, it may never happen again.

Obviously, I would have found the incident to be fascinating and I imagine (I have to, I wasn't there) I would feel just a tad closer to him.
 
I agree with Kitty, but I also know I would have needed to have a little self loving myself after that. Good for you and not embarassing him, cause no matter how close you are, that might have pushed it. Then maybe not. Maybe you just missed a Forum letter.
 
"You" may think it's platonic....

"He" may agree it's platonic - but, but, but..... he is a guy - therefore - it's not platonic.

He wants you! Prepare yourself for the inevitable closure on this highly probable concept.

It's your call.

Yes, I've (and still often do) masturbate in front of and for my woman - she likes it - therefore for me it is easy.
 
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I'm thinking he didn't know you were awake. Normally I would be so into the MB that I wouldn't notice the breathing of someone else in the room. I would love to have my lover watch me and I think most men are like me. Most men would also love to watch you as well. Such a turn on!! So there you have it. It must have been a truly erotic experience!!
 
when the time comes, no doubt, it's going to be like a toaster dropped in a full bathtub...god damn..it's like mental fucking sometimes..so yeah. I've kind of come to the same conclusion that Sparky did, and I'm happy as hell. It's like, talking was first, then getting comfortable with all the other bits...and I'm proud of myself, this is the longest something like this has gone on..it's gone from general lust to annoyance that nothing happened to fucking high anticipation of what's coming..it'll happen...good fuel, anyway.

yeah, I was aching. but I figure I'll ease myself into the whole thing, well, not right away. next week. heh.

damn you guys are fast!
 
This is us remember? All we can talk about is fucking, making love and masturbation. Silly useless threads that demean the whole site.
Are you kidding? You behaved? Got to hand it to you. Brave and strong girl.
 
Originally posted by SouthernHelle
for men: is this a difficult thing to do in front of a girl? do you think there's a good possibility that he thought I was asleep? would it be difficult to decide to masturbate knowing full well that the other person in the room COULD be awake? and any feedback of course.

No not really. Not in that scenario. However spanking the monkey while some impartial party was intensely watching. Well that's a whole other ball game....so to speak.

However if confronted with the incident may just make me turn into about 35 shades of red.

I do think Sparky is right though. The dude wants you.
 
Either he thought you were asleep or he wanted (and expected) you to join in before he climaxed. It's not likely he could just ignore the fact that you were in the room awake without including you in his fantasy.

As for your platonic relationship, I believe Billy Crystal put that myth in its place in the "When Harry Met Sally" movie. Even if we never actually get to the point of making the move, we want to have sex.
 
Well, I for one think he wanted to see what your reaction would be and was probably hoping *eg* that you would react and help finish the deed.

I think he tested a boundary to see what would happen and since you did not object or raise anything.......it will elevate to another level.....SOON. Have fun and enjoy it.
 
Speaking for me...I love the idea of a woman masturbating in front of me as well as me masturbating in front of her. It is possible he did not know if you were awake or not, but that he was imagining you lying there watching him.

If it was me...I would not mind at all if you told me (especially if you also told me how fascinating, wonderful, and erotic you found it)
 
Humm... now wouldn't this be an interesting scnero for a story?? ~s~ You simply must let us know what happens!! :) And this might not be the best advice (or at least not the best line, but I gotta say it!) If (when) it happens next time, go with the line from American Pie, "You look like you could use a hand" ~giggles~ Personally, if I witnessed something like that (never have unfortunately) I would be completely and totally turned on...
 
Oh my

I would have been very turned on. It is so erotic to watch him stroke his cock. If it had been my hubby, I would have joined him in one way or another... but someone you've never fucked - hard to overcome those old inhibitions.


I do agree with JackFlash and Chuckus that he was waiting or hoping for your reaction, to take it to the next level. Why else would he have done it with you in the room? I bet he was imagining that you would hear him, see what he was doing, and join in. Probably a significant part of the fantasy scenario he had going on there.

What next? Keep us posted on developments. I'm dying to know what happens. Bet he takes it further.
 
huh?

first of all, females do not have the market cornered on overanalysis.

I think that I can say "I know what you mean..."

I guess it depends on the person. I have had girlfriends with whom uninhibitedness was "god". I have had others for whom propriety was "god."

You are asking something totally different, I think.

In the bedroom, I try to "keep in the spirit of things," but not without surprises... :)

Shit... I can't think now... to many Johnny Walkers... to many pussies in my mental face...

OK... baby... what was ur name? Sugar... go go go... it's oK... don't worry. the possibilities for a truly liberating experience (note: does not necessarily = copulation, etc,) is great, if your roomie can handle it.

Dunno if I could... never was quite in ur position.
 
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